Well, only if it was as easy. We’ve had numerous men in history who’ve tried to decipher and write down how exactly women think but all they could do is only turn them into literature. And the saga is still on. We still have men trying to set thinking patterns of women under specific rules but alas, there are not rules – there can never be any!

Let me tell you why!
This is because women do exactly the opposite of what is expected of them in a particular situation. For instance, if a woman likes you, you’ll only be very lucky if you get a smile from her. Else under normal circumstances, she’ll never even let you know what’s on her mind in any way. Yes, she may even ignore you or not even look at you. Don’t be surprised on this because women actually do that.

Their logic behind this is that a man is the one who should always make the first move. Why? Because he is a man! I’ll narrate an incident to you. A couple of years back when I was far too less experienced and you could say shy too, I liked this lady but somehow didn’t approach her thinking that she seemed a little less friendly. Two years back I met her again and was surprised after a drink or two; she asked me why had I not asked her out for date ever? When I told her that she should’ve shown some sign of interest at least, she said that was MY job. I mean that was the first and the last lesson for me of that kind. It was then that I realized how ironical women can be at times. But I don’t blame them entirely. Tradition has always put men on the forefront when it came to wooing a lady and I feel in the hearts of women, it still reigns.

Since then I have commonly seen this trait in almost every ‘sensible’ women I’ve met. So now I don’t really think before asking a lady I am attracted to, for a date. What makes it easy for me is I stay prepared for the worst before approaching any one. I mean the worst that can happen is a denial from her side. But then I’ve also been able to date some of the most gorgeous women around with this new-found confidence of mine.

So the next time you see this damn hot woman around you, you know exactly what to do lest you’ll find yourself regretting in the end!

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There’s a saying which goes that there are two things men have learnt to do with women – love them or turn them into literature! However, no one has ever affirmed the fact that he has understood them completely. But we can’t let go off them as well. We have to keep trying, trying and trying! So here are some mixed signals women give divulging what’s exactly on their mind but let me tell you, there are no rules and no specificities – all this is just an outcome of experience.

To start with, a woman can be bonkers over you without letting you know an iota about it.

I’ve known many women who’ve been head over heels in love with guys but never let them have even a hint about it. Yes, that’s how women function. The reason behind what lies behind their doing so is because they expect you to make the first move.  Women always prefer men to approach them first.  This is why I said that irony is what makes women because they send such mixed signals which we feel are not even worth trying to decipher. 

I would say those of you who’ve gotten a smile in your direction as indication of her interest in you are immensely lucky. Most of the times women pay less attention to men they are interested in. Yes, can’t help it but that’s the way it is. So poor men are left with no clue whatsoever. Doesn’t make any sense, I know.

Let me tell you why!
You see, hot women (in particular) are hit on by lot of men, all the time.  They’re used to be in the lime light constantly. Thus they reason that if you like them, it’s you who’ll approach them first or make a move.  If they don’t see you doing it, then you’re either not interested or are not man enough.  To put it more precisely, you’re too cowardly.  And why would any lady date a coward?

Well some of you might find this element in women baffling enough. It is but knowing them I hope can still help us hitting them the right way. You certainly have to be a bit patient and prepared to make it up to them but once you reach them the right way, they’ll be all yours!

So my dear friends, I wish this New Year brings you harmony and success in your love life in the best way possible!
You’ll get to read more of me in my next article!

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