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Posts Tagged ‘Women’
Thu, November 20, 2008 6:28 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 This is one thing I have always wondered since many years now when the winter snow takes over for half a year and you are left hunting for some pretty faces but you never get to see one. I am sure some of you would also agree with me on this because in winters I have often seem men so very hard pressed to spot even a single damsel down the cafeteria or the theatre. The only things you get to see all around are humans clad in coats, hats and scarves and you wonder where in the world all the girls have gone!
The moment summer begins and sunshine falls on your panes, you know that spring/summer is welcoming you with open arms. The sky turns orange and the local public area suddenly becomes a temple of female beauty. What I am left wondering is, where do they come from? For good 6 months, these goddesses are not to be seen any where; perhaps hibernating in Ibiza or Alaska I suppose. They are not to be spotted either in mine or even my friends’ offices.
The only option you are left with is coming to the conclusion that these girls are certainly shipped in for the summer to your city to drive you crazy. To me this has always been a perennial mystery. Sometimes I also end up thinking that it must be a figment of my imagination.
Whatever it is, it is a great time of the year because where you yourself are getting ready to shift from being over clad in winters to lazy shift to shorts and t-shirts, women turn into sun-worshipping supermodels at the drop of the hat.
So my advice to all of those who are expecting some spice in a foreign country and are planning a vacation, please make your trips in summers as women here, gentlemen as my observation are solar powered!
Tags: Women, impressing women, dating women, babes, Solar powered
Wed, November 19, 2008 6:22 am By James Coolridge
 I have often heard men talking about various attributes they intend to see in their women. She should be smart, intelligent, loving, romantic, hot and beautiful. This ‘all in one’ package is dreamt by most men around the globe but in return of expecting this from our ladies, we miss what our ladies would want to see in us. Or to be more precise, do we ourselves have the right qualities to attract such women towards us? Well, the solution to all of this is but one. Let’s have a look!
Have you ever noticed that when you are not in a good mood, every one around you also looks irritable? This happens because your mood is capable of influencing not only your own behavior but also of those around you.
If you intend to attract smart attractive women towards you, then you need to exude the similar kind of energy from yourself as well. In simple words, you need to be happy. Because when you are happy from your heart, you spread the similar of vibes around you and people sharing the same emotion will get attracted towards you. There are times when we often demean yourselves and our circumstances, isn’t it? What do you think we are doing by that? We are developing a foul emotion within us and if we don’t like ourselves for some reason, we’ll grow grumpy and this is certainly not going to attract intelligent women towards us.
In fact all aspects in your life are inter-related. Consider you are at a club with some mates enjoying your brew. It’s Friday night and you achieved a ton during the past week at your job. You took out another CD this week for 20k because financially you’re very responsible, and tomorrow your new surfboard will be done at the shapers! All this makes you extremely happy and you are simply pleased with the way life is going. The happiness you feel within your heart will radiate out like a positive energy for others to see. This in turn will make your aura more positive and you’ll attract people with similar mindsets near you as well. If they are women, then they will pick up on your love life and will be more than happy to be in your company.
Another positive aftermath of being happy at heart is you’ll not have to put in any effort to genuinely smile at a beautiful woman you’ve just been introduced to. You will come across as an enthusiastic person and it will be hard for women to NOT get attracted to you under these circumstances.
So my dear friend, just have faith in yourself, try to simply your life so that you can take charge of it and the world will be at your feet within no time! So long and god bless!
Tags: Women, impressing women, dating women, attracting women, wooing women.
Tue, November 18, 2008 6:15 am By James Coolridge
 One day one of my friends came up to me, all disgusted and disgruntled and said that after days of argument over nothing and everything, his woman had left him. Though I had anticipated this long back, I still asked my friend to tell me what exactly had gone wrong and how. Well, he wasn’t really clear about any specific reason and said that even after trying his best to impress her, she seemed to have grown to bored or resentful for reason he just couldn’t make out. And there he was!
