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Posts Tagged ‘Interest’
Sun, November 16, 2008 6:03 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 The first thing in this regard to make sure whether the girl you are dating is worthy of being your long-term partner or not. I am not asking you to be judgmental but knowing the person before hand is imperative for you before you think of investing your energies in her.
So when you first start dating, let your lady do the talking. As it is women love to talk and if you willingly allow them to do so, you are only telling them that you want to pay attention to them. This will help you know here better and release you of the effort of making a decision about what kind of person she is. So the rule of the thumb in this regard is don’t talk about yourself when you first meet someone. Have fun with her, crack jokes but clam up when the conversation turns to specific areas about your life. Turn yourself into a mystery and women won’t be able to get enough of you.
In fact the same lies even after you commit yourself in a relationship. Never give yourself completely to your woman too soon. Not even she has long been your girl friend or your wife for that matter. Let her discover something new about you at different stages of your life and you’ll see that the fun and excitement in your life will never hit the dumps.
Another key piece of information that I must tell you is that, the moment a lady gets bored with a relationship, consider its end has come. You may not like to hear this but this is a proven fact. In married relationships, I have seen women going in for extra-marital affair for this one sole reason. It is sad, but true. So always be someone who’s fun to be with, someone with whom people love to spend time with. Humor plays a great role in this regard. You can also invest in some hobbies or areas of interest like traveling etc. I am not asking you to do all this against your happiness so that you can impress your lady. This is one way of enriching your love life you must exercise and you’ll see that your woman will become addicted to your energy.
Tags: Interest, Women, dating women, Relationship with women, loving women, Relationship secrets, how to make a relationship interesting
Sun, May 18, 2008 1:19 pm By James Coolridge
 Some girls like it when men treat them in a very gentlemanly nice way. There are a few ways that you can do to a girl, which will make her feels appreciated and attracted to you.
1. Be sincere: Mean what you say. Do not say things that you do not actually MEAN about her. If you don’t have anything nice to say do not say anything at all. Remember, honesty really is the best policy
2. Respect her: For every decision that she has made, respect her decision, because she has her own rights after all. So do not expect her to always agree with you. Do also treat her friends and family members with respect too, as you will most probably score more points in this way.
3. Show interest in her friends and family: Girls often call their friends girlfriends. They are close and without their friends approval you don’t have hers. Try using some of these steps on them as well but not as much or you may seem to be a flirt.
4. Be attentive: When she talks to you, listen. Girls like guys who provide listening ears to them. Let them pour out their feelings to you, talk less, and listen more. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her.
5. Take Care for Her: Care for her, by opening the door for her, and pulling out the chair for her in restaurants, etc.
6. Try to be a Genuine Person: A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice person. Remember, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Small acts of kindness make a big impression.
Tags: Interest, friends, Family, care, Sincere, genuine
Fri, May 16, 2008 1:17 pm By James Coolridge
 It is very common to meet an opposite sex that you are interested at your workplace. You may be wondering how you can date her out; without making her think that you are too aggressive. I will share with you now what are the ways that you can use to approach this.
1. Get to know her more. Do not be too aggressive at the beginning if you do not get to her at all. Make her feel comfortable being with you around as a colleague first.
2. Make small jokes of her so as to break ice.
3. Whatever things that they tell you, try to remember them. Girls are impresses with guys who pay attention to what they are saying.
4. Make small talk; bring up normal things to talk about. For example, school, movies, or music.
5. Show interest in what they have interest for.
6. Do your research. Ask around to find out whether she has a boyfriend.
7. Ask her for her number. If she gives it to you, it is a good sign.
8. Once you get to know her more, ask her if she would like to hang out (on days off or before/after work).
9. If both of you have a good time while hanging out and she is available, try asking her to be your girlfriend.
10. If she needs more time, do not try to push her too much. Respect her decision and let her think about it. At the mean time, carry on with your life and do not make her think that your life is only revolving around her.
But if you get the chance to have her as your girlfriend, you must be prepared to face her at your workplace if you break up.
Tags: Love, Interest, Phone, number, office, co-worker
Wed, May 7, 2008 10:02 am By Judy Sly
 I think this is one of those questions that will outlast the world!
There are a few sure fire ways to tell if she is available.
You can tell she is available because she says call her anytime…and she means it. You can call her anytime of day or night and she never has to talk in “hushed” tones.
When the two of you are on the phone, she doesn’t sudden start talking all off the wall when someone walks in the room.
You can tell she is available when she has things on lay-away. Believe it or not that is a sure fire way to tell! Very few women that are involved have to use the lay-away plan. (Yes! I am serious!)
She always refers to her “Ex” as her Ex. She never slips and calls him her “husband”.
If she has anything nice to say about her Ex, she might not be available.
Ask her “hypothetically” speaking, how would she feel if her Ex started dating one of her friends? Gauge her reaction…you will find a lot of clues here…
Find out how long the divorce has been pending. If it has been over a year, I would worry about her availability! Think about it…
If you constantly hear male voices in the background at some really odd times, and when you ask about it she becomes quite defensive! Supposedly he is there either picking up or dropping off the children. (They don’t have a court order for specific times?)
How can you tell she is available? She is always available for you!
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Tags: Dating, Love, Interest, available, single
Sat, March 15, 2008 6:44 am By James Coolridge
 Research concurs that women judge a guy within the first 15 seconds of meeting him. Unfortunately, it doesn’t leave men with a lot of time to impress the potential sweet heart. So even before annexing her personal space, you need to make an impression from a distance. Here’s what you can do:
“Bad Boy” Appeal
Ever wondered why good girls end up dating jackasses? Well that’s coz women get attracted to the bad-boy appeal. The element of danger is best if it is an irresistible combination of mystery and unpredictability.
If You’ve Got it, Flaunt it
Although you need not slog you ass off working out in gym to have those six packs to get girls (it helps though!). Just stay in shape and get rid of that flab.
Dress the Part
Metrosexual man is the new in thing! So work on your looks and your wardrobe. Do it right- get that manly look and not a made up doll!
Be funny – Not corny
A witty sense of humor will take you that extra mile with girls. Just try and be a little subtle with your one-liners and avoid “low-brow” topics. You can also tease her about things in a way that would get her interested.
Tags: Dating, Interest, Irresistible, Sexy Man
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