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Posts Tagged ‘Intimacy’
Thu, June 26, 2008 10:02 am By Judy Sly  Printer friendly version
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 If you are like most men, you would spend many hours letting your imagination run riot about sex. You would imagine all sorts of positions, love making techniques and imagine a situation where your woman gives you intense response which makes you feel like heaven. At the end of the day, your main goal will be complete satisfaction. However, the picture will be somehow incomplete if your partner is not satisfied. So what will satisfy her completely and make her storming for more? Read on and get the answer.
It is the foreplay which unlocks all her treasuries of passion and intimacy. Without foreplay, your sexual intercourse is dull and boring. Foreplay is a spark that ignites unquenchable fire in her which makes her want for more.
You may attain orgasm within the first 5-7 minutes of penetrative sex. However, the passion for sex doesn’t just come in a single blow for women. The attainment of orgasm is a gradual process for women. They need at least 15 minutes of penetrative sex to attain their first orgasm. At this point, most men loose their steam rapidly. As a result, women won’t be able to attain orgasm. Hence, it takes time, skill and concentration to build up pleasure in women. You should be skilful enough to preserve your sexual strength till your woman culminates in orgasm, which gives her immense pleasure, excitement and satisfaction. All these process are attained through good foreplay.
Sexual touch gravitates to the sensitive erogenous zones and a good foreplay stimulates these zones. Gentle caressing and erotic gestures all are parts of a good foreplay which is highly needed for the pleasure build up in your woman.
However, you should not rush through foreplay, as is done by most men. Most women prefer prolonged foreplay and slow seductive approach. Physical faculties are used by most men during sex but, women use both physical and psycho-emotional faculties during sex. Pushing or forcing them for sex won’t generate any pleasure in your woman. You should remember that women want to feel cherished.
Foreplay is very important for the build up intimacy between you and your partner. A good foreplay is passionate and adventurous exploration of all the sensitive, intimate and erogenous zones. Hence, foreplay should be done with skill, affection and attention.
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Wed, June 25, 2008 10:03 am By Dennis Hays
 It is a well established fact that sex is a powerful, pleasurable and a unifying activity. It unites the body and souls of two individuals. When it comes to the magnitude of intimacy and satisfaction in a relationship, nothing can be compared to sex.
We all know that women desire more from sex than men. Sex is viewed by men and women from different perspectives. For men, sex is for attaining physical pleasure whereas; sex takes both physical and psycho-emotional dimensions when it is viewed from women’s perspective.
So here pops up a question- what do women exactly want from sex? What, according to women, is a completely satisfying sexual intercourse? What all would make women want for more?
There is a one-word answer for all these questions- Orgasm. It sounds a simple word, but it is difficult to attain. It is the attainment of orgasm that culminates the whole game of sex. Orgasm is the stage which unleashes the reserves of pleasure, intimacy and affection. Though there are many faces of attaining the ultimate enjoyment of orgasm, a few deserve special mention.
You should know that most women want to reach orgasm, but very few of them actually attain it. Most women don’t reach orgasm because it takes much longer for women to experience orgasm. Men can attain complete sexual satisfaction by 15-20 minutes of penetrative sex, but women require much more time to reach the ultimate satisfaction. Most women need clitoral stimulation, excessive foreplay while others consider oral sex as a necessary prerequisite to reach orgasm.
Another facet or orgasm is the intensity. There are weak as well as very intense orgasms. Weak orgasm is a problem for many couples. Many factors contribute to weak orgasm. Small sized manhood, low libido, insufficient foreplay, low staying power are the major factors that contribute to weak orgasm. On the other hand, an intense orgasm means that you have won her over. And if you are skillful enough to reproduce intense orgasm each time you have sex, she will be much more delighted and will be storming for more.
If you are able to give your partner the sex life of her dreams, she will unleash all the reserves of intimacy, passion and pleasure lying dormant in her. The only thing to know is what to do and do it with all your heart.
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Wed, June 25, 2008 10:02 am By Steven Kelley
 Sex is vital for the sheer survival of marital life. Most relationships become distant when sex becomes less. Many couples even walk out from their relationship due to lack of sex.
The process of getting into the mood for sex is different for men and women. For men, the process of lovemaking is simply the ways by which they can show their partner how much they love them. On the other hand, women are more emotional. A woman needs emotionally attached to respond to a man sexually. Hence, it becomes important for men to create the right emotions as to increase the chances of have a satisfying and exciting sex life.
The best way is to engage with your woman to create an ambience so that both of you feel good about. Since it is the right emotions that your woman is expecting from you to get her into mood, find out ways to hook her to you emotionally.
Communication is the key. So, communicate with your spouse and find out her likes and dislikes. At this point, it becomes important to remind you that a woman falls in love with a man when she feels great to have around him. This is because she tends to attach her great feelings to him. So, make your spouse feel great about you, about your relationship and about your love for her.
