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Sat, June 21, 2008 1:21 pm By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Infidelity can shake the foundation of even the most solid and firm relationship. It leaves nothing but built up feelings of painful guilt and anger. The relationship ultimately becomes a tale of betrayal. Infidelity is the mere violation of loyalty, which many couples are now doing it casually. It is quiet evident from the increasing percentage of men who are literally torn between two women. Yes, we are talking about man’s infidelity, which in no sense trails behind the infidelity of their female counterpart.
According to a recent study, about 65 percent of men are in another relationship outside of their marriage by the age of forty. The wife on the other hand lives with the imaginations of the husband in relationship with another woman.
So what went wrong with the men? Well, there are a ton of reasons to relate to men showing unfaithfulness. Once the exact problem is identified and understood, the female counterparts can find better solutions to man’s infidelity.
Most men find the mere foundation of their marriage to be very weak. As a result, they try to find better shoulder to lean on, which is probably found outside of their marriage.
However, it will take a lot of time and effort to rescue the marriage. The unfaithfulness shown by the husbands can make it difficult for their wives to trust them all over again. In fact, it will be difficult for both the partners. When it comes to the husband who has shown infidelity, it will be very hard, perhaps the hardest to admit. Well, honesty is the best policy at this point of time. Admitting to your woman that at some point you were attracted to another woman can surely ease some pain. This may bring about shock to your woman at initial stages, but that’s much better than keeping her in the dark about your extra marital affair.
When you succeed in admitting your fault and have decided to sit with her and try to work things out, then this is a green signal for a whole new good start.
After the storm, it is now time to pick up the pieces and construct the relationship once more, and make the foundation of your relationship much stronger.
Tags: Relationship, cheating, affair, woman, Man, catch, spy
Sat, June 21, 2008 1:12 pm By James Coolridge
 Telling your spouse about your affair with another woman may lead to a war of words, or even a break up. Admitting about an affair is quiet risky ‘coz this can put your relationship into a standstill, but dear reader, you have to do it, with courage. Before taking the step, there are three things to consider.
Take the ethical dimension first. This may be subdivided into two divisions- the teleological viewpoint and the deontological viewpoint. The former is based on what is best in terms of ultimate consequences of an act whereas the latter is based on a conclusion that “right is right and wrong is wrong”. If you have a teleological viewpoint, you may feel that it is best not to mention about your affair to your spouse ‘coz you may feel that it is better off that way. On the other hand, if you have a deontological viewpoint, you may end up in admitting your affair to your spouse ‘coz you will feel that right is right and wrong is, indeed, wrong.
Revealing about your affair to your spouse may lead to an immediate break-up. She may feel that the situation has gone beyond control. Hence, the social dimension- your kids, your extended families- should be considered before confessing the affair to your spouse. You should think about the consequences that the bad news may have in your kids, the rest of your family members, and most importantly, your marital status.
Now let us come to the psychological dimension. Consider this- what was the basic need for an extra marital affair? Ask yourself the reasons for what you have done. Was it out of lack of love, understanding, care and mutual respect? Have you fallen out of love for your partner? Think it over…
Tags: Relationship, cheating, affair, woman, Man, catch, spy
Tue, May 27, 2008 11:55 am By James Coolridge
 Cheating in any relationship is not at all acceptable. But, what about espionage in a relationship, particularly a commitment like marriage? What will be your reaction if one fine day you discover that your partner is behaving like espionage, trying to trace out your actions? You will be shocked, isn’t it? We were also flabbergasted by a recent report about espionage in the home. Read on.
The Oxford University reveals a fact that at least 1 in every 5 people in relationships has the tendency to read their partners e-mails, text messages and 1 in 10 people are involved in checking up on the browsing history to check that their partner is not cheating. So here raises the question-, “why is the trust, which is considered to be the foundation of a relationship, depleting?”
Let’s face it- trust is lacking everywhere, even in our circle of friends and our own colleagues. The element of trust missing in marital relationships is perhaps a result of many affairs, splits in the relationships. They have rather become the bitter truth of life.
There are many possibilities for this kind of attitude in people. One of the possible causes is that the partners are finding someone better and more exciting.
When we analyze the root-causes for such behaviour, we have to reveal out the truth in relationships. When two people decide to get together, most don’t actually are not able to figure-out why they have chosen that person to be with for the rest of their lives. They perhaps choose partners that make them feel good at that moment in time. As time passes, many of these partners realize that the partner that they have chosen are not actually able to fulfil their long-term needs. As a result, they start to feel bad and look for ways to feel good. Many among them then try to find out whether their partner is cheating them. Hence, the spouse chooses to follow ways of spying. However, we should realize that the cost is huge. It is really, really huge.
Tags: cheating, partner, spy, home, experience, espionage
Mon, May 12, 2008 1:13 pm By James Coolridge
 Sometimes in a relationship, it can get very doubting as to whether or not your lover is faithful to you. This could be caused by unusual times that they are occupied away from the house without you or simply a major change in their attitude. You should never be blind to the situation of your spouse cheating on you with somebody else. For this reason, I am going to share some tips to catch a cheating spouse.
Cheating is a very critical situation in any relationship. It is definitely not the right way to go about a relationship in which you are supposed to care for the other significant one involved. Discovering a spouse that is cheating can easily break the relationship or make it even stronger. This all depends upon the love for one another.
If you already have suspicions that your lover is being unfaithful to you, the best thing to do is keep quite about it. It is crucial to keep it hushed when you trying to catch a cheating spouse. Under any circumstances, do not give your spouse any reason to have suspicions that you even have the slightest clue about them cheating on you. You never want to make an accusation unless you have sufficient proof to back you up.
If you were known to be very trusting of your partner, you should be more observant and attentive about your spouse’s activities. The littlest things should be looked into carefully. This can include the numerous wrong numbers as well as phone conversations that are taken in private.
You should start being cautious when your spouse starts having to go on trips without you. Be sure to check their pockets for notes written on little pieces of paper. Anything that you can find out about what they are doing will help you gather as much information as possible about what is currently going on in their life.
Just by watching your spouse’s attitude, you can learn a lot. If they become more irritable and want to fight more often, this could be their way of countering the guilty feelings that they have for cheating on you. A spouse who is cheating can ignore their responsibilities that they have to the other spouse as well as the children. It’s not the prettiest sight, especially when both of you are innocent.
It is hard to do what it takes in order to catch a cheating spouse. After all, you don’t even want to find out that they are really cheating on you with someone else. Once you find out that they are cheating, it can be emotionally disturbing since there is always the chance that this discovery could break up the relationship with your significant other. Keep in mind, it is important to find out if they are cheating, nobody wants to be left in the dark on a situation like this. Remember to keep a low profile when you are trying to catch a cheating spouse until you have enough proof to provide them with when you let them know you aren’t blind to what is going on.
Tags: Relationship, cheating, affair, woman, Man, catch, spy
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