The most challenging part in starting a perfect relationship is perhaps putting your true feelings in front of your partner in the right way. It’s about expressing the degree of love and the intensity of feelings you have for your lover. As it is said you have to demonstrate things to make people believe you. The best way to convince your crush to propose her in the right way. A way that makes her say “YES” at that very instant and hence making the moment very special for you. For this you have to make your proposal very romantic and apt as per the tastes and preferences of your love. So here are some tips to make sure your girl believes your special three words at one go.

If your girl is emotional and believes in fantasies, then putting your feelings over a candlelight dinner with a diamond ring is the best way to flatter her. Another way of doing so is by putting a romantic message inside a Champaign bottle, which you will offer to her to drink from. This will make the moment very elegant and appealing!

If you have fallen for a romantic princess then taking her to a beach during sunset and singing out your feelings by playing a guitar is the best option. Let her get lost in the music and take her heart away! For the woman who loves surprises, undoubtedly a surprise visit with a teddy bear saying, “I love you” will do it all. Make the surprise sweet and simple for your cute girl.

For an adventurous woman who seeks for thrills wherever she goes, throwing your heart out during a helicopter ride, thousand miles above the ground, is the best way to make your love experience the adventurous side of a relationship.

If your lady is a bit shy, don’t make the proposal in public. Instead send a beautiful bouquet to her place with a love card. This will charm her all the more.

Its very important to make a good start for that perfect beginning. Its not only about saying the right words in the right time its about using the right way to propose that special person you wish to be with. Doing things the right way will make the girl believe that you know her. If the girl knows that you understand her then she will trust you all the more and will strengthen her feelings towards you.

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One of the age –old truths that have been prevailing as an essential part of relationships is the concept of proper timing. Be it regarding asking her out or the point in time when you actually meet, timing plays an eminent role in deciding whether or not you will go ahead in a relationship. This sole factor is responsible for damaging many a flourishing relationships and bonded many unexpected ones too. Well, this subject can run into many lines so the best concern will be to divide it into two articles or more. In this article we take a look into what it is and the situations we often confront under this.

Let’s start with some examples:
Meeting a great girl who wants to get married to you when you are aged 21 may just be wrong timing. Meeting a fantastic lady when you are working abroad or on a short trip in a different location may be bad timing. Meeting someone who wants children when you are not yet ready is again bad timing. This cannot be helped however. It is but a sad truth of life which we often confront in our lives at some time or the other. People we would have loved to have matured with are generally the ones we have encountered at a wrong time in our lives. And we are left with no option but to succumb to what has been served to us by the mystical maze called ‘life’.

There is so much more to it!
I remember the last time I asked a girl was just at a wrong moment. We are attracted to someone and take the initiative or opportunity, only to discover that she got married just two weeks earlier. Or we may find that she has just broken up with someone and is not yet ready for a new relationship. There can also be a family crisis and the girl you are interested in may not predisposed for a romantic encounter so all you hopes just die away in a jiffy. To top it all, if you add factors like illness, they only bring you sad news without you being at fault from any end.

On rare circumstances if someone accepts your proposal for a date then you can still control the timing somewhat better. It is best to go for a weekend because then you won’t need to go to work the following day and so can stay out later. If you want to make your weekend more memorable, you can go for some social events that are held with special themes. Going on a weekend works best because more restaurants open during that time.If you intend to have some fun or activity, then clubs, bars and discos are all far more attractive at a weekend and offer many more possibilities of dating.

The story still has a long way to go. If you truly identify with what’s mentioned then the forthcoming article is just an extension to this one. We’ll dig deeper into seeing how we can come out of such situations and more!

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So here you are again alone in your room while watching your favorite episode on TV. Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why? Would you consider yourself that someday this could be my fantasy, my happily ever after as what they say?

Almost every guy goes weak in the knees when it comes to asking a girl out. At times lots of planning goes into deciding the ideal place and situation where you can ask out your girl. However before taking any step make sure that you know each other well and are comfortable in the company of each other. How to ask out a girl is a thought which dominates every man’s mind at some stage of his life.

You can either ask her out in a very romantic manner or just pop the question casually. Do not fret if she hurls a NO towards you. Just make asking out a girl a memorable experience.

Every woman is judgmental. They start to judge the moment they see you. Hence, first impression is very important. Give the woman a little romance. Woman love men to adore. Surprise her with flowers, a little card or writing her a love poem can melt their heart easily. Even if both of you have been together for years, it does not mean you can dispense all these formalities. All these little actions can spice up relationships. Women love to hear nice words and they are never bored with it.

If you are a hunk or you don’t mind being judged about how you look, an alternative which is open to you is probably the singles bar. It might be convenient for you to find a girl depending on where you live. Dating is not difficult. Chatting with someone is not rocket science, although it is some sort of science. Dating tips and advice are all available online. You just need to dig deeper to find out what they are and how do you use them correctly to get the dream girl you desired.

At the end of the day, single men simply spend most of their time thinking about what they can do to win the affections of the opposite sex.

