If you are like most men, you would spend many hours letting your imagination run riot about sex. You would imagine all sorts of positions, love making techniques and imagine a situation where your woman gives you intense response which makes you feel like heaven. At the end of the day, your main goal will be complete satisfaction. However, the picture will be somehow incomplete if your partner is not satisfied. So what will satisfy her completely and make her storming for more? Read on and get the answer.

It is the foreplay which unlocks all her treasuries of passion and intimacy. Without foreplay, your sexual intercourse is dull and boring. Foreplay is a spark that ignites unquenchable fire in her which makes her want for more.

You may attain orgasm within the first 5-7 minutes of penetrative sex. However, the passion for sex doesn’t just come in a single blow for women. The attainment of orgasm is a gradual process for women. They need at least 15 minutes of penetrative sex to attain their first orgasm. At this point, most men loose their steam rapidly. As a result, women won’t be able to attain orgasm. Hence, it takes time, skill and concentration to build up pleasure in women. You should be skilful enough to preserve your sexual strength till your woman culminates in orgasm, which gives her immense pleasure, excitement and satisfaction. All these process are attained through good foreplay.

Sexual touch gravitates to the sensitive erogenous zones and a good foreplay stimulates these zones. Gentle caressing and erotic gestures all are parts of a good foreplay which is highly needed for the pleasure build up in your woman.

However, you should not rush through foreplay, as is done by most men. Most women prefer prolonged foreplay and slow seductive approach. Physical faculties are used by most men during sex but, women use both physical and psycho-emotional faculties during sex. Pushing or forcing them for sex won’t generate any pleasure in your woman. You should remember that women want to feel cherished.

Foreplay is very important for the build up intimacy between you and your partner. A good foreplay is passionate and adventurous exploration of all the sensitive, intimate and erogenous zones. Hence, foreplay should be done with skill, affection and attention. 

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It is a well established fact that sex is a powerful, pleasurable and a unifying activity. It unites the body and souls of two individuals. When it comes to the magnitude of intimacy and satisfaction in a relationship, nothing can be compared to sex.

We all know that women desire more from sex than men. Sex is viewed by men and women from different perspectives. For men, sex is for attaining physical pleasure whereas; sex takes both physical and psycho-emotional dimensions when it is viewed from women’s perspective.

So here pops up a question- what do women exactly want from sex? What, according to women, is a completely satisfying sexual intercourse? What all would make women want for more?

There is a one-word answer for all these questions- Orgasm. It sounds a simple word, but it is difficult to attain. It is the attainment of orgasm that culminates the whole game of sex. Orgasm is the stage which unleashes the reserves of pleasure, intimacy and affection. Though there are many faces of attaining the ultimate enjoyment of orgasm, a few deserve special mention.

You should know that most women want to reach orgasm, but very few of them actually attain it. Most women don’t reach orgasm because it takes much longer for women to experience orgasm. Men can attain complete sexual satisfaction by 15-20 minutes of penetrative sex, but women require much more time to reach the ultimate satisfaction. Most women need clitoral stimulation, excessive foreplay while others consider oral sex as a necessary prerequisite to reach orgasm.

Another facet or orgasm is the intensity. There are weak as well as very intense orgasms. Weak orgasm is a problem for many couples. Many factors contribute to weak orgasm. Small sized manhood, low libido, insufficient foreplay, low staying power are the major factors that contribute to weak orgasm. On the other hand, an intense orgasm means that you have won her over. And if you are skillful enough to reproduce intense orgasm each time you have sex, she will be much more delighted and will be storming for more.

If you are able to give your partner the sex life of her dreams, she will unleash all the reserves of intimacy, passion and pleasure lying dormant in her. The only thing to know is what to do and do it with all your heart.

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Sex is vital for the sheer survival of marital life. Most relationships become distant when sex becomes less. Many couples even walk out from their relationship due to lack of sex.
The process of getting into the mood for sex is different for men and women. For men, the process of lovemaking is simply the ways by which they can show their partner how much they love them. On the other hand, women are more emotional. A woman needs emotionally attached to respond to a man sexually. Hence, it becomes important for men to create the right emotions as to increase the chances of have a satisfying and exciting sex life.

The best way is to engage with your woman to create an ambience so that both of you feel good about. Since it is the right emotions that your woman is expecting from you to get her into mood, find out ways to hook her to you emotionally.

Communication is the key. So, communicate with your spouse and find out her likes and dislikes. At this point, it becomes important to remind you that a woman falls in love with a man when she feels great to have around him. This is because she tends to attach her great feelings to him. So, make your spouse feel great about you, about your relationship and about your love for her. 

As a result, sex becomes even more important to both of you. When you do it at the right time and the right way (as she expects), the frequency of sex automatically increases. You both will then get closer which will give way to more great emotions and even more desire for sex.

When you are attached to each other both sexually and emotionally, the bond becomes even stronger. Your relationship becomes just the way you want it!