When you like a woman or take her out for a date, the first thing that strikes you is impressing her, isn’t it? And what do you do? Well, you start thumping your chest as loud as you as like a gorilla which in your words means, ‘Look what I can do”. You start blowing your own trumpet and graciously start telling her what you’ve done or what you can do. In a nutshell, you start talking about how great you are!
My dear friends, this is the first step which you miss and it ends up becoming your last in your relationship with your woman. If you keep your lady listening to you for all the time you meet her on your date, she’ll is bound to get bored and irritable of you.
The solution!
The solution to this is the opposite of what you do, my dear! Just close your mouth and let your lady talk. This is so because woman love to talk. You only participation in the conversation should be to interject a positive comment in between to show that you are paying attention to what she is saying and you are approving every bit of it. Sometimes you can also rephrase what she is saying and repeat it for her. This really impresses a girl as she feels important and if she feels important, you are going to be made the king the rest of time in future.
So after you immediately start dating your lady, let her speak as much as she can or wants to Let this continue for the first month of your dating.
Well, my list of advices never really seems to end. My next article will be a continuation of this one only so keep yourself glued and be a good listener!
Tags: Women, impressing women, dating woman, wooing woman
Sun, November 16, 2008 6:03 am By James Coolridge
 The first thing in this regard to make sure whether the girl you are dating is worthy of being your long-term partner or not. I am not asking you to be judgmental but knowing the person before hand is imperative for you before you think of investing your energies in her.
So when you first start dating, let your lady do the talking. As it is women love to talk and if you willingly allow them to do so, you are only telling them that you want to pay attention to them. This will help you know here better and release you of the effort of making a decision about what kind of person she is. So the rule of the thumb in this regard is don’t talk about yourself when you first meet someone. Have fun with her, crack jokes but clam up when the conversation turns to specific areas about your life. Turn yourself into a mystery and women won’t be able to get enough of you.
In fact the same lies even after you commit yourself in a relationship. Never give yourself completely to your woman too soon. Not even she has long been your girl friend or your wife for that matter. Let her discover something new about you at different stages of your life and you’ll see that the fun and excitement in your life will never hit the dumps.
Another key piece of information that I must tell you is that, the moment a lady gets bored with a relationship, consider its end has come. You may not like to hear this but this is a proven fact. In married relationships, I have seen women going in for extra-marital affair for this one sole reason. It is sad, but true. So always be someone who’s fun to be with, someone with whom people love to spend time with. Humor plays a great role in this regard. You can also invest in some hobbies or areas of interest like traveling etc. I am not asking you to do all this against your happiness so that you can impress your lady. This is one way of enriching your love life you must exercise and you’ll see that your woman will become addicted to your energy.
Tags: Interest, Women, dating women, Relationship with women, loving women, Relationship secrets, how to make a relationship interesting
Sat, November 15, 2008 5:55 am By James Coolridge
 Well, in my last article, I spoke about how you should let the woman do the talking for the first one month of your dating her. I also told you that women love talking and so the best way to impress her is to let her open her Pandora’s Box and talk to you, to her heart’s content. You must be wondering that when will you do the talking if you invest all the gracious time in listening to her?
Here’s your answer!
The biggest advantage you are getting out of letting the girl talking initially is you’ll get to know most about her in the first few weeks of dating her itself. By letting her talk you’re discovering which category she belongs to. Whether she is one-night stand types, just dating material or possibly someone more serious. Also as a person who doesn’t want to create any unnecessary mess in his life, you should not before hand whether that girl is worth you or not.
Sooner or later, you will have to certainly open up but in this first month, you can focus on discovering whether she is worth of your attention or not. All you need to do is be confident and playful on your dates and try giving as much little information as you can about yourself as possible. Be smart and witty in answering questions she pops out for you every now and then and switch the conversation back to her within no time. Women often tend to miss this stuff so you can be assured in here.
There lies one more reason in talking less in the beginning. Women love mysterious men. If you have an air of curiosity surrounding you all the time, women will feel intrigued to know more and more about you and this will keep her at her toes all the time. Creating a balance is important. Don’t ruin it for her by letting her know every single detail about your proudest achievements within the first 10 minutes of your meeting her. Even if you don’t have anything to be proud of she doesn’t know that! She’ll daydream and fantasize about how mysterious you are.