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Preparing for a first date can be quite nerve-wracking, even for the most mature of individuals. The key is to take it easy and decide that you are going to have a good time no matter what happens. Although first impressions are important, it helps to take some of the pressure off yourself “to perform” and decide that you are just going to be yourself. If you decide you are going to have a good time, then you probably will. However, there are some steps you can take to put yourself at ease before that all-important first date that can help make it a better experience for both of you.
First of all, make sure the date will be something you will enjoy. If your date suggests going sailing but you can’s swim and suffer from seasickness, don’t be afraid suggest an alternative. Suggest that the two of you check out the latest art exhibition or that new scary movie that just opened. Try to choose something that is fun and exciting for both you. This will definitely take the pressure off you to entertain or amuse your partner with conversation.

Dating experts suggest that women should not dress too sexy on for a first date. Avoid exposing too much cleavage or fishnet stockings unless you are sure you want to have sex on the first date

Men should try to avoid looking too casual in that “I shop at Wal-Mart way” way. Sweats or T-shirts and jeans are also a no-no. Dress casually, but smart .
Conversely, women should not keep men waiting while they are getting ready. Sometimes it helps to have a cocktail before you leave the woman’s house to break the ice a little. It is important to patient, as sometimes the other person is as nervous as you are and doesn’t necessarily express anything but awkwardness or anxiety for the first few minutes.

During the rest of the evening, the woman should not scorn or reject the man’s attempts to open doors for her and pull out her chair for her. He is trying to be sweet, not set back feminism twenty years!

According to relationship experts, the best way to keep your date attracted to you is to always have them identify you with the idea of excitement. Don’t be afraid to show a little spontaneity by suggesting that you take a walk in the park or explore a new attraction after your date.

At the end of the night, most dates end with a kiss. While kissing your date good-bye avoid the reassuring pat on the back. A lack of a kiss may indicate that there is not a sexual relationship in the future. If this happens don’t expect a call for a second date and be content in knowing that you have just made yourself another very good friend.

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It is true love (or attraction) make no distinction when it comes to age. There are many instances thought history where younger men have fallen for the older woman. Maybe the relationships have not succeeded but that was not because of the age gap, but due to the pressures and prejudices of society, family and friends. 
Even in today’s modern society where anything goes same sex marriages, swing parties, multiple partners, bi-sexuality, the older women younger man scenario still draws disapproval. (Why only the lord knows)

To a young man an older woman holds a great attraction; they are not only attracted to them physically but appeal to them emotionally as well. Maybe it’s because she knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it or maybe because she it’s the confident no nonsense attitude she has about the world and you.

While dating an older woman can give you a lot of satisfaction, adjusting to the relationship in fact can take some getting used to.

 An older woman will have her own life, friends, and maybe children. So don’t try to hang on to her, have your own life and give her space. Give her time for her friends and spend sometime with your friends. And for gods sakes don’t expect her to look after you (she is not mommy dearest).

Just be yourself, she is dating you because she likes you as you are. Don’t make a fool of your self by acting extra mature, or at times totally immature. Relax be yourself.

Enjoy your differences and introduce each other to your different interests. But don’t force her to do things she is not interested in, she has seen a lot in life and by now knows what she wants and doesn’t want. Also try to find things to do that interest both of you.

Don’t let her success get in the way of your relationship i.e. don’t compete with her in the job arena or money making. If you let your ego rule you will loose her faster than a speeding bullet.

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Ok guys you have been married for an X number of years, but that absolutely does not mean that you should get into a rut. Move it man shake up your marriage and add a bit of spice into it.
Happy and healthy relationships take a lot of effort, but if you are truly committed to make your marriage/relationship work, a bit of creativity and effort on your part, romance can become a delicious element of your relationship.

Dress up for your wife/partner
Believe me tattered sweats, mid paunch and the unkempt look does not appeal to women, even your wife of X years finds it a turn of. Taking care of your clothes and your body, losing those extra pounds around your mid-section, will not only improve your health but will also increase your energy and sexual appeal (you will be startled at how willing your wife has suddenly become).

Touching
Physical touching (of the non-sexual type) is very important in creating a romantic mood. So be sure to add a few hugs, caresses and gentle kisses through the day. Hot sizzling sex does not happen if there is virtually no physical touch throughout the day and evening, it has to be cultivated. Offer to massage your partner with scented oils to add extra zing to your love life.

Communication
Yes this I know you have heard it many times, but it is true, communication is the ultimate way to romance. Make time during the day to call or text message your partner to let them know you are thinking about them. (and for heaven’s sake don’t use that time to complain about bills piling up or work problems) A naughty text message or note goes a long way in adding sizzle to a relationship.

Plan something unusual
Plan an activity that is unusual for both of you, it doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive. Give her a spa treat or get a couples massage or take her for a walk at the beach at night, or simply buy her a gift for no reason. Doing something that she least expects will definitely up your romance quotient.

Spicy Sex
Sex is one of the most important factors of marriage but can become boring after a couple of years, keeping it exciting is crucial for a happy marriage. Try different things like role playing or sexy games like strip poker or strip scrabble. Also try sending the kids to grandma once a week so you can get a wild and loud.

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