Men and women are entirely different when it comes to the matter of relationships. Many men find it hard to adjust a woman who always complain and are moody. They are fed up with women that nag and complain or are moody. How would the man feel if they knew that they are the cause and the angry woman is the affect! “But I’ve done nothing wrong!” Shout the men, “she’s just crazy, I do love her can’t she see that!”

Here a few issues are taken up to b brought up to then notice of women folk. How many times do you ask your man to do something and it doesn’t happen? Do feel that you just can’t trust him to do what you ask?

Haven’t you ever wished to hear from him something that makes you feel good without being prompted from you? Of course you know that you’re not the most beautiful woman in the world but still yes you just want to know you’re beautiful in his eyes.

How many times do your man let you down and made you to take control? Do you wish he would just be a man! Many times haven’t you felt like a normal woman who needed to be looked after by him?

How many times do you drop hints with a vain hope that your man will pick up on these signals. Is he blind to avoid the signals?

How does all this make you feel? Yes I know, frustrating isn’t it?

The next few lines are meant for men.

Didn’t you ever wanted your partner behave in a way you just don’t get?

Have you felt something wrong but fail to understand what it is?

Do you get as frustrated as she just does not make sense, you then argue and that just makes it more worsen.

Remember women do not think about relationships the way that men do. She is after good emotions that you could present her. Try to make her happy and comfortable to have a happy life.

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Today, people are familiar with marriage as the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony. They see marriage as a union of two people who have agreed to live as one and start a family of their own. Marriage is another tenure to which people will be venturing out to a new phase of their lives and while many would find it challenging and exciting, it remains that marriage is more than these things.

For one thing, marriage is another stage of adjustment for both parties. It is entirely different to live in an age of independence where husband and wife have to make it on their own without the help of their parents. This is the ideal way towards married life but for some people, feeling that they cannot make it on their own without support from their families totally defeats the purpose.

We often hear of breakups and misunderstandings. These stem from the fact that they overlook the actual purpose of marriage and the real challenges that they bring. Even if people have known each other for most parts of their lives, all of these are due to change once married life is entered. You see each other everyday and notice the hidden habits which may or may not suit your liking. That is where the trouble starts.

Time management is another issue that normally behests marriages. With one or both working, the whole purpose of working is personal achievement and of course financial support for their daily needs. Many couples also want the attention and quality time from their partners. But given that their worlds will surely vary in the marital stage, these factors of time management are bound to be among the reasons why two people will have differences to settle.

There are plenty of things to consider before tying the knot. Most of them are ideal and easy to listen to. But the reality is that everything becomes entirely different when you are already there and on the verge of implementation. This is where that famous phrase becomes really useful; “Actions Speak Louder than Word”.

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Many men have often wondered what the true keys to a woman’s heart are. So many men have tried caressing the minds of women with gifts and loads of affection only to face heartbreak in times of crises. The aftermath of these is that most men term women to be highly unreliable, willing to do only the will of the highest bidder. While this may be true with a few women, for the vast majority of women nothing can be further from truth.

Why do men unconsciously feel that a woman can always be bought, if the price is appealing enough? Why do most men forever insinuate that they can always manipulate their way to the hearts of women? Male vanity, egocentricity, or may be old fashioned chauvinism. One thing’s for sure anyway, there exists only one door to a woman’s heart and only one key to that door. It’s nothing other than sensitivity.

Before you begin to ponder what sensitivity is, and what it’s not, go through the next sentence. Sensitivity is knowing what promotes pleasure and doing everything to ensure that it continues for as long as possible. That’s the first part. The second part is knowing what causes pain, anger, fear and other forms of negative emotions and doing everything to steer clear of such as much as possible.

There’s no need for so many translation, no need for Greek, Russian or Italian. Its there in one sentence. Simple and concise. But even in its simplicity, it has been the most misconstrued issue when it comes to sex, love and relationships.

What does sensitivity do to a woman? The number one most important thing sensitivity does to a woman, is that it opens her up. Most women would rather prefer to be loved and worshipped than experience multiple orgasms. Most women would gladly unleash their reserves of passion and affection if only they can be administered daily doses of genuine concern. Even in our fast paced, ego-driven world, the psycho-emotional needs of all humans, women inclusive have not substantially changed. Women want to be gently invaded. They want partners who would slowly, gradually and passionately seek them out. Only sensitive men can achieve this feat. While of course women do not always enjoy playing hard to get, persistence virtually guarantees you permanent results with most women.

Nowhere is sensitivity so crucial in a relationship like in the arena of sex. The female sexual psychology is so complex that only an extremely sensitive lover can always get the best out of every encounter. If there exists any shortcuts in the game of sex, sensitivity must be that route. Sensitivity enables passion to be built up more rapidly. It enables lovers to passionately understand what brings maximum pleasure as well as what constitute turn offs and no-go areas. Indeed most problems in relationships can be narrowed down to one cause: insensitivity. If only men could be more sensitive to their women, they would never need to patronize brothels and sex hawkers.

Sensitivity also heightens intimacy. If you can remember a woman’s birthday, you’ll be her best friend. If you can send her flowers and give her an ultra-romantic treat, she would gladly surrender herself to you. Many men after a short while find themselves estranged from their partners and wonder what happened. It didn’t happen overnight. Little drops of insensitivity slowly accumulated to form large raging oceans of doubt, fear, insecurity and resentment.

It is possible to have a healthy, blissful relationship. Learn the rules of sensitivity, then sit back and watch your woman give her all to you.

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Distance often breeds a sense of insecurity in your relationship. When you are far away from your partner, it is obvious to worry about what she is, with whom she is and what she is doing. This lack of confidence can lead to misunderstandings unless you absolutely trust each other. Know how to maintain trust in long distance relationship. Read on.

Mutual decision:

When the relationship demands long distance, talk about your feelings on this situation and make a mutual decision to the level of commitment- whether you wanna go a long way or have a short term relationship.

Agreement for honesty:

Make an agreement to maintain honesty in your relationship. If one party looks for a “change”, talk about it and find a solution beneficial for both of you.

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