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Sun, August 3, 2008 3:24 pm By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Have you ever thought how special that first kiss can be? Especially when it is with the person that is so very special to you? A passionate first kiss can help your relationship to take a leap from boundary of just being friends to the sublime zone of love.
But to successfully cross these parameters, it is imperative that you do it right. One wrong step and you may wonder what hit you. Here are a few tips that will help you not only to muster up the courage to kiss your girlfriend but also ensure that you pass the first crucial test of exploring the chemistry between you without the feeling of awkwardness.
1. GET RID OF BAD BREATH-The first and foremost thing to keep in mind is that you should have fresh breath. And this goes for all the occasions- be it kissing or talking. You want her to be attracted by you not only while kissing but also when you are conversing. So keep away from garlic and onion and moisten your mouth because dryer mouth has the worse of breath. Remember to bring a pack of gum or mints in your back pocket or drink something to have a sexy breath that beckons her.
2. FIND THE RIGHT PLACE- To make the first kiss impressive and unforgettable, you have to take her to a secluded place, away from the prying eyes. It will relieve the tension of being in the full view of others who may be judging your performance. Also, your lady love may not feel comfortable with the audience around. By being alone with her there will be more room to create romantic tension and land the kiss on her while making that first kiss all the more memorable.
3. LOOK FOR THE RIGHT MOMENT-After you have found the right place look for the right moment. Pick a moment where it feels right to kiss her. It should not feel forced and make it feel like it was unexpected. Instead it should be spontaneous. This is crucial because you don’t want to randomly kiss her and spoil the whole show. Her body language and behavior will help you decide the right moment for the chemistry to work between you.
4. GO FOR IT- Now that you have reached the position where things have moved from just ‘friendly conversation’ to the point where there is heaps of sexual tension between you and your girl, land the kiss on her lips. Ensure that your lips are lightly pressed on her lips. If she gives you the signal that she wants to carry on (she might slightly open her mouth) go with the flow and you can mingle your tongue with hers. Don’t thrust it, just do it enough where you can feel the tip of her tongue and play with it a little.
Remember, the sure shot formula to get that first kiss right without feeling of any awkwardness is to have loads of confidence.
Tags: Dating, Girlfriend, Relationship, First kiss, romance, kiss, men
Mon, July 28, 2008 6:10 am By James Coolridge
 Consider this scenario- You have at last met the girl of your dreams, your sole mate. Not only that, you have gone through the whole rigmarole of the dating process and have come out with flying colours. So the next obvious step according to you is marriage. But she doesn’t seem to be ready for it!!!
Marriage is on your mind but the thought has not stuck your girlfriend. Though marriage is your idea, no amount of begging or pleading can force her to walk down the isle.
So do you negotiate marriage with a woman even if she is not ready for it?
Not necessarily.
Are you living with your girl friend? Because if that is the case and you are in a live-in relationship with her, it can become a big deterrent. It will pose a threat in taking the relationship to the next level-marriage.
So the best thing for you is to stop living with your girlfriend. You deserve more than hoping that this arrangement of living together is one step towards becoming the husband you crave to be. Believe me it is no substitute for the real thing.
So why is that your girlfriends can’t seem to like the idea of marriage? Especially when you have been living together and giving her everything that goes with the marriage?
It seems as if you have not been able to make any impact on her when you decided to live with her. When I say “impact” I mean that you have already prepared an environment where she gets all the perks and privileges of a wife sans the emotional and legal binding. The fact of the matter is that she has not fully understood the difference between you being the live-in boyfriend and being her husband.
Actually, her brain is thanking you for it because deep inside of her, she knows that with the little bit of freedom she still has, she’s still has the choice to take her own sweet time and decide on the next step. You are in no way threatening her safe haven that she has created for herself. It is not only delusional for her but also for you.
Don’t shower her with everything, nor give her too much love - NO!
Instead give a little bit at a time in order to test her to see whether she’s a real woman who can stay in your heart and home. That’s when she’ll get the opportunity to decide whether you ‘re really her Prince Charming.
And if she does, she will be waiting with baited breath for you to pop up the “question” soon!!!
Tags: Dating, Girlfriend, Relationship, Marriage, men, husband, boyfriend
Thu, July 24, 2008 11:58 am By James Coolridge
 Are you looking ways to make your girl happy? Trying to make her complemented? Wanna impress her with your words and ways? Just a minute. First read these few lines before you make the next move. What is it that a girl will look for in a compliment? Girls don’t want a guy to start in on her about how beautiful she is. Most women already know that they are attractive. And if they aren’t the of course they are intelligent to know that you are lying. Remember they have already had plenty of years without you around and are pretty good judges about when somebody is making false compliments to her. If you compliment a woman too much then remember that you are putting way too much in value in her hands. She will automatically assume that she is very much better then you. Want to put yourself in problem? Now even if she is you don’t want the perception to be what it is. You want her to think that you are the “catch. Make her feel she is lucky talking to you.
A way to do this is not compliment their appearance but complement on who they are and what they do. It makes a woman feel very important when someone is complimenting where they work or a hobby they have.
Try out a few examples-
1. “It seems like you have a really awesome job there. I bet that place is lucky to have you.” You simply made her feel that she is doing something worthwhile. And now you have recognized it.
2. “I can tell from how you carry yourself that you are great at tennis.” This allows you to compliment her body without making it painfully obvious.
Women always feel good to know that they are more than just objects to us. So remember when you just compliment their beauty then they really know what you are truly after. They love to feel that what they are doing is a good thing and when you make a point on that just reassures them.
