You fix a blind date just to step out of the routine boredom and when you meet the damsel, you don’t believe what you see - a super gorgeous woman, with a beautiful face, perfect figure and a personality to die for. The pressure builds up and you feel you just can’t let this girl slip off. She is the best you’ve ever met, after all. On the other note, she’s the best you could ever get in your entire life.

This is indeed the most common emotion felt by all men when they meet an extremely smart woman unexpectedly.

Now if the woman finds you to be decent as well, you’ll be lucky enough for she will talk to you and try to inform you about her likes and dislikes so that you know the best of her. Here is where the key lies and here is where most guys lose.

Let me show you how!

Now women who are attractive, beautiful and smart are not new to the gesture of being liked, admired or even hit by numerous other men for that matter. And every man she’s met in the past probably felt the same as you and got so swayed away with her looks that that was all they talked about with her. Asking such girls if they’re into modeling, whistling at her and hitting on her by all possible ways are things men usually ask such females. Following the common perception, they think that just like every woman likes to be praised, this lady being so beautiful already will seek it as well. THIS IS WHERE MEN LOSE. This is where even you will lose if you tell her the same.

I am not saying that you shouldn’t praise her but with such women; the game has to be played in slightly unconventional fashion.
Now the first thing is this girl is certainly not looking for attention in the same form in the man she is seeking for a relationship. She wants a man who can see past all the physicality and try to know how she is as an individual. So if you want to impress this lady, the only way to be someone different from the crowd. Or you can at least pretend to be. You need to be interested in something other than only her looks. And the rule of the thumb here is never compliment a hot girl for her figure or her looks. I mean the  
other way of doing it can be to know about her interests and then compliment her on it.

And if at all you intend to compliment her on her looks, always remember, it has to be seldom, sincere and earned by her over time. She should feel the urge of you telling her how you find her. And in order to do so, my advice is to initially talk about everything concerning her except her looks.

This is called hitting the woman in a negative way.Don’t disappoint her with too much praise and you’ll have this pretty damsel is admiring you instead of you drooling all over her! Wishing you the best!

Pick up lines don’t work! They are not effective at all even if you employ the best of expressions and punctuations. This is the only advice I have been only putting up so blatantly for all the men out there but its amazing to see that men still exercise it, I don’t know for whose good. If you know want to know what women think of men who indulge in this, let’s find out!

The first thing is what is your idea behind throwing a pick-up line to a girl? You want to impress her and perhaps catch her attention, right? Why? Why indulge in something every guy does in a bar, club or a street only lose their chances of never having that women again? Yes, women simply abhor men who throw pick-up lines at them.

For some it may be a piece of amusement and they may even smile if you’ve tried to be at your funniest best but getting that damsel to date you just because of that is something you should not even dream about. Because it will never happen!

I have asked numerous women about how they feel when they see a guy hitting on them in this way and they say that such men lose the chances of getting a genuine chance of knowing her. Because they think that pick-up lines are for losers. Memorizing some lines written by some other men in order to seduce women at clubs or wherever doesn’t come across as something decent to girls who are smart, intelligent and even easy going.

If you want to start up a conversation with a girl you are really attracted to, simply walk up to her and tell her, “Hi, my names this, what’s yours?”. Nothing looks better and genuine than being straight. If you see a positive response on the other side, you may crack something hilarious to break the ice but never indulge in the obvious with an intent of impressing her.

Women don’t want to hear regurgitated garbage.  It’s not the lines you use or even the words you speak that are important, it’s how you present yourself.

So until now even if you were convinced of the fact that pick-up lines, if good do work, drop the idea and gear-up to become upfront, confident and straight. Women like that and you’ll see that with this attitude, you’ll never miss a hit!