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Sun, July 6, 2008 4:39 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Sensual massage is one of the most frequent techniques used by couples to revitalize their relationship. Sensual massage has the power to breath in fresh air into a relationship. So before you go for a sensual massage, keep in mind a few things. Here are they.
• Don’t rush: Keep the sensual massage slow and calm. It should completely relax the body. If you are the giver of the massage, spend a lot of time for the gradual exploration of your partner’s body.
• Keep the oil warm: The oil for sensual massage should be warm. You can use a microwave to slightly warm the massage oil. Take liberal quantity of oil, but make sure that it is not too liberal. The massage oil should not drip away from your palm. At the same time, should cover the whole palm.
• Change the role frequently: You should switch over from the role of giver to the taker after every 30 minutes of sensual massage. This helps in charging both of you.
• Use Aromatherapy products: Using aromatherapy products is the best way to get great boost in your bedroom. Aromatherapy products such as oils, candles, lotions, will give you the desired effect.
• Let the music play! Music connects every soul in the world. Play soft and soothing music to accentuate the effect of your sensual massage.
• Choose the location: If you don’t have a massage table at your home, make use of couches, beds or floor to enjoy the experience of sensual massage.
• Wear appropriate clothes: The less the clothes, the more is the effect of sensual massage. Choose the clothes that can be removed easily.
Tags: lovemaking, Aromatherapy, massage, sensual, relax
Thu, June 26, 2008 10:02 am By Judy Sly
 If you are like most men, you would spend many hours letting your imagination run riot about sex. You would imagine all sorts of positions, love making techniques and imagine a situation where your woman gives you intense response which makes you feel like heaven. At the end of the day, your main goal will be complete satisfaction. However, the picture will be somehow incomplete if your partner is not satisfied. So what will satisfy her completely and make her storming for more? Read on and get the answer.
It is the foreplay which unlocks all her treasuries of passion and intimacy. Without foreplay, your sexual intercourse is dull and boring. Foreplay is a spark that ignites unquenchable fire in her which makes her want for more.
You may attain orgasm within the first 5-7 minutes of penetrative sex. However, the passion for sex doesn’t just come in a single blow for women. The attainment of orgasm is a gradual process for women. They need at least 15 minutes of penetrative sex to attain their first orgasm. At this point, most men loose their steam rapidly. As a result, women won’t be able to attain orgasm. Hence, it takes time, skill and concentration to build up pleasure in women. You should be skilful enough to preserve your sexual strength till your woman culminates in orgasm, which gives her immense pleasure, excitement and satisfaction. All these process are attained through good foreplay.
Sexual touch gravitates to the sensitive erogenous zones and a good foreplay stimulates these zones. Gentle caressing and erotic gestures all are parts of a good foreplay which is highly needed for the pleasure build up in your woman.
However, you should not rush through foreplay, as is done by most men. Most women prefer prolonged foreplay and slow seductive approach. Physical faculties are used by most men during sex but, women use both physical and psycho-emotional faculties during sex. Pushing or forcing them for sex won’t generate any pleasure in your woman. You should remember that women want to feel cherished.
Foreplay is very important for the build up intimacy between you and your partner. A good foreplay is passionate and adventurous exploration of all the sensitive, intimate and erogenous zones. Hence, foreplay should be done with skill, affection and attention.
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Wed, June 25, 2008 10:03 am By Dennis Hays
 It is a well established fact that sex is a powerful, pleasurable and a unifying activity. It unites the body and souls of two individuals. When it comes to the magnitude of intimacy and satisfaction in a relationship, nothing can be compared to sex.
We all know that women desire more from sex than men. Sex is viewed by men and women from different perspectives. For men, sex is for attaining physical pleasure whereas; sex takes both physical and psycho-emotional dimensions when it is viewed from women’s perspective.
So here pops up a question- what do women exactly want from sex? What, according to women, is a completely satisfying sexual intercourse? What all would make women want for more?
There is a one-word answer for all these questions- Orgasm. It sounds a simple word, but it is difficult to attain. It is the attainment of orgasm that culminates the whole game of sex. Orgasm is the stage which unleashes the reserves of pleasure, intimacy and affection. Though there are many faces of attaining the ultimate enjoyment of orgasm, a few deserve special mention.
You should know that most women want to reach orgasm, but very few of them actually attain it. Most women don’t reach orgasm because it takes much longer for women to experience orgasm. Men can attain complete sexual satisfaction by 15-20 minutes of penetrative sex, but women require much more time to reach the ultimate satisfaction. Most women need clitoral stimulation, excessive foreplay while others consider oral sex as a necessary prerequisite to reach orgasm.
