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Mon, October 6, 2008 6:22 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Its very common practice prevailing in every family, every relationship you accept it or not. On asking a common lady she dimples back and says “no, fighting over money –such an ugly thing isn’t it? ‘ your money, my money’ is something that the neighbors do. It happens to others. Not to us. Not really.”
Of course, most things being equal-the same level of education, income, ‘wavelength’-the fight over money, or how to spend it, is quite rough tackle these days. How can you tell the other off or keep a tight hold on the purse strings when each of you carries a wallet and the money that isn’t in it? Here is how you can set some ground rules and break them when need be without sounding the other out on responsibility not caring enough. There is no need to make it sound as if you all are ending up at cleaners.
Hold the key
1. Don’t be hands off. This is taking the fight over money to an opposite extreme. Be involved and keep track of your own accounts. Both spouses need to be responsible for the household budget-if you actually have such a thing.
2. No blame game- do not blame each other for any past financial problem.
3. Do not ring up your parents or friends and ask them to take sides in this.
4. Discuss all major purchases with each other before going through with it and take into consideration how your partner feels.
Power games
Do not play power games in a relationship. The boundary and hierarchical differences between men and women lead to clashes and money decision making.
Talking sense
1. Share your old hurts, resentments and fears about money. Mention your concern and fears about your partners spending.
2. There is no need to divulge your pin or password. While you may trust your partner absolutely, there are certain things that you must keep absolutely confidential and this is one of them. We can’t like for granted that a relationship will last forever.
3. When such an unfortunate split happens, it has been noted that some partners do misuse the trust placed in them.
Over 60% of arguments that couples have are related to money matters .Divulging accounts starts, Pins and passwords can sometimes result in unnecessary fiction between couples. So it is best to sort out financial matters at the beginning of a serious relationship and if you are earning and spending your own money, there is no real need to divulge the amount that you spend apart from your purchase the amount you decide to invest or save.
Tags: Partners, couple, money problems, understanding
Wed, August 6, 2008 4:31 pm By James Coolridge
So here you are again alone in your room while watching your favorite episode on TV. Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why? Would you consider yourself that someday this could be my fantasy, my happily ever after as what they say?
 Almost every guy goes weak in the knees when it comes to asking a girl out. At times lots of planning goes into deciding the ideal place and situation where you can ask out your girl. However before taking any step make sure that you know each other well and are comfortable in the company of each other. How to ask out a girl is a thought which dominates every man’s mind at some stage of his life.
You can either ask her out in a very romantic manner or just pop the question casually. Do not fret if she hurls a NO towards you. Just make asking out a girl a memorable experience.
Every woman is judgmental. They start to judge the moment they see you. Hence, first impression is very important. Give the woman a little romance. Woman love men to adore. Surprise her with flowers, a little card or writing her a love poem can melt their heart easily. Even if both of you have been together for years, it does not mean you can dispense all these formalities. All these little actions can spice up relationships. Women love to hear nice words and they are never bored with it.
If you are a hunk or you don’t mind being judged about how you look, an alternative which is open to you is probably the singles bar. It might be convenient for you to find a girl depending on where you live. Dating is not difficult. Chatting with someone is not rocket science, although it is some sort of science. Dating tips and advice are all available online. You just need to dig deeper to find out what they are and how do you use them correctly to get the dream girl you desired.
At the end of the day, single men simply spend most of their time thinking about what they can do to win the affections of the opposite sex.
Tags: Dating, Partners, couple, relationships, single status
Tue, August 5, 2008 3:45 pm By James Coolridge
Once upon a time your life was all about your friends. You hung out together, you planned holidays together and you called each other at the weirdest hours of night or day. But that fairy tale ended when you got married.
 This is what usually happens .Often when your partner is not a friend already; he/she is usually not familiar with your friends. Sometimes he or she doesn’t want to know your friends better. There may be resentment that you spend more time with them than him or her. There may be jealousy. He may think your best friend is too intrusive, she may think your best friend is too clingy. Both may hate it if the other calls his/her friends at strange times of the night, especially if the friend id of the opposite sex.