Tags: Dating, Girlfriend, woman, Body, Man, impress, complements, tennis
Fri, July 4, 2008 11:22 am By James Coolridge
 This is definitely is one of the biggest challenges of the relationship. If you think girls don’t care about their families opinion be prepared for a very short relationship.
Most girls contrary to your opinion are quite attached to their families and the family’s opinion will play a big role in your love life. So to have a smooth love life, try to create a congenial relationship with your lover’s family. Ask your girlfriend for details on family dynamics, their sense of humor, their professions and hobbies.
The first time meeting
This first meeting has the entire formula needed to make a perfect disaster, so tread carefully. Dress yourself according to the place of meeting if it’s their house or your girls house dress casually but elegantly in trousers and shirts with a spiffy jacket. (Jeans and tees are a definite no-no). If you’re meeting them in a restaurant or club dress up fancier, say in a suit.
Bring a gift wine, candy, flowers, if you’re going to their home or offer to pay, if you’re dining out. (Deep pockets are a sure fire way of earning approval)
Keep the conversation light for the first time, show an interest in the family and focus on learning about them and compliment them on their daughter, (but don’t lay it too thick please) Avoid sensitive issues like religion, politics, race relations, foreign affairs at all costs. (This is not the time to express your individuality or opinions)
The Siblings
Guys are often so busy trying to impress the parents they often forget how important the siblings are ( in some cases more important than the parents).
Her sister especially will be the hardest to impress but once you have managed to impress her she will become your strongest ally. Ask her questions about your girlfriend and what she was like growing up, she’ll be impressed that you want to know more about their childhood and she’ll relax telling familiar stories.
Brothers are easier but still be wary of them, try some male bonding with them over baseball and beers or other interests. Brothers can ease the way for you especially with the mothers so try getting on their good side.
Tags: Girlfriend, lover, families, siblings, first meetings, first impressions
Wed, April 2, 2008 12:20 pm By James Coolridge
 You have an amazing gal. So amazing, that she attracts packs of lusting men towards her. All of them trying to grab her attention or worse trying to coax her out of her clothes! They could be just platonic friends. Or they could be intruders, plagues bent on weakening and circumventing you. What to do?
Here are few situations when you could tell that she’s cheating on you or has her newly found interest:
1. You had a hint of a men’s cologne from her that you don’t use!
2. She is strangely not bothered about you and isn’t critical about you.
3. She lied to about something and you found out.
4. Your sex life…err…wait a minute, what sex life?
5. She is on a grooming and shopping spree. She has started to take care of her looks too much.
6. She works longer hours- meeting, projects, deadlines and new boy friend… may be!
7. She can’t stop talking about this new colleague.
8. You hardly get to talk to her family. She doesn’t talk about them to you either.
9. She has become defensive and paranoid.
10. She keeps comparing you with this “super-human” friend of hers.
Tags: Girlfriend, cheating, affair
Wed, March 12, 2008 1:43 pm By James Coolridge
 Break ups are always painful. You will go crazy if you loose the most important person in your life. Result? Heartache and days filled with intense sorrow. Recover yourself from this miserable condition. Don’t get cheesed off, we all have break ups. Just beat the agony. Break ups is handled differently by different people. These steps may not be perfect for everyone, but will surely help!
Why did the relationship break-off? Examine what happened and why did the relationship break off? This may help to avoid missteps in future.
Accept, don’t deny; If you are at fault, accept it. Accepting responsibility for your shortcomings is healthy. However, don’t be pessimistic. You are also a good person and it was not one-sided.
Take out all the frustration: This is the phase when you feel like screaming, crying. Go ahead, take out your frustration. This will reduce your pain. You may also feel like hating yourself but let go off that feeling fast. It is a sheer waste of time in hating or punishing you over a relationship which exists no more.
Friends- your shoulder to cry on: Talk to your friends, seek their advice. This will reduce the burden. Devote your time with your loving friends, family and acquaintances. They will give you sigh of relief and deviation from whatever happened in the past. Remember, there are lots more to do in life than being in a relationship.
See that there is no sense in being heart broken, regretful or creating hatred for your ex. Vanish all your thoughts about your past relationship and go ahead in life because, life is short!
Tags: Ex Girlfriend, Girlfriend, Relationship
Wed, March 12, 2008 12:10 pm By James Coolridge
 It is easy to break off, but difficult to maintain any kind of relationship. When it comes to the bond between you and your girlfriend, the relationship often becomes vulnerable to a painful end. Don’t make it doomed to failure. Handle the relationship with care!
Lack of communication: Many relationships get spoiled due to lack of communication. Always speak your mind. Be open and discuss things with her. Don’t make her think that you are hiding something. Conversations and getting to know one and other can spark many other conversations that may lead to even further experiences and happy memories with one and other. Good communication helps maintain your healthy relationship.
Always be calm: Even if you don’t agree her opinion, better stay calm rather than loosing temper. Arguments always annoy women. Small fights may develop into bigger ones. So, avoid them.
Stay in shape, be stylish and in good hygiene: Women will never like smelling dates. Make sure that whenever you meet her be neat, stylish at the same time attractive. Your girlfriend will stay attracted to you and will not look for a change!
Never hurt her feelings: Never say anything ruthlessly that may put an end to the relationship. If you are not at fault, say it in a manner that can be understood easily which won’t affect your relationship.
Tips never fix a relationship. However, they can always help you avoid bitter end to your relationship!
Tags: Love, Girlfriend, Long Term Relationship, Communication
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