Ideally even a long term girlfriend or wife should be discovering new things about you for years to come!
Tags: Love, Relationship, Women, impressing women, dating women, knowing women
Sat, November 8, 2008 11:01 am By James Coolridge
 Dating more than one woman at a time is not new to some among us. When men do that, it gives them confidence and boosts their ego by thinking that they own the skill that very few possess. Some men can’t do away with just a single female in their life and here you are – dating various personality types at your own ease. But where does all this lead you? Well, let’s find out!
Most men think that dating several women keeps them away from acting clingy and desperate. But a sad thing here that men exercise is that they think that dating means they can also sleep with all their women. Let me tell you guys, you are going into a deep pothole if you keep going about sleeping with women like that. Having many physical relationships with several women is not fair to them and is extremely risky for you too. It’s not unheard of for women to go off birth control without telling their boyfriends.
If you think that possessing the skill to lure a new woman in bed every night makes you a real man, you need to throttle your grey cells a bit. You are absolutely wrong if you think so. In fact you are simply whiling away your precious energies by sharing yourself with so many females at a time. This is you will be engaged in impressing every girl by doing what she prefers the most and lose your own originality or let me say sanctity as a person.
For those you are unknown to al of this, let me tell you that nothing beats having a single partner that can challenge you, match your mental wavelength and impress you with her integrity, confidence, grace and solidarity. When you truly develop a bond based on mutual respect with the woman you are extremely attracted to, the feeling s much more gratifying than indulging with 5 other women at the same time and losing your real self.
So the lesson to be learnt is dump your ego and look for relationships with women that are your equals. This will make you happier in the long run and you’ll live a life free of guilt and self-reproach.
Tags: Love, Relationship, Women, impressing women, loving women, Dating many women
Thu, November 6, 2008 10:52 am By James Coolridge
 I decided to write on this because after seeing the way how men and let me say even ‘intelligent’ men go about ending their relationships; it saddened me to the core! Let me explain this to you by narrating a real-life incidence.
There was this acquaintance I knew who wanted to break up with his six-month old girlfriend. So without giving her any clue, he first stopped calling her without any reason. This brought her to immediately think that some thing had gone wrong between them. But when she called him to find out he spoke to her as if nothing was wrong and they chatted just like they would any other day. So she finally assumed that he had only been busy.
From then on, whenever she wanted to meet her, she has to literally push through his excuses. Only then would they meet. There certainly was a streak of reluctance in him which did come into her eye but since he was right there with him, she dropped the thinking that perhaps he was either tired, stress out or pre-occupied due to something. The end of the date would seem normal and so no clues could be dug from their meeting as well.
What’s disturbing is after a night of drinking he would call her for a late night booty call. As I always say that women are very sharp when it comes to gauging the integrity of a man, by now she had started questioning the merits of being in the relationship but then women are emotional creatures. Since he did make love to her still, she thought that he still loves her after all.
What women fail to understand is that men can easily have physical relationship with many women without having any true feelings for any of them.
So this is the flux that most men put women into without thinking about the extent to which anxieties can swell up in a woman’s mind. If you relate with what I’ve said in this article, then keep a track of my next article which will line ways about how can you call off your relationship with utmost kindness and genuineness. Until then, keep reading and be good!
Tags: Dating, Relationship, Dating Tips, Women, dating women, how to end a relationship
Tue, August 26, 2008 6:02 am By James Coolridge
 I am writing this article with the intention of helping out the Adams who are craving for an eve in there life. Is dating frustrating for you? And do you feel it’s hard to figure out what women want!? Our tips will make it clear how to act, what to wear, and what to say to attract—and keep—the attention of women who interest you. All you need is to behave like a gentleman and you’ll definitely find dating success. The mysteries of women can never be completely revealed, but trying for it is all it takes to find a woman you like, ask her out, and embark on a successful relationship. With the right approach and knowledge, communicating with a woman can be much more than just a dream long yearned.