You want to preserve your relationship, so you sacrifice your friendship. You make new common friends and tough you try to keep up with your old circle of friends; you give up after a few years. “Almost all of us face this problem for some reason or the other if you cannot bridge the gap between the two relations, you often loose out on friendships, because partners and spouses are definitely the priority or problems might come up in the marriage. “ Experts say though it is impractical to expect your partner to always get along with your friends, some adjustments must be made. “it is oppressive to expect that your partner will like your friends the way you do.it is also oppressive for the partner to make demands regarding his/her friendships on you.”
Its okay if your partner doesn’t like all your friends .However adjustments are a must One must give both parties opportunities to find common ground. Both the partner and the friends should initiate friendship and show each other their willingness to get to know each other better. But if they don’t find any common ground its okay.Thats when you have to compromise. Its important to give your partner time alone with his/her friends. “Giving each other space is really impotant.”
Couples must avoid-
• Getting excessively intimate while with friends, it gets embarrassing for the others.
• Being very choosy about what the group should do and time constraints
• Fighting in front of everyone
• Don’t expect your friends to change their plans all the time to accommodate you.
Tags: Love, Partners, friends, couples
Mon, June 23, 2008 1:12 pm By James Coolridge
 Many spouses, when they are working together, find it quiet easy to keep their professional and personal lives apart. However, there are many couples who often end up in conflicts due to ego clashes at work which directly affects their personal lives. So we dedicate this article to the working partners being happy, working together as well as those who need some expert tips to keep their lives balanced. Read on.
Rule # 1: The work file should not be opened at home and family problems should not be discusses in the workplace. We mean to say that business issues should stay at the workplace and family issues should stay at home. You might have a fight last night, but it should be completely forgotten when you wake up the next morning when you are at work. Similarly, you should leave your business problems locked inside your office cabin when you go back home.
Rule # 2: Assign jobs at home and work. Try to define individual responsibilities at home and in the workplace. This way, you will avoid minor and major clashes. This will also ensure smooth flow of work at both the places. This way, neither of you will be burdened with work, both at home and in the workplace. Recognize and discuss the weaknesses and strengths in both of you.
Rule # 3: Remember, your partner is the boss at home. She plays various roles- as your spouse, your kid’s mom, your business partner. So, try and understand this fact.
Rule # 4: Family should be your first priority. Being a family man, you should always remember that your family is always first, no matter what goes on at work. You are expected to play your role at home. You spouse and kids expect you to spend quality time with you during weekends.
Rule # 5: Dedicate your time wisely for your kids. Make them feel that dad is with them, loves them and cares for them. Make sure that your business goes on smoothly without spoiling your time for your family and kids.
Tags: Partners, professional, spouse, Children, working
Sat, May 31, 2008 11:56 am By James Coolridge
 When it comes to lovemaking, men and women are heterogeneous. A man won’t need much time to get prepared for the love making session as they are “switched on” automatically. On the other hand, women need some time to get themselves ready for the love making session. While you may desire the penetrative sex, all that she desires may be a good kiss to arouse her sexually. So why should you be selfish and enjoy the pleasures of lovemaking alone? If her wish is granted, it will definitely reciprocate! So go ahead and shakes every nerve in her by kissing her passionately. After all, it is one of the best romantic gestures!
You should accept that women love kisses. You will be on your way to satisfy her by giving her a good kiss. So, don’t get tired of whenever she asks for a kiss. Lean in a posture that is comfortable for both of you and start kissing slowly and softly while holding her hands. Don’t rush; make her relaxed to be kissed. Her body will be automatically responding at a certain point and then she will take the charge. When she takes the charge, don’t confuse, stay back, and allow you to be kissed. Remember, the kiss should be so sweet as to make your woman asking for more.
If you want to make her go wild, don’t do many things at a time. Your hands may want to go everywhere while you are kissing but it is better to concentrate on each step of making love. Not all the kissing ends up in sex but it surely satisfies her largely.
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
Sat, May 31, 2008 11:55 am By James Coolridge
 When you are fantasizing about sex, you may imagine all sorts of techniques, positions and a scenario in which your woman responds with utmost intensity, which makes you feel like heaven! In your erotic reveries, have you imagined what all can give your partner utmost satisfaction? What are the elements that can unlock all her passion and intimacy? What all can convert the sparks into unquenchable fire in her being? Read on to find all the answers.