As a result, sex becomes even more important to both of you. When you do it at the right time and the right way (as she expects), the frequency of sex automatically increases. You both will then get closer which will give way to more great emotions and even more desire for sex.
When you are attached to each other both sexually and emotionally, the bond becomes even stronger. Your relationship becomes just the way you want it!
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Sat, May 31, 2008 11:56 am By James Coolridge
 When it comes to lovemaking, men and women are heterogeneous. A man won’t need much time to get prepared for the love making session as they are “switched on” automatically. On the other hand, women need some time to get themselves ready for the love making session. While you may desire the penetrative sex, all that she desires may be a good kiss to arouse her sexually. So why should you be selfish and enjoy the pleasures of lovemaking alone? If her wish is granted, it will definitely reciprocate! So go ahead and shakes every nerve in her by kissing her passionately. After all, it is one of the best romantic gestures!
You should accept that women love kisses. You will be on your way to satisfy her by giving her a good kiss. So, don’t get tired of whenever she asks for a kiss. Lean in a posture that is comfortable for both of you and start kissing slowly and softly while holding her hands. Don’t rush; make her relaxed to be kissed. Her body will be automatically responding at a certain point and then she will take the charge. When she takes the charge, don’t confuse, stay back, and allow you to be kissed. Remember, the kiss should be so sweet as to make your woman asking for more.
If you want to make her go wild, don’t do many things at a time. Your hands may want to go everywhere while you are kissing but it is better to concentrate on each step of making love. Not all the kissing ends up in sex but it surely satisfies her largely.
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
Sat, May 31, 2008 11:55 am By James Coolridge
 When you are fantasizing about sex, you may imagine all sorts of techniques, positions and a scenario in which your woman responds with utmost intensity, which makes you feel like heaven! In your erotic reveries, have you imagined what all can give your partner utmost satisfaction? What are the elements that can unlock all her passion and intimacy? What all can convert the sparks into unquenchable fire in her being? Read on to find all the answers.
The passion, of course, won’t come in a single blow. As far as women are concerned, it is a gradual process for them culminating in orgasm, which requires skill and intensity. You should know that it takes time, concentration, and skill for pleasure to build up in women. This is very important for the mutual enjoyment. In short, the culmination of orgasm is through foreplay.
Foreplay is not an issue for men. A man easily gets aroused and usually culminates in orgasm within five to seven minutes of penetrative sex. However, it doesn’t apply to women. They require at least fifteen minutes of penetrative sex to experience their initial orgasms and at this point, most men will be losing steam. Therefore, it is quiet clear that men should have the sexual strength that should be preserved as to build up the pleasure quotient in women more rapidly.
The mutual pleasure is achieved by foreplay. Gentle gestures and caressing stimulates the sensitive erogenous zones. The pleasure builds up in the woman and as a result, the time duration of physical exertion by the male to produce orgasm is reduced largely.
Moreover, the more intense the foreplay is, the more intensely is the orgasms. If foreplay is absent, you woman will either experience a weak orgasm or no orgasm at all. Most men rush through foreplay and get straight into sex. On the other hand, women prefer the approach to be slow and seductive. This is because men use physical faculties while women inculcate both physical and psycho-emotional faculties during sex.
Foreplay builds up the mutual intimacy. Hence, it is very important to have foreplay before the penetrative sex. No other activity is found to reinforce the sexual intimacy as foreplay does. It is the passionate and adventurous exploration of the highly sensitive, intimate, and erogenous zones. If foreplay is done will skill, concentration, and tonnes of affection, the result will be a great sexual experience!
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
Fri, May 30, 2008 12:07 pm By James Coolridge
 Male orgasm is a very complex experience, which is attained only at the peak of sexual pleasure. Let us know about how male climax works.
Orgasm is attained when the various muscle groups contract simultaneously. The rhythmic contractions of pubococcygeus muscle, commonly known as pc muscle, occur with the contraction of the anal sphincter, perineum, rectum, the ejaculatory ducts, and muscles around the penis.
The contractions are initially intense. They occur at the intervals of about 0.8 seconds. As orgasm progresses, the contractions become less frequent and less intense.
A number of medical experts have studied and tested Xtracum pills, which are taken by thousands of people who have noticed that their sperm count, stamina and the pleasure increasing within the first week of dosage. These pills contain natural ingredients that have been proven beneficial for the male sexuality. There are proven to increase the production of sperms, help get harder erections, increase the sexual drive, boost self-confidence, and improve your sex life.
However, we recommend consulting your doctor before following such pills.
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
Thu, May 29, 2008 12:03 pm By James Coolridge
 Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It is perhaps the supreme social institution of civilization. It deserves the due respect. The unforgivable ‘crime’ done to this prestigious relationship is infidelity. There are many reasons to relate to spouses cheating on the other half. The person cheating may be looking for something, which is not offered to them in their married life. They may even cheat on their partners for revenge purposes.
