This statement seems absolutely paradoxical to the norm, I know. But the records say that men who are smart, intelligent and suave often fail to attract women that are at par with them. Well yes, this is very true. Our previous articles have been based on this only and we have been extensively talking about the reasons that cause these men towards failing this way.

Sad it is but true. Smart and intelligent men are often seen brooding over reasons that keep women away from them. Alright, one of them is poor social skills. Yes, this is strange but true. I have often found intelligent men too laid back when it comes to communicating with people in order to socialize and make a positive impression. These people are otherwise successful in work, extremely sharp in gauging the business trends but when it comes to reaching out to a women’s heart, I don’t know what happens to them. In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don’t even have “social skills” and “be a cool guy that people like” in their “MENTAL MODEL” of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.

Social communication is an art that needs to be mastered keeping in mind the likes and dislikes of a lady, the social courtesies, gestures, expressions and clothing too. It is all about wearing your attitude though. Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans… and if you don’t have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women. Remember you won’t ever get women by thinking about them, you’ll have to get up and get going. Learn the tricks of the trade and start acting, NOW!

Fine, let’s look at some more reasons:
You know I have seen a quality in smart guys that fascinates the hell out of me. They come up with all the reasons why everything won’t work when it comes to women and dating. They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions. What I mean to say is what is the need to think negative even before trying to date a woman? That sounds certainly silly. Because smart guys don’t understand women, and they don’t understand what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They’re wrong before they even start figuring!

My point is you must try to overcome this habit if you have it. Thinking negative before you have even tried to talk to a girl, just makes no sense.

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