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Tue, October 28, 2008 7:12 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 We know that conversing about your feelings can be quite uncomfortable but I order to keep your girl happy, you are going to do a bit of soul baring. Don’t panic: a little goes a long way. Simply knit on any of the following topic and you will very easily cover up your communication quota.
YOUR CHILDHOOD
Remember when your dad taught you how o ride a bicycle as a kid?Sure, it may sound dim and sentimental to you but girls love that stuff. Women tend to be critical about their own childhood, so if you give your girl a little glimpse of your childhood, she gets a fuller picture of who you are. Hearing simple things like your boarding-school stories, your first pet or you obsession with cricket will be enough to quench her thirst.
YOUR WORK
Unless you are into a job which has a top undisclosed mission, you are supposed to be cool about discussing your job. So you can tell her when you had a good day and what made it so good, what frustrations you are facing, and where you plan to end up career-wise.
Men often describe themselves by what they opt to do to earn a living, and by discussing about it, you show her a side of your persona that she may not get to see otherwise.
WHY YOU ARE INTO HER
You may have previously let her know that she’s pretty or she rocks your world, but your chick wants sweet particulars. She desires to experience that you price her and see her for who she truly is.
To reinforce that, compliment her on the less evident things she does that appeal to you too much. No that doesn’t mean you have to narrate a laundry list of love –you stuff. Just focus on key things like the way she laughs or how well she treats her and his friends
THE FUTURE
You may not have a five –year plan, but you’ve most likely thought about where you would like to be down the road.
Do you want to start a new and your own company someday, etc. she is going to want to hear it.
When you share your long term goals and dreams, she not only sees what kind of man you are when you slip away your typical day-to-day exterior, but she also gets a clue as to how compatible you will be in future.
So, if you wonder what to talk, you have with you some topics women love to listen.
Tags: work, Childhood, Future
Fri, October 3, 2008 11:09 am By James Coolridge
 When the thought of a make out session is hijacked by your impending work deadlines, serious damage control is in order.
At times you might have had a terrible day at work, long hours of meetings, and your phone continuously ringing. All you can think of is your comfortable bed with no, not your partner, but some pillows for company. If such is the case you are not alone in the race. Job pressure, big city blues, overall lack of time leads to lack of intimacy in the bedroom. In other words, your interest to intimate fades out with time. You start considering it as a work and stop enjoying even the thought of intimating. The main culprit is nothing but fatigue-both physical and mental.
Here are a few tips that will help you overcome your problem:
• If you are too tired to do it at night try morning sex.Its the time when you are well rested. If low energy is the problem try and work out more.
• You can try mood enhancers such as aromatherapy, sexy scents or sexy thoughts, play yours and your partner’s favorite music.
• Don’t treat sex as a job that you have to get over with as fast as possible. Give time to lovemaking. Try and be romantic.
• If there is no time plan some exclusive time for lovemaking. And try and make that time the most memorable one which you can cherish for times to come.
• Since your relationship is some years old now don’t take each other for granted. If you do so there would be no charm left in your relationship.
• If you want to relax your self when you back from office meditate and shed all stress and anxiety and then think of lovemaking.
• Good sex will energize you emotionally and the adrenaline rush can result in high energy levels.
Sex life should be important for you. You have to prioritize and make the effort to create the ambience or schedule time for it.Sex is said to be the glue that holds couples together and also remember that will be the first one to wear out when you are busy with work or over stressed in life. Sexual frustration can precipitate a downward spiral and pull you down helplessly .It also prevents you from being able to reduce your stress. No sex leads to even less sex.
Tags: Love, Relationship, Sex, work, stress
Sat, July 19, 2008 10:01 am By Jeff Dwelle
 A legal divorce may give couples a short term relief from a tough and unbearable relationship. But on a long term basis, divorce is a trauma. It is more painful and traumatic when couples start to feel the gap in their life and value the importance of their ex.
There may be several reasons for couples opting for divorce. We have tried to enlist some of possible reasons for couples going for this last resort.
Dissatisfaction: Dissatisfaction in a relationship is one of the main causes behind divorce. This may be either physical or mental dissatisfaction. But in most of the cases, a physical dissatisfaction leads to divorce. A couple decides to split when either of them starts thinking that the other half is not living upto their expectations or he/she is a total mismatch for him/her.
Extra marital affair: The wife or husband may have an extra marital affair. He/she may then start comparing their spouse with current partner and find that it will is better to discontinue the existing relationship and start their life with a new partner.
Communication gap: We should accept the fact that the world is mad behind money and other materialistic things. When people go crazy behind earning money, they don’t find time to spend with spouse. This widens the gaps between them. This lack of communication leads to dissatisfaction in emotional as well as physical relations and lessens the interest in spouse.
Apart from these, there are financial problems, sense of insecurity in relations that contribute to the increasing divorce cases. It is sad that people often forget that these problems are not incurable. They can be solved on time to avoid the after-effects of a divorce.
Tags: divorce, work, Children, busy, stress
Fri, July 18, 2008 5:07 am By Dennis Hays
 Few years ago, office romance was taboo. They often resulted in dismissal for those unfortunate enough to get caught. But things are not the same. Let us have a reality check. Consider fact number one: we spend almost half of our waking hours at work. Fact number two: we all are sexual creatures who find it difficult to live without companions. Fact number three: If we are giving exactly what the company wants from us professionally, we won’t hesitate to engage ourselves in office romance.
