When mutual infatuation between people grows and the initial start has to be given, its usually a very tight spot that puts both the male and the female into a situation that is envitable, the entire question of who should initiate?

Generally and ideally it is the guy who starts the conversation but in times when the guy or male is to introvert the girls can take the upper hand and also continue but that’s usually very rare.
Coming upon the boy’s side and as to giving tips to start their art of impressing the girl which is usually called flirting is quite an interesting scenario to recount.
Well, phone calls and telephonic conversations

stretching for almost close to an hour are one of the first signs that would indicate to a girl that you seem to be interested in her.

Once the conversations have the capacity to exceed for more than an hour with newer topics to discuss upon gives also an indication to the guy that he’s got the right gal. as a guy you should make sure that you praise her enough but not so as for her to show the egoistic girl attitude, also start becoming open with her and telling her about your routine in life, this way the girl will feel important and cared for and the trust factor for a simple relationship like friendship will also mature and develop.

Once quite comfortable discussing routines and interests probe further into her friends that she trusts a lot, give way and lend a ear when she seems to be crying her gut out to you when she’s distressed.

When such a stage is reached apt flirting can be started by teasing her and being a bit naughty at times.

When going pout alone with each other for lunch or a small date3 you could always comment on her style of dressing and speak your heart out to her, you can be sure she will hear every word you say if you have managed to enter her intimate circle of people and you can see your words being implied the next time you see her but make sure you don’t offend her or hurt her seriously.

Also to get more personal at the art of flirting and to make sure she can be your gal introduce her to your intimate group and make her a part of your life and let her get involved in it too.Make sure that whatever you do, it could be as small as just holding hands or fiddling her hair she should not get you wrong and start despising you. Each step in this art has a particular time frame.

Since you’re dealing with the heart and emotions it’s important you know what she feels and how she feels about it.

Giving her small gifts at time s which are perishable and not too expensive to will make her happy and wanted that will do wonders to her trust on you.chocolates, flowers or treating her to her favourite dish at her favourite restaurant will do great wonders and have a long term effect.

All said and done it’s a safe and proven path too wooing your girl in the best and most cheery method that keeps both happy and committed to each other.

Another behaviour you must keep in mind is that you should be smooth and do not force yourself or get to close unnecessarily. Wait to see if you get reciprocated feelings.

So go out5 and try your luck and improve your skills!!!!!!

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