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The dating scene has crossed over to the internet, and unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past few years, you should know that it’s one of the hottest things around. Online dating has catered to all niches, from singles to teens, straights to bis, lesbians, and gays.
Online dating websites sport different features for interaction and matchmaking, but all have the same purpose: to match you with your ideal mate. Though the internet may be a relatively safe place to meet guys, keeping a clear head and observing proper etiquette is the rule, especially in a setting as ambiguous as the web.

As is with every mate search, finding the ideal guy for you takes time. You may be overwhelmed by the numerous online buzzes you receive as you browse a site, so much so that you’ll find it easier to flirt around than to focus on a particular hopeful.

Suppress the urge to go on dating spree and find one person who has the potential of being the one. Browse his profile, and match yours with his. If your profiles click, it’s time to drop the quick hint.

Most sites offer you the opportunity to send a quick, discreet message to a member, showing him that you’re interested in a deeper acquaintance. If he picks up the hint, you’re all set for the next step: online chatting.

Online chat lets you get up close and personal with the guy you’re into, especially if you’re using an online cam. You can talk about anything under the sun, and find out if you and your newfound friend really go well together.

Keep in mind though that chatting is not very different from a real, face-to-face conversation: you have to be initially discreet so as not to put the other person off, all the while attempting to deepen the conversation as you get to know each other better. Don’t get too involved too soon.

Patience is the key to a meaningful relationship, and if you want the correspondence to lead to the next level, bide your time till the opportunity for an actual date seems the natural thing to do.

Setting the date is probably the icing on the cake, since you’ve gotten to know each other so much by now that it’s like a casual meeting with a friend. Do remember though that there is a possibility that he may not be the man you expect him to be. Put your safety first and take the necessary precautions.

Inform a close friend about the date, and set the meeting at an open and crowded place. Don’t let the person pick you up for the meeting, at least for the first date; and try not to let the first date go too far unless you are perfectly comfortable being with the person.

Relationships take time to develop, and if the first date goes well, let the guy know how the meeting was great for you, setting up the next date at a future time. If, unfortunately, you’re date goes bust, be polite enough to inform the other person that the match didn’t take off as expected, but you’re more than willing to give friendship a chance.

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Geeks of the world, take notice! This is the video that can help you navigate through the jigsaw of internet dating and yeah, there’s a dash of humor thrown in that makes this video all the more interesting.

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So it is your date with your girl and you really don’t want to goof-up, isn’t it? Here are a few dating tips to help you.
• Switch-off your mobile: The regular “tring-tring” of your phone on a date will break the mood which you are trying to establish. If not switch off, silent mode can be excused. Express regret every time you pick the calls.
• Table manners: Eating wild with your hands and dripping at the table are turn-offs. Brush-up your skills in using a knife and fork.
• Do pay: Since you have invited her, make the payments. Even if she earns more than you, show your self-sufficiency.
• Tips: Though it is a small amount of money, women do notice it.

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We all like to think we’re good lovers, but in reality, most of us know there’s room for improvement. After all, how we enjoy sex is integral to the quality of any committed romantic relationship. It’s the thing that puts that twinkle in your eye when you look at each other the next day, because you both know you’ve shared something special together.

Some people are embarrassed to talk about lovemaking, especially with their partners. How the man or the woman views this experience, is often programmed into them from an early age by the perceptions of a parent or caregiver and confirmed through life’ experiences. But like anything in life, if you want to achieve enjoyment and fulfilment from it, you must be prepared to talk about it.

Like any other art, you need to practice the art of lovemaking in order to become really good at it. In this regard, men and women have different perceptions of what being a “good lover” is all about. If you ask a man, he will focus on technique and results, such as “she had multiple orgasms”. But if you ask a woman, she will remember the setting and atmosphere leading up to the lovemaking. So if we want the most memorable lovemaking experience, we need to take both the above into account. The secret is to become creative. Music, smells, lighting and colours all combine to produce the most sensually arousing setting for the most memorable lovemaking.

The art of lovemaking is about intimacy and this comes from openness and trust. It is so important to communicate with each other. When you feel a heart-to-heart connection with your partner, your lovemaking can be pure ecstasy. So we have to learn to be honest and let your partner know exactly how you feel.

We cannot over emphasize the importance of foreplay in the art of lovemaking. Sometimes we can be so focused on reaching orgasm that we forget to simply enjoy the pleasure of lovemaking. Instead, we only experience frustration. This is especially likely when lovemaking no longer seems like an adventure of doing something different together. It becomes routine. But can you imagine having sensual foreplay without actually having sex?

Men need to realize that woman want to be loved all over. You need to taste each other, touch each other, see each other, smell each other, hear each other. These are the five senses and if we use them all, it will not only draw you closer, you will also want each other more, leading to an explosive climax.

Then there are the “erogenous zones” - those pleasure zones in numerous parts of our bodies. Why does a woman sigh when a man whispers into his girlfriend’s ear? The truth is, most men, as well as women, can become aroused when their partner pays attention to certain special spots beyond the genitalia. The key to foreplay lies in the stimulation of the major and minor erogenous zones.

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