Consider this scenario- You have at last met the girl of your dreams, your sole mate. Not only that, you have gone through the whole rigmarole of the dating process and have come out with flying colours.  So the next obvious step according to you is marriage. But she doesn’t seem to be ready for it!!!

Marriage is on your mind but the thought has not stuck your girlfriend.  Though marriage is your idea, no amount of begging or pleading can force her to walk down the isle.
So do you negotiate marriage with a woman even if she is not ready for it?

Not necessarily.

Are you living with your girl friend? Because if that is the case and you are in a live-in relationship with her, it can become a big deterrent. It will pose a threat in taking the relationship to the next level-marriage.

So the best thing for you is to stop living with your girlfriend. You deserve more than hoping that this arrangement of living together is one step towards becoming the husband you crave to be. Believe me it is no substitute for the real thing.

So why is that your girlfriends can’t seem to like the idea of marriage? Especially when you have been living together and giving her everything that goes with the marriage?

It seems as if you have not been able to make any impact on her when you decided to live with her. When I say “impact” I mean that you have already prepared an environment where she gets all the perks and privileges of a wife sans the emotional and legal binding. The fact of the matter is that she has not fully understood the difference between you being the live-in boyfriend and being her husband.

Actually, her brain is thanking you for it because deep inside of her, she knows that with the little bit of freedom she still has, she’s still has the choice to take her own sweet time and decide on the next step. You are in no way threatening her safe haven that she has created for herself. It is not only delusional for her but also for you.

Don’t shower her with everything, nor give her too much love - NO!

Instead give a little bit at a time in order to test her to see whether she’s a real woman who can stay in your heart and home. That’s when she’ll get the opportunity to decide whether you ‘re really her Prince Charming.

And if she does, she will be waiting with baited breath for you to pop up the “question” soon!!!

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