The good news is that many companies today realize and even support this! Others won’t support it, but they do acknowledge and even tolerate it in silence. Of course, still there are those orthodox rulebook organizations out there.
If you are engaged in an office romance, or thinking about getting involved in one, here are a few things to help you negotiate the path with grace and composure.
1. Personal communication prohibited!: No matter how tempting it might be to jot send a quick email about meeting after work, or an instant message to just say ‘hi’, DON’T! Keep the personal for after work.
2. Be friendly, but professional when you are at work: You don’t want to act stiff or cold, do you? So, deal the business of the day with her in a friendly and cordial way.
3. Be sensitive to co-workers: Of course, everyone in the office knows about you and your “friend,” so you have to go out of your way to make your relationship appear picture perfect relative to the business at hand. In other words, even though they know, behave in such a way as they forget, or it just isn’t an issue, which it shouldn’t be.
4. Don’t go off alone for coffee or lunch breaks: We know that if you weren’t working together you’d have lunch all the time. Again, you have to think about the working environment and your co-workers and the limitation of having your relationship in everyone’s face every day.
Tags: Dating, Workplace, romance, work, office, casual, breaks, professional
Tue, June 17, 2008 10:34 am By James Coolridge
 Today, people are familiar with marriage as the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony. They see marriage as a union of two people who have agreed to live as one and start a family of their own. Marriage is another tenure to which people will be venturing out to a new phase of their lives and while many would find it challenging and exciting, it remains that marriage is more than these things.
For one thing, marriage is another stage of adjustment for both parties. It is entirely different to live in an age of independence where husband and wife have to make it on their own without the help of their parents. This is the ideal way towards married life but for some people, feeling that they cannot make it on their own without support from their families totally defeats the purpose.
We often hear of breakups and misunderstandings. These stem from the fact that they overlook the actual purpose of marriage and the real challenges that they bring. Even if people have known each other for most parts of their lives, all of these are due to change once married life is entered. You see each other everyday and notice the hidden habits which may or may not suit your liking. That is where the trouble starts.
Time management is another issue that normally behests marriages. With one or both working, the whole purpose of working is personal achievement and of course financial support for their daily needs. Many couples also want the attention and quality time from their partners. But given that their worlds will surely vary in the marital stage, these factors of time management are bound to be among the reasons why two people will have differences to settle.
There are plenty of things to consider before tying the knot. Most of them are ideal and easy to listen to. But the reality is that everything becomes entirely different when you are already there and on the verge of implementation. This is where that famous phrase becomes really useful; “Actions Speak Louder than Word”.
Tags: Love, Relationship, Marriage, trust., work, happiness, dedication
Fri, May 30, 2008 12:07 pm By James Coolridge
 There are a number of ways to give out a phone number without actually giving out a phone number:
1. I’m listed. If you want the person to get in touch, make sure you’ve made the listing clear as it appears in the phone book. In many cases, though, directing someone to the phone book means you’ve given out your home address as well. You can be a bit suaver but if your name is
hard to spell, you may have blown the deal.
2. Business card. A business card usually has a work phone number, often a fax number, a business address, and an e-mail address. If you don’t have a business card, for very little money, you can have one printed up that gives out whatever information you want to share. (You can usually get around 500 business cards for between $15 and $25 or less.) If you are self-employed or work at home, having a business card can make you feel a little more professional as well.
3. Home address. Giving out a home address is a bit risky. Of course, sooner or later, if the two of you hook up, you’re very likely to exchange home addresses. The question is, sooner or later? My advice is later - when you’re sure this is someone you trust to behave respectfully and appropriately after he or she knows where you live. If you have even the most minor inkling that this person may surprise you by lurking on your doorstep, trust your instinct for heaven’s sake, and don’t give out your address.
4. E-mail. For many folks, giving out an e-mail address is a safer alternative than giving out a phone number. Of course, you have to balance your sense of safety and your need for intimacy. I may be old-fashioned, but I think that actually hearing a voice is a nice way to begin to connect with someone.
Tags: Phone, number, woman, work, home, cell
Thu, May 29, 2008 12:08 pm By James Coolridge
 So you have met your girl on a date and it seems that she likes you too. This is indeed good news! Now what’s next? How are you gonna keep in touch with her? Well, the answer is as simple as a phone call! Yes, move a step forward, go, and get her number. Hey, wait! Don’t you wanna know how to get her digits with ease? Read on.
Let’s face it- women find it uncomfortable to reveal out their phone numbers to those whom they don’t know pretty well. So, take some efforts. Consider her natural cautiousness. Try to instil her trust in you.
First, you should give your phone number or email address instead of bluntly asking her to give you hers. This is a trick to let her know that you seriously want to stay in touch.
It is time to intensify the dating game. Tell her that you really enjoyed talking to her and you would like to stay in touch. Say something like “Let’s exchange phone numbers so we can keep in touch and maybe get together sometime”.
Next, write your information and give it to her and you can now expect to get the same response. If she reveals out her digits, you are all set. If not, then you need to wait for her to contact you because pressurizing her will spoil the whole game.
Tags: Phone, number, woman, work, home, cell
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