So we have been talking about how intelligent men actually fail to lure attractive women. The catch is instead taken away by men less smarter, less canny and even less dapper. If you think I am talking paradox, you are very right. We are to talk about one of the most common situations faced by intelligent men and answer their plea.
Alright let’s come to the reasons now. In the last article I emphasized on how smart men are most of the time right and how this perception starts acting against them. In other words, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone “dumber” than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an “obviously less intelligent person” before trying it.

Let me explain you with an example:
If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50 but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life? The point is If you’d like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn’t very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women?

Taming the perception of being readily available with solution leaves these guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn’t either as smart or smarter than them. So please stop being arrogant and making this mistake again and again. It is absolutely okay to learn about the tricks of the trade from your so called ‘lesser mortals’ because they are afterall more adept in doing something that you are not. Please adapt yourself towards having an open mind. You are only choosing to close your eyes at this moment. Wake up! Look around, Learn from some “dumb” guys… and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want.

You are suave, sharp and intelligent. Yet you have set this unusual record of women failing to get attracted towards you. It pains you to see how even not so smart, rather men with average looks and almost no wit, happen to lure even the most beautiful and attractive women around. Well, this is truly one of the most amazing situations that I myself have come across but fortunately I do have advice for that’ll help you know what to do about it and how!

Let us talk in depth over it. I don’t mind running into two or even three articles for doing so. Hope you benefit the same from it as many others, I have advised upon it have.

Okay I’m sure you’ll not have to think hard (read at all) to know that you are an above average guy; that right from the time you were a child, you saw things differently, act in ways that were smarter than the others and understood certain complexities faster than others did. And say needless to say that your smart thinking has certainly benefited you in many areas of your life.

And more often than not, you know that you are usually right in most situations. Smart people get used to being “right”, because they usually ARE right. And this helps them to get ahead of many others in many situations. But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be worse than useless when it comes to a key area of life - WOMEN AND DATING! Don’t be surprised, I did say worse than useless! Alright now let me tell you how being smart can actually destroy your suave self.

Well the first thing is men, whether smart or intelligent are humans after all. They can make mistakes but unfortunately what plays against them in these cases is their ego. Such men always think that they not only think right, they’re also able to find logic in everything they say and do. When something unlike happens while talking to their women, women soon realize that they are just not ready to admit their fault. It is not about bowing down, but only being grounded enough to accept that yes, they can also be wrong at times. Women may not point out this thing while stopping to talk to he guy but this is one of the most obvious reasons of them not wanting to continue with these guys.

It only takes “failing” with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern… and realize that something isn’t working. A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good so he tries to think harder for a solution. But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult.

So we see how one‘s own positives can destroy one’s own prospects in one of the most essential aspects of life. If you have been a victim, please focus on what has just been said and start working towards it.