Will you believe if I say there is a species of women who seek men that DO NOT praise them for their looks? Women who don’t like men clinging on to them for nothing and everything they say or do? Yes, there are women like that – women who are extremely good looking, smart and intelligent. Women who know what men think about them. Let’s know more about them!

Well the foremost reason why these women do not like to be complimented is because they are hot and they know it too well. Such women are being hit on by everyone from young boys to older men. They constantly get attention in the same form from everyone, owing which there is not a single line they’ve not heard in the book.

They know their looks and figures are constantly being scrutinized by men.

Now if you meet such a girl for a date and on knowing that she needs someone who can see past all this and try to know her a person, you say that you can’t blame the guys because she IS hot, you’ve lost it even before starting it. You said the same thing too and she’ll see it in your eyes that you too are as hungry for her skin as other men are. She’ll drop you!

Let me tell you a way to drop this girl on your own terms! I mean if you are someone with a strong head, you ought to get impressed with her but you must also make her feel your worth as an individual. The idea is to also let her realize who you are and that your credibility is no less than hers in any way. So with the girl who’s incredibly hot and a perfect 10er, you may need to use what are called the ‘negative hits’.

When you meet this girl, don’t compliment her at all. Greet her as if you’d meet all the other girls and don’t let it show in your eyes that you have immediately fallen for her. You have to show her that you’re not like other men and that you’re not going to worship her like others do. You don’t care if she’s hot. Her extraordinary beauty is irrelevant and she needs to prove her worth to you just like any other woman. Or rather she’s just one of the many women vying for your attention.

When you do this, you may get a reaction much different from what you expected. However normal she pretends to be, her ego will be hurt to the hilt if she sees you doing so. If she becomes obnoxious, you needn’t think a second before dropping her right that instant. Or else if she stays mum and watches what exactly you are up to, talk to her about everything but her looks.

After both of you have known each other for quite some time, compliment her in a tasteful manner but sincerely. Believe you me, this will be the most precious compliment she’ll guard all her life. She should feel that she’s earned your admiration and will hold you in high spirits forever.

Try this in person and you’ll see you’ll never miss a hit!

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You fix a blind date just to step out of the routine boredom and when you meet the damsel, you don’t believe what you see - a super gorgeous woman, with a beautiful face, perfect figure and a personality to die for. The pressure builds up and you feel you just can’t let this girl slip off. She is the best you’ve ever met, after all. On the other note, she’s the best you could ever get in your entire life.

This is indeed the most common emotion felt by all men when they meet an extremely smart woman unexpectedly.

Now if the woman finds you to be decent as well, you’ll be lucky enough for she will talk to you and try to inform you about her likes and dislikes so that you know the best of her. Here is where the key lies and here is where most guys lose.

Let me show you how!

Now women who are attractive, beautiful and smart are not new to the gesture of being liked, admired or even hit by numerous other men for that matter. And every man she’s met in the past probably felt the same as you and got so swayed away with her looks that that was all they talked about with her. Asking such girls if they’re into modeling, whistling at her and hitting on her by all possible ways are things men usually ask such females. Following the common perception, they think that just like every woman likes to be praised, this lady being so beautiful already will seek it as well. THIS IS WHERE MEN LOSE. This is where even you will lose if you tell her the same.

I am not saying that you shouldn’t praise her but with such women; the game has to be played in slightly unconventional fashion.
Now the first thing is this girl is certainly not looking for attention in the same form in the man she is seeking for a relationship. She wants a man who can see past all the physicality and try to know how she is as an individual. So if you want to impress this lady, the only way to be someone different from the crowd. Or you can at least pretend to be. You need to be interested in something other than only her looks. And the rule of the thumb here is never compliment a hot girl for her figure or her looks. I mean the  
other way of doing it can be to know about her interests and then compliment her on it.

And if at all you intend to compliment her on her looks, always remember, it has to be seldom, sincere and earned by her over time. She should feel the urge of you telling her how you find her. And in order to do so, my advice is to initially talk about everything concerning her except her looks.

This is called hitting the woman in a negative way.Don’t disappoint her with too much praise and you’ll have this pretty damsel is admiring you instead of you drooling all over her! Wishing you the best!

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