We used to wonder when we heard of a women cheating on. Nowadays it doesn’t even raise an eyebrow because of the alarming rate of female infidelity. A lot of credit goes to the technological advancement, which has given way to increasing cheating instances. Nowadays cheating husbands and wives are finding refuge in cyberspace facilities and they effortlessly hook up with a mate via the dating sites. The cheating partners are finding these dating sites as the ultimate remedy for all their loneliness and bitterness in their marriage life.
The main reason behind infidelity is found to be feeling of vulnerability in the modern society. A man feels that a professional woman is intimidating and not compliant at all. The tensions in such relationship are intensified. As a result, the man decides to cheat on his wife and goes with a person he feels more comfortable. He finds someone and somewhere else where he feels superior.
Sex is another key issue in tumbling relationships. Cheating partners don’t get sexually satisfied in their marriage.
Tags: Intimacy, cheating, sexual, infidelity
Wed, May 28, 2008 12:00 pm By James Coolridge
 Sex is a powerful, amusing, and unifying experience. Almost nothing else can be compared to sex when it comes to the magnitude of satisfaction and intimacy. It is a well-established fact that women desire more from sex than men do. Generally, physical reasons are related to men’s desire for sex while their female counterparts relate both physical and psycho-emotional angles to sex. So what do women desire from sex? Read on to know the explosive reasons!
It is a one-word answer. Orgasm. The whole sexual intercourse is aimed at the ultimate attainment of orgasm. It may sound simple but dude, it is not as simple as you think. There are many ways for the attainment of orgasm. A few require special mention.
Women really want to reach orgasm, though it takes much longer time for a woman to experience orgasm as compared to a man. A man may become satisfied by 15-20 minutes of penetrative sex but it doesn’t apply to a woman. She usually requires much more. However, many men are not willing to pay this price in terms of time and effort. As a result, their female counterparts feel unsatisfied and that is why, many of them never reach orgasm.
Intensity is another feature of orgasm. The orgasm can be weak or intense. Many couples nowadays experience very weak orgasms due to many factors. Low staying power, small sized manhood, low libido, and inefficient foreplay are some of the reason to relate to weak orgasms.
The third desire of women from sex is multiple orgasms. Though they are not easy to produce in women, there are still fair chances of multiple orgasms. Most women desire this and dream this repeatedly. The responsibility lies with the men who are generally inadequate in this respect.
The sexual intercourse should make a woman storming back for more and this is considered as a thoroughly satisfying sexual encounter for her.
Tags: Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, Partners, kiss, orgasm, multiple
Tue, May 20, 2008 1:20 pm By James Coolridge
 Many senior singles have the wrong notion that being fifty plus is not the age to think of companionship and intimacy. Well, this is absolutely wrong! Look at other people of your age who have enjoyed a lifetime of bachelorhood, or have lost their spouse. They may not want to marry again so they want to re-enter the dating world. Now have you changed your perception? If yes, then read on to get some hot dating tips.
Senior dating has become easier. Thanks to the senior centers which serve as great place for the senior men and women to find companionship. Here, senior citizens can meet and enjoy good times.
Church or religious occasions are another great place to meet like-minded people. There are many social clubs exclusively for fifty plus singles allowing seniors to relax and enjoy themselves. If you are dating after a long long gap, these social clubs may prove to be the best place to chill out with your senior date.
Of course online dating services provided by various websites are also the best way to find like-minded people. Thousands of profiles are waiting for you online! Go ahead be a member of any of the dating websites and you could really enjoy the dating experience.
Now that you have found out your date, it is the time to think about the first date. Well, you may have first date nervousness. Keep your cool and plan your first date. Planning relieves most of the dating stress. Here is how
Since you are going out with a person whom you are meeting for the first time, stick to public places.
The first date should be planned as to encourage conversation. Through casual talk, you will get to know each other.
Include common interests; share your views on your hobbies. This way, you will easily relate to the person. Hence, dating experiences becomes more meaningful.
Your first date should include activities of fun. Remember, you have come to chill out and step down from all the sorrows that you may have undergone. So, why not plan a meal on your first date? You can establish the intimacy you needed by going out for lunch or dinner.
This way, you can encourage more conversation which will lead to the establishment of intimacy which you desired for long.
Tags: Intimacy, companion, seniors
Wed, March 19, 2008 6:47 am By James Coolridge
 Intimacy is very important between couples of a lasting relationship. But, when she feels that you are not romantic enough, she may loose confidence in the relationship. Make sure that you go on and on. Follow a few ways to maintain romantic gestures and let her know that you can’t let her go off.
Go hand in hand:
Hold her hand while walking. When you greet her, hug her; give her a kiss to show how much you care about her. Put your arms around her while sitting on a couch.
Compliment her:
Appreciate and admire the things she does for you. And yeah, make sure the compliment is genuine!
Discuss things:
Communication lays the foundation of a strong relationship. If both of you can talk your heart out to each other, chances are, your relationship will stand a lifetime.
Tags: Intimacy, Hugs, Kisses
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