Well, in my last article, I spoke about how you should let the woman do the talking for the first one month of your dating her. I also told you that women love talking and so the best way to impress her is to let her open her Pandora’s Box and talk to you, to her heart’s content. You must be wondering that when will you do the talking if you invest all the gracious time in listening to her?
Here’s your answer!
The biggest advantage you are getting out of letting the girl talking initially is you’ll get to know most about her in the first few weeks of dating her itself. By letting her talk you’re discovering which category she belongs to. Whether she is one-night stand types, just dating material or possibly someone more serious. Also as a person who doesn’t want to create any unnecessary mess in his life, you should not before hand whether that girl is worth you or not.

Sooner or later, you will have to certainly open up but in this first month, you can focus on discovering whether she is worth of your attention or not. All you need to do is be confident and playful on your dates and try giving as much little information as you can about yourself as possible. Be smart and witty in answering questions she pops out for you every now and then and switch the conversation back to her within no time. Women often tend to miss this stuff so you can be assured in here.

There lies one more reason in talking less in the beginning. Women love mysterious men. If you have an air of curiosity surrounding you all the time, women will feel intrigued to know more and more about you and this will keep her at her toes all the time. Creating a balance is important. Don’t ruin it for her by letting her know every single detail about your proudest achievements within the first 10 minutes of your meeting her. Even if you don’t have anything to be proud of she doesn’t know that! She’ll daydream and fantasize about how mysterious you are.

Ideally even a long term girlfriend or wife should be discovering new things about you for years to come!

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The piece of advice I’ll be discussing in this article may come to you as a surprise but it has proved to be one of the most successful techniques and has savored admiration from people at all times, (read women, in this case).
This is like an exercise and is based on public speaking technique most commonly employed by many actors and orators. So before questioning it, I would want you exercise it once and see how fairly it works. Alright here we go!
Now next time before you move out of the house, I want you to go the mirror and practice your smile. Yes, this is not some kind of a practical joke. If you really dream of having an everlasting impression on whoever you meet, particularly women, learn to smile and this is how you have to go about it. All you have to do is imagine yourself as a celebrity who has just arrived in front of packs of masses, wanting to have a glimpse of you.

Just bring the emotion you’ll undergo if this really happens with you in person. You are likely to get overwhelmed, isn’t it. The most probable gesture that’ll come to you is waving at them and smiling your warmest smile thanking them for coming to see you. And yes, you better make it a big smile so that people can see the emotion you are feeling on your face. Practice this a couple of times until you fall into the habit of smiling like this all the time. If you want to know the reason of my asking you to do so, then let me tell you that the moment you smile with compassion, it instills a sense of happiness in the hearts of those around you and your personality starts radiating charm that can turn anyone around you in awe of you.

So the next time you go to a party, take a second or two to visualize those present around you as your fans and give the world the warmest and the biggest smile you have ever given. And what’ll you see next is going to surprise you beyond imagination. You’ll be surprised by the number of people looking at you in awe, not to mention women who’ll have their hearts skipping a beat the moment they look at you. Just be confident of what you are, be patient and happy from within when you give yourself to the world. Remember, smile is one of the most contagious and impressive forms of communication you can ever employ to woo a woman!

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