Another facet or orgasm is the intensity. There are weak as well as very intense orgasms. Weak orgasm is a problem for many couples. Many factors contribute to weak orgasm. Small sized manhood, low libido, insufficient foreplay, low staying power are the major factors that contribute to weak orgasm. On the other hand, an intense orgasm means that you have won her over. And if you are skillful enough to reproduce intense orgasm each time you have sex, she will be much more delighted and will be storming for more.
If you are able to give your partner the sex life of her dreams, she will unleash all the reserves of intimacy, passion and pleasure lying dormant in her. The only thing to know is what to do and do it with all your heart.
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Wed, June 25, 2008 10:02 am By Steven Kelley
 Sex is vital for the sheer survival of marital life. Most relationships become distant when sex becomes less. Many couples even walk out from their relationship due to lack of sex.
The process of getting into the mood for sex is different for men and women. For men, the process of lovemaking is simply the ways by which they can show their partner how much they love them. On the other hand, women are more emotional. A woman needs emotionally attached to respond to a man sexually. Hence, it becomes important for men to create the right emotions as to increase the chances of have a satisfying and exciting sex life.
The best way is to engage with your woman to create an ambience so that both of you feel good about. Since it is the right emotions that your woman is expecting from you to get her into mood, find out ways to hook her to you emotionally.
Communication is the key. So, communicate with your spouse and find out her likes and dislikes. At this point, it becomes important to remind you that a woman falls in love with a man when she feels great to have around him. This is because she tends to attach her great feelings to him. So, make your spouse feel great about you, about your relationship and about your love for her.
As a result, sex becomes even more important to both of you. When you do it at the right time and the right way (as she expects), the frequency of sex automatically increases. You both will then get closer which will give way to more great emotions and even more desire for sex.
When you are attached to each other both sexually and emotionally, the bond becomes even stronger. Your relationship becomes just the way you want it!
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Sat, May 24, 2008 11:58 am By James Coolridge
 The processes of bringing a new born into this world is not an easy one. Sometimes it disables those buttons that switch you on to a sex mode. You do not feel like it because you are switched off sexually. How do you activate your sex life again. How do you get in the mood when you are not? Go to the control panel, your brain. It is all in your mind, the brain is the largest sexual organ. It only needs some fine tuning and your sex life will be up and kicking just like it used to be before the onset of child birth. Play mind games with yourself. It is all psychological. You can capture those sexual encounters that left you drenched in pleasure before. Engage in sex talk and flattery with your partner just to get you in the mood for sex after birth.
Take a long and relaxing shower to tone down the muscles. Visit the massage parlour afterwards. But it would put you in the right mood if you let your partner to massage you. Before he is through you will have submitted to the power of his touch. His subtle ways of massaging will serve to arouse you sexually and set you in the right mood for sex. You will realize that sex after birth is so pleasurable. You would want to do it over and over again. It shakes you to the bone marrow and leaves you gasping. It is like sex after birth has become better than ever before. You long for more because the experience is just too good to resist.
The one thing that makes you not to be in a mood for sex after birth is your child. Your baby takes all the attention from you such that you have no time to spare for anything else. Sex seems to be such a remote idea to you. To overcome this situation, find some one to take care of the child sometimes. It will help you to forget all those obligations and spend some quality time with your man alone. It will help you to venture out of that baby circle and get in the mood for pleasurable love making. Let the baby not hog all the attention from you. It will kill your once active sex life because you have no time to spare for it. Get a good nanny to stand in for you as you try to spruce up your sex life.
You can take a small holiday vacation together with your partner after recovering from child birth. It will help you relax and recover all the energy you had lost. It will restore the vigor and vitality in you such that by the time you are coming back you feel like a new person. A holiday helps break the routine and brings a change of environment. Let your partner bring all the good feelings to you during this time. Surrender yourself to him. Hold and cuddle. It feels so good you will naturally feel in the mood for lovemaking. You will realize sex after birth has never been better.
Tags: Pregnancy, lovemaking, new-born, Vacation
Mon, May 12, 2008 1:13 pm By James Coolridge
 Many pregnant women are very concerned about the effects of sexual intercourse on the unborn child. Of course no expectant mother wants her unborn child to be harmed, and it can be a little embarrassing asking your doctor, especially if you have a male GP. In any case, when you first see the doctor and tell him the happy news and start the booking in procedure, asking questions about your love life isn’t at the forefront of your mind.
