Pick up lines don’t work! They are not effective at all even if you employ the best of expressions and punctuations. This is the only advice I have been only putting up so blatantly for all the men out there but its amazing to see that men still exercise it, I don’t know for whose good. If you know want to know what women think of men who indulge in this, let’s find out!

The first thing is what is your idea behind throwing a pick-up line to a girl? You want to impress her and perhaps catch her attention, right? Why? Why indulge in something every guy does in a bar, club or a street only lose their chances of never having that women again? Yes, women simply abhor men who throw pick-up lines at them.

For some it may be a piece of amusement and they may even smile if you’ve tried to be at your funniest best but getting that damsel to date you just because of that is something you should not even dream about. Because it will never happen!

I have asked numerous women about how they feel when they see a guy hitting on them in this way and they say that such men lose the chances of getting a genuine chance of knowing her. Because they think that pick-up lines are for losers. Memorizing some lines written by some other men in order to seduce women at clubs or wherever doesn’t come across as something decent to girls who are smart, intelligent and even easy going.

If you want to start up a conversation with a girl you are really attracted to, simply walk up to her and tell her, “Hi, my names this, what’s yours?”. Nothing looks better and genuine than being straight. If you see a positive response on the other side, you may crack something hilarious to break the ice but never indulge in the obvious with an intent of impressing her.

Women don’t want to hear regurgitated garbage.  It’s not the lines you use or even the words you speak that are important, it’s how you present yourself.

So until now even if you were convinced of the fact that pick-up lines, if good do work, drop the idea and gear-up to become upfront, confident and straight. Women like that and you’ll see that with this attitude, you’ll never miss a hit!

Not many among us will know that it is we ourselves who regulate our environment and our surroundings. In fact most among us won’t even agree if I say that if your lady left you by saying that you are a grumpy person to be with. You’ll think that I am putting the blame on you. I am not, my friend! I am only trying to make you see something you have been missing all your self.

When we confront some issue or a problem for a long period of time, we tend to get disheartened and there comes a time when we lose hope. Everything around us starts looking gloomy, the girl friend starts complaining, the boss too. And the more you try, the more things start going haywire. Then you think that since things are not in your hands, you ought to let it be and just sit aside and watch your own downfall by the day.

Isn’t it peculiar that you see your own self going in the dumps, and still feel that it is not I your hands to deal with it.

Let me give you an outlook. When you look up at a huge mountain whilst standing at its bottom, its size appears colossal to you and you think that you are too weak to climb it. On the other hand, if you look at the same mountain from considerable height, say at a 1000 meters above, you find it to be just a stepping stone and deciding upon its uphill journey doesn’t rake your nerves.

This is what we are supposed to do when we are hit with problems. Instead of looking at it with your fears, if you look at it thinking it to be just a stepping stone in your life, you’ll be able to surmount it at a pace faster than of you ever imagined. And when that happens, nothing on earth will be able to shake your confidence or disturb you in your journey of climbing on the ladder of success. The idea is to remain positive. To not get affected by trivial impediments. To take everything in your stride and live on with a happy heart.

You know what will happen if you become positive in life?
In a nutshell, you’ll get everything you have ever dreamt of. Yes, you’ll have the most beautiful, smart and intelligent women surrounding you because the magic of a healthy positive personality can miss no one on earth. You’ll radiate loads of hope and optimism and your life will beset with sunshine and bliss unbound! So my dear friends, never deter over anything in life. Everything is just a stepping stone towards your being a better person.