The first thing in this regard to make sure whether the girl you are dating is worthy of being your long-term partner or not. I am not asking you to be judgmental but knowing the person before hand is imperative for you before you think of investing your energies in her.

So when you first start dating, let your lady do the talking. As it is women love to talk and if you willingly allow them to do so, you are only telling them that you want to pay attention to them. This will help you know here better and release you of the effort of making a decision about what kind of person she is. So the rule of the thumb in this regard is don’t talk about yourself when you first meet someone. Have fun with her, crack jokes but clam up when the conversation turns to specific areas about your life. Turn yourself into a mystery and women won’t be able to get enough of you.

In fact the same lies even after you commit yourself in a relationship. Never give yourself completely to your woman too soon. Not even she has long been your girl friend or your wife for that matter. Let her discover something new about you at different stages of your life and you’ll see that the fun and excitement in your life will never hit the dumps.

Another key piece of information that I must tell you is that, the moment a lady gets bored with a relationship, consider its end has come. You may not like to hear this but this is a proven fact. In married relationships, I have seen women going in for extra-marital affair for this one sole reason. It is sad, but true. So always be someone who’s fun to be with, someone with whom people love to spend time with. Humor plays a great role in this regard. You can also invest in some hobbies or areas of interest like traveling etc. I am not asking you to do all this against your happiness so that you can impress your lady. This is one way of enriching your love life you must exercise and you’ll see that your woman will become addicted to your energy.

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Well, only if it was as easy. We’ve had numerous men in history who’ve tried to decipher and write down how exactly women think but all they could do is only turn them into literature. And the saga is still on. We still have men trying to set thinking patterns of women under specific rules but alas, there are not rules – there can never be any!

Let me tell you why!
This is because women do exactly the opposite of what is expected of them in a particular situation. For instance, if a woman likes you, you’ll only be very lucky if you get a smile from her. Else under normal circumstances, she’ll never even let you know what’s on her mind in any way. Yes, she may even ignore you or not even look at you. Don’t be surprised on this because women actually do that.

Their logic behind this is that a man is the one who should always make the first move. Why? Because he is a man! I’ll narrate an incident to you. A couple of years back when I was far too less experienced and you could say shy too, I liked this lady but somehow didn’t approach her thinking that she seemed a little less friendly. Two years back I met her again and was surprised after a drink or two; she asked me why had I not asked her out for date ever? When I told her that she should’ve shown some sign of interest at least, she said that was MY job. I mean that was the first and the last lesson for me of that kind. It was then that I realized how ironical women can be at times. But I don’t blame them entirely. Tradition has always put men on the forefront when it came to wooing a lady and I feel in the hearts of women, it still reigns.

Since then I have commonly seen this trait in almost every ‘sensible’ women I’ve met. So now I don’t really think before asking a lady I am attracted to, for a date. What makes it easy for me is I stay prepared for the worst before approaching any one. I mean the worst that can happen is a denial from her side. But then I’ve also been able to date some of the most gorgeous women around with this new-found confidence of mine.

So the next time you see this damn hot woman around you, you know exactly what to do lest you’ll find yourself regretting in the end!

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