The passion, of course, won’t come in a single blow. As far as women are concerned, it is a gradual process for them culminating in orgasm, which requires skill and intensity. You should know that it takes time, concentration, and skill for pleasure to build up in women. This is very important for the mutual enjoyment. In short, the culmination of orgasm is through foreplay.
Foreplay is not an issue for men. A man easily gets aroused and usually culminates in orgasm within five to seven minutes of penetrative sex. However, it doesn’t apply to women. They require at least fifteen minutes of penetrative sex to experience their initial orgasms and at this point, most men will be losing steam. Therefore, it is quiet clear that men should have the sexual strength that should be preserved as to build up the pleasure quotient in women more rapidly.
The mutual pleasure is achieved by foreplay. Gentle gestures and caressing stimulates the sensitive erogenous zones. The pleasure builds up in the woman and as a result, the time duration of physical exertion by the male to produce orgasm is reduced largely.
Moreover, the more intense the foreplay is, the more intensely is the orgasms. If foreplay is absent, you woman will either experience a weak orgasm or no orgasm at all. Most men rush through foreplay and get straight into sex. On the other hand, women prefer the approach to be slow and seductive. This is because men use physical faculties while women inculcate both physical and psycho-emotional faculties during sex.
Foreplay builds up the mutual intimacy. Hence, it is very important to have foreplay before the penetrative sex. No other activity is found to reinforce the sexual intimacy as foreplay does. It is the passionate and adventurous exploration of the highly sensitive, intimate, and erogenous zones. If foreplay is done will skill, concentration, and tonnes of affection, the result will be a great sexual experience!
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
Fri, May 30, 2008 12:07 pm By James Coolridge
 Male orgasm is a very complex experience, which is attained only at the peak of sexual pleasure. Let us know about how male climax works.
Orgasm is attained when the various muscle groups contract simultaneously. The rhythmic contractions of pubococcygeus muscle, commonly known as pc muscle, occur with the contraction of the anal sphincter, perineum, rectum, the ejaculatory ducts, and muscles around the penis.
The contractions are initially intense. They occur at the intervals of about 0.8 seconds. As orgasm progresses, the contractions become less frequent and less intense.
A number of medical experts have studied and tested Xtracum pills, which are taken by thousands of people who have noticed that their sperm count, stamina and the pleasure increasing within the first week of dosage. These pills contain natural ingredients that have been proven beneficial for the male sexuality. There are proven to increase the production of sperms, help get harder erections, increase the sexual drive, boost self-confidence, and improve your sex life.
However, we recommend consulting your doctor before following such pills.
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
Wed, May 28, 2008 12:00 pm By James Coolridge
 Sex is a powerful, amusing, and unifying experience. Almost nothing else can be compared to sex when it comes to the magnitude of satisfaction and intimacy. It is a well-established fact that women desire more from sex than men do. Generally, physical reasons are related to men’s desire for sex while their female counterparts relate both physical and psycho-emotional angles to sex. So what do women desire from sex? Read on to know the explosive reasons!
It is a one-word answer. Orgasm. The whole sexual intercourse is aimed at the ultimate attainment of orgasm. It may sound simple but dude, it is not as simple as you think. There are many ways for the attainment of orgasm. A few require special mention.
Women really want to reach orgasm, though it takes much longer time for a woman to experience orgasm as compared to a man. A man may become satisfied by 15-20 minutes of penetrative sex but it doesn’t apply to a woman. She usually requires much more. However, many men are not willing to pay this price in terms of time and effort. As a result, their female counterparts feel unsatisfied and that is why, many of them never reach orgasm.
Intensity is another feature of orgasm. The orgasm can be weak or intense. Many couples nowadays experience very weak orgasms due to many factors. Low staying power, small sized manhood, low libido, and inefficient foreplay are some of the reason to relate to weak orgasms.
The third desire of women from sex is multiple orgasms. Though they are not easy to produce in women, there are still fair chances of multiple orgasms. Most women desire this and dream this repeatedly. The responsibility lies with the men who are generally inadequate in this respect.
The sexual intercourse should make a woman storming back for more and this is considered as a thoroughly satisfying sexual encounter for her.
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
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