John Gray may have expressed different views in his book, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus“, but the fact is that every one, including men and women, like to be appreciated and the passion flames can reach new heights with words. Let us read about some simple yet highly effective things to say in bed to give a new meaning to sexual life.

Before we read any further, it is worth noting here that women often hide things when it comes to revealing their sexual preferences and this holds good even during sexual encounters. This is often the reason why most women are left unsatisfied and do not attain orgasms (some display fake orgasms to satisfy their partners). However, things can be satisfying for both the partners by expression of thoughts.

The first thing that a male should say before indulging into foreplay will be something like, “I want to make you feel good” or “I love the way you taste“. Remember, you may like a certain act during the entire thing but the same may not be enjoyed by the other one but you can surely get it done and help your partner enjoy by saying a few good things. It is always recommended that you appreciate the body part of your partner most appreciated by her. After all, the fairer sex is known to be notorious and being sensitive to clumsy compliments about their bodies and you are just doing the best thing, which she expected from you.

Most men prefer to share their own sexual fantasies and often neglect fantasies of their partner in bed. If you really want her to make the first move and be bold, you should make her as comfortable as you can. If the woman makes a mistake, it is best to say that you did like what she just did, but she will be feeling more pleasure if she did something like this (put your version here).

After you are done, do not leave the bed like you have just received an emergency call. Stay with the girl of your dreams as this is the time when she needs you the most. A little time spent after the activity will help her stay close to you, emotionally and physically, today and tomorrow. It is highly recommended that you always appreciate the acts and moves of your partner after you are having a word with her and ask her what she liked the most, and what she expects in the next encounter. Never break the trust of your partner by sharing the beautiful moments spent together with the world, some things are best kept private. Respect her privacy and emotions, and she will never keep you unsatisfied.

Follow these tips on things to say in bed and get ready for some more mutually satisfying performances in the bed.

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