When you first discover that you are pregnant your mind starts to mull over a whole lot of issues - the birth, health issues, money worries, if you will cope as a mother, will you be able to keep your job, how bad is morning sickness… The list seems endless and its all part of the motherhood preparation, especially so if this is your first child. Towards the end of this list is the question ‘Can I still have sexual intercourse?’ Could you deny your relationship intimacy for 9 months?
During the first 12 weeks of pregnancy you must take life easy, no stretching or over doing things. These 12 weeks are when most miscarriages take place and one in three first time pregnancies end in miscarriage.
However, the womb is a very safe place for baby, protected by the stomach wall and the amniotic fluid that the baby floats around in. Providing sex is not overly enthusiastic and it is gentle love making, it is perfectly safe to have sexual intercourse during pregnancy, without causing harm to the baby.
Sometimes it is men who are worried about sexual activity during pregnancy. Despite men thinking that they have a huge cock that they are going to beat the baby about the head with if they do make love to a pregnant woman, nature has already taken care of this problem. The cervix is a tiny opening at the neck f the womb. The cervix is too tiny for a penis to penetrate and during pregnancy the cervix closes and doesn’t re-open until it is time for childbirth. Because of this the penis can not penetrate the womb and damage the baby.
However, many women may feel less like sex during pregnancy which is understandable because pregnancy can cause women feel unattractive and fat, sore swollen breasts, ill with morning sickness that can occur any time of the day or night, and tired of fatigue. It is important for the expectant father at this time to not press his sexual advances and instead to enjoy other intimacies such as massage.
Sensual massage oils can be bought with aromatherapy properties, which can relax and soothe. If you are looking to unearth your passion try a massage oil with aphrodisiac properties. Also time alone self-pleasuring can help kick start your sexual desire. Sex aside some time each day to pleasure yourself, whether you feel like it or not and it will help to bring back the desire for sexual contact. If you don’t use it you lose it, so slowly build it back up. Clitoral stimulators are a great to use for this. They tend to bring you to climax quickly and they are less intrusive because you use them externally to stimulate the clitoris.
Tags: Sex, Pregnancy, lovemaking, strong, bond, fetus
Sun, April 27, 2008 1:22 pm By Dennis Hays
 We all like to think we’re good lovers, but in reality, most of us know there’s room for improvement. After all, how we enjoy sex is integral to the quality of any committed romantic relationship. It’s the thing that puts that twinkle in your eye when you look at each other the next day, because you both know you’ve shared something special together.
Some people are embarrassed to talk about lovemaking, especially with their partners. How the man or the woman views this experience, is often programmed into them from an early age by the perceptions of a parent or caregiver and confirmed through life’ experiences. But like anything in life, if you want to achieve enjoyment and fulfilment from it, you must be prepared to talk about it.
Like any other art, you need to practice the art of lovemaking in order to become really good at it. In this regard, men and women have different perceptions of what being a “good lover” is all about. If you ask a man, he will focus on technique and results, such as “she had multiple orgasms”. But if you ask a woman, she will remember the setting and atmosphere leading up to the lovemaking. So if we want the most memorable lovemaking experience, we need to take both the above into account. The secret is to become creative. Music, smells, lighting and colours all combine to produce the most sensually arousing setting for the most memorable lovemaking.
The art of lovemaking is about intimacy and this comes from openness and trust. It is so important to communicate with each other. When you feel a heart-to-heart connection with your partner, your lovemaking can be pure ecstasy. So we have to learn to be honest and let your partner know exactly how you feel.
We cannot over emphasize the importance of foreplay in the art of lovemaking. Sometimes we can be so focused on reaching orgasm that we forget to simply enjoy the pleasure of lovemaking. Instead, we only experience frustration. This is especially likely when lovemaking no longer seems like an adventure of doing something different together. It becomes routine. But can you imagine having sensual foreplay without actually having sex?
Men need to realize that woman want to be loved all over. You need to taste each other, touch each other, see each other, smell each other, hear each other. These are the five senses and if we use them all, it will not only draw you closer, you will also want each other more, leading to an explosive climax.
Then there are the “erogenous zones” - those pleasure zones in numerous parts of our bodies. Why does a woman sigh when a man whispers into his girlfriend’s ear? The truth is, most men, as well as women, can become aroused when their partner pays attention to certain special spots beyond the genitalia. The key to foreplay lies in the stimulation of the major and minor erogenous zones.
Tags: tips, lovemaking, tricks, erogenous, zones
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