You could say these are some secrets about women, men fail to understand and hence even before they set their foundations in a relationship, they find themselves out of it. Let’s look at some of these.

Being too much of a nice guy doesn’t really help all the time!
Have you ever seen that some very attractive women never seem to be getting attracted to guys who are truly good in real sense? Well, this is quite a common phenomenon. You might have often seen your so called attractive female friends dating men who are real ‘jerks’ and even if you’ve wanted, they’ve never really shown any interest in you.

The answer is right here!
Women do not necessarily base their choices on men who are ‘nice’. They find it a bit too mundane. They choose men they feel strongly attracted to. In other words, they pick men they feel a strong gut level attraction for. So can’t nice guys be attractive? No, not for women at least. Being nice doesn’t make a woman feel that powerfully attracted to them. Yes, this may sound weird, saddening and absolutely illogical but it is a proven fact and you need to get over. Until you accept this fact and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER have the success with women that you want. There should be some streak of madness in you. Something that’s extremely interesting for the opposite sex to get attracted to.

Never try to convince a woman about you!
So what do you do when you find the woman you really like but shows no active interest in you? Well, the thing that most guys do is they try to convince the girl towards liking them to the best of their abilities. Okay, lets get it right. You can never change the way a woman feels when it comes to attraction. It is the most impossible thing to expect on earth. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”. When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

But we still do it! It is just wastage of energy so avoid doing it!
These are a few of the many things we have for you towards understanding how a woman feels and thinks about men. There are no classifications, no rules and no decrees. Only paradoxes so before you fail another attempt to lure a woman, lets read some more reasons for the same in our forth coming articles!

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