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Do you see yourself as someone who knows how to date, but who hasn’t dated in years, are you someone who has never been successful with women. Whatever your situation is, there are some sure shot dating rules to follow when venturing into the dating jungle.
Looks
Try to look your best. And for that you ought to have some decent clothes and shoes. Women always look at your shoes. Wear clothes that fit you, suit you and are contemporary. If you fail to take care of yourself, do you think you will be able to take care of her? So go ahead and buy a good well tailored suit, there is no excuse not to.
Hygiene
Your hygiene is the one thing which reflects on your personality. Head to the salon and sort out your hair, get a decent style if possible. And if you don’t have much hair still go to the salon and get something you can handle. Men are often criticized for smelling bad. Get into a regular showering routine and smell good 24*7. Women appreciate it.
Brains
Are your knowledge levels up? If not then get them up. You should make sure you are updated with the current affairs, watch the news and read quality papers. Women appreciate it. Current affairs are important in showing you know what’s happening around the world. If you travel frequently then this will help tremendously, if you don’t have plans to travel, get some. After all you can get your eve, do not forget Mr. Adam.
Too much to ask for
Never ever expect the three letters word-sex-on a first date. If all you are after is sex you have come to the wrong place for reading material. If you are looking for the girl of your dreams there is nothing sexier than a patient man. You are easily capable of waiting for the right woman so do it instead of thinking with your balls.
Tags: Women, Hygiene, looks, brains, expectations, grooming
Fri, August 22, 2008 8:13 am By James Coolridge
 This statement seems absolutely paradoxical to the norm, I know. But the records say that men who are smart, intelligent and suave often fail to attract women that are at par with them. Well yes, this is very true. Our previous articles have been based on this only and we have been extensively talking about the reasons that cause these men towards failing this way.
Sad it is but true. Smart and intelligent men are often seen brooding over reasons that keep women away from them. Alright, one of them is poor social skills. Yes, this is strange but true. I have often found intelligent men too laid back when it comes to communicating with people in order to socialize and make a positive impression. These people are otherwise successful in work, extremely sharp in gauging the business trends but when it comes to reaching out to a women’s heart, I don’t know what happens to them. In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don’t even have “social skills” and “be a cool guy that people like” in their “MENTAL MODEL” of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.
Social communication is an art that needs to be mastered keeping in mind the likes and dislikes of a lady, the social courtesies, gestures, expressions and clothing too. It is all about wearing your attitude though. Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans… and if you don’t have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women. Remember you won’t ever get women by thinking about them, you’ll have to get up and get going. Learn the tricks of the trade and start acting, NOW!
Fine, let’s look at some more reasons:
You know I have seen a quality in smart guys that fascinates the hell out of me. They come up with all the reasons why everything won’t work when it comes to women and dating. They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions. What I mean to say is what is the need to think negative even before trying to date a woman? That sounds certainly silly. Because smart guys don’t understand women, and they don’t understand what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They’re wrong before they even start figuring!
My point is you must try to overcome this habit if you have it. Thinking negative before you have even tried to talk to a girl, just makes no sense.
Tags: girl, Women, intelligent
Thu, August 21, 2008 8:11 am By James Coolridge
 So we have been talking about how intelligent men actually fail to lure attractive women. The catch is instead taken away by men less smarter, less canny and even less dapper. If you think I am talking paradox, you are very right. We are to talk about one of the most common situations faced by intelligent men and answer their plea.
Alright let’s come to the reasons now. In the last article I emphasized on how smart men are most of the time right and how this perception starts acting against them. In other words, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone “dumber” than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an “obviously less intelligent person” before trying it.
Let me explain you with an example:
If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50 but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life? The point is If you’d like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn’t very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women?
Taming the perception of being readily available with solution leaves these guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn’t either as smart or smarter than them. So please stop being arrogant and making this mistake again and again. It is absolutely okay to learn about the tricks of the trade from your so called ‘lesser mortals’ because they are afterall more adept in doing something that you are not. Please adapt yourself towards having an open mind. You are only choosing to close your eyes at this moment. Wake up! Look around, Learn from some “dumb” guys… and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want.
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