First date is a very sensitive meeting. Both the partners are not aware of each other completely. So, even a small mistake at one’s side can create a stalemate. Some wrong words and gestures can turn your dream romance of first date into some bin. So here are five mistakes you can avoid on your first date:

1) Don’t consider date a healing session: Don’t think about dating as a healing or a therapy session. You are not here to talk about your emotional setbacks. It’s not a place where you chuck all

your emotions on this new person you met for the first time. You will certainly drive your date away.

2) Don’t talk about your past: Avoid any mention of the past in your life. Talking too much about a past relationship will only reveal your imperfection. If you are bitter about the old relationship, then you will be just creating a negative image of yourself. It is best that you throw away the past and look forward to a new beginning. Your past might create problem in your present if you won’t do away with it.

3) Don’t be anxious to make out. Avoid getting into bed on the first date. You might feel that it portrays that you are liberal and open minded but the underlying meaning shows desperation.

4) Don’t bear the whole expense yourself: It is ideal to go ‘Dutch’ on the first date. Otherwise it gives the impression that you are dependant or do not want to spend money. So it better both of you share the expense.

5) Don’t go overdressed: Dress appropriately. Maintain dignity. The other person will definitely respect you. Wear something that looks stylish yet comfortable for you to wear.

These are few steps one should not take when going for first date. These do not give a right impression. So be careful of making these blunders and enjoy your date…!!!!!

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Oh.. Planning for the first date ever… Confused and Worried? Not too confident as what will happen?
Don’t you worry, just follow some simple rules and enjoy the time with your date.
1. Look your best: Don’t try to be professional or ethnic when have to go for a meet. Be calm, chill and dress in clothes which suit you the best. Be contemporary in your wear-up. What ever you wear do remember to check your shoes as women always look at your shoes even if the last time your shoes were out on your anniversary!
2. Look and be hygienic and styling sorted out: Visit a barber before you plan for a meet and set out your hair, get a decent style. If you don’t have much hair still get down to the salon and either get your head shaved or something you are comfortable with. Put good quality cologne. We understand! It means expenditure… but it’s a date which you need to impress! Remember… Women will appreciate it!

3. Are you on Job? Women mainly look for a guy who earn well. At least good enough to fulfill her ambition! So, any job is better than none. It might be possible that in her first meet itself, she may ask present and future plans!!!! Ooops.. now what to say! So, better be prepared.

4. How about your General Knowledge: Women do not appreciate stupidity and laziness is no excuse either. Current affairs are important to be aware of and have the understanding of like sitting in a entrance examination. So, make sure you are updated with the current affairs and the quality of news you watch and read. It does bring an impact.

5. How about Sports…: Aaahh! Another shot… Like sports… good, but if sport is a religion for you then you are bringing trouble in your life. We know that millions of girls love sport too and that is fine but don’t make your passion into a one-sided one.

6. Do you drink or smoke? Smoke – Give up right away. Girls hate men who smoke and yes do take care of this too that you can never win a princess heart if she gets to know that you are drinking in bar 5 nights a week and that you live in there only.

7. Start Listening and stop talking: The most important point in all seven. Don’t turn into one man entertainer. Do listen to her as she is there with you to share her view and thoughts. Women love to chat and listening her will give a good impact of yours. Don’t believe! Try it!

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