How often have you heard about women leaving men either because of their looks, age or lack of decent financial standing? All the time, isn’t it? But tell me one thing clearly, have you have had the girl coming to you and telling that she left you because of any of these. Well, I am not talking about the lesser mortals who woo men because of materialistic reasons. I am talking about genuine women, who understand what bonding with a man means and want to have a serious relationship with them.

I don’t think such a woman ever leaves a man saying that you are not good looking and hence I can’t continue with you. Well, if she was so bothered about it so much, she wouldn’t have agreed to date with you in the first place. But what if smart, intelligent women don’t date with you just because you are way too older to them? What if they don’t notice you in the first place only?

You know what?
You now don’t need to worry about women not noticing you over any of these reasons now. This is because you can now make young, intelligent women get attracted to you at your own will, irrespective of your bank balance, your age or your looks. You can now seduce them at your own leisure and make them fall in love with you with intensity that’ll have shivers running down your spine.

How?
By tapping their heart, their emotions! Women are emotional beings. They think from their hearts, not their brains. Logic plays a minimal role in their decision making when it comes to choosing their partner. If you try logical things by being a nice guy and thinking that good girls are bound to get attracted to a good guy, you are absolutely wrong. Good girls (and this may hurt you) get attracted to bad guys who don’t have even an iota of intelligence like yours.

So my dear friend, its time to get that streak of wildness out now. If you tell women what they are willing to listen rather than what you think is right, I bet you’ll never miss a hit at the super beautiful damsel, you have always been wanting to talk!

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A common saying… “One can never understand Women”! Is it actually soo tough? Do you want to understand her or her moods? Well I think women can be understood only if you share good time with her while a date or on phone. Dating is rather considered to be a better aspect to understand someone special for your life. Dating is hard enough, but to date someone that you don’t understand, is even harder.
Well to have pleasant date with your partner or spouse or your lover –
1. Arrive on time: Whether you are picking your date from her home or meeting at some place the first thing that you are meeting her. So, reach early or be on time, else she will take the other way round of yours coming late that either a) you are not willing to come or b) there is no excitement in you for the meet.

2. Bring flowers or some gift: Saying flowers may seem that it’s an outdated tradition now… but the thing is that Women still love flowers. If you are not aware of her choice then Roses are always there to cover all flowers in queue. Whether the date is a first date or you have been dating for years, women will always appreciate the romantic gesture of receiving flowers.

3. Treat her like a lady: Giving an equal level respect to her, care and love which she is liable of to keep the lit of love and togetherness always existing within you and her. Show her your care by opening the doors for her whenever you have to enter. This applies to cars and buildings. When entering a building, open the door and allow her to enter first. Never walk in before the woman, this is considered rude and inconsiderate by some. Pull out her chair for her and wait for her to be seated before sitting down.

4. Don’t Talk work: Take it a rule of thumb, never ever talk about your work, unless your date asks about it. Answer her question, but keep it brief.

5. Have sense of humor: Women want to spare good time with their dates. Try to add humor and avoid dirty jokes as they can create a nasty environment which may lead to not good result! So, try to make your date laugh or at least make her smile with your wit and charm.

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There is always a fear of word “Yes” or “No” when guys have to go out for dating. Today guys and gals have grown advance with the advancement in technology. There are many things that have evolved in the course of time rather than that of only meeting. Chatting, SMS’s, Video conferencing and many fast furious terminologies that now have been evolved to meet online rather than a personal meeting. However, one can never say that the date is complete till meet personally.

The first date can be a girl you have a crush on or meeting just casually. You are confused, palms are sweating and trying to come up with something exciting and funny, but are unable to say anything and the process goes in silence in conversation. And by the time you come in a position to speak… its time for the lady to say good bye!

Aaah… tried to have exciting day but all went wrong! We understand the above situation turned upside-down and was like a worst nightmare. But then, this is not the same with all men. Some guys do something boring on the first date. Plan to go to the movies together, sitting at a cafe, having an expensive dinner at a restaurant – the list is endless.

But then, are we impressing our lady and is the date planed the way it should be adventurous is it the same way! Think about it! What should be done to have the first date always memorable?

We try the following … they might be of use for you for your first date.
Stay calm and look fresh. The appointed day to meet - start your day with good music. Get dressed in a well and proper manner, may be in T-shirt and Jeans with Nike shoes and a good fragrance of perfume. Stay chill and happy and mood real refreshing.

Go to the market and purchase a nice good bouquet of flowers. Avoid gifts as you may not be aware whether whatever you take would be liked by her or not. So, no risk flowers still adorable gift for girls.

Reach to pick her from her home on time or if there is a place to meet reach there early. Take it a point never let your lady to reach before. If you know that possibility of Jam could be within the way leave your place early else it would be an insult for the lady.

Take her to a place where the crowd is not in heavy density. Walk and talk for things in your life and listen what she has to say from her side. And ya… point it the first date should be without any non-sense talk - Polite, humble and with respect. Listen to her and be a good listener. Then carry on this conversation to a good food in a good, hygienic restaurant. Share good words, good experiences, her taste of talk and share yours too.

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I decided to write on this because after seeing the way how men and let me say even ‘intelligent’ men go about ending their relationships; it saddened me to the core! Let me explain this to you by narrating a real-life incidence.
There was this acquaintance I knew who wanted to break up with his six-month old girlfriend. So without giving her any clue, he first stopped calling her without any reason. This brought her to immediately think that some thing had gone wrong between them. But when she called him to find out he spoke to her as if nothing was wrong and they chatted just like they would any other day. So she finally assumed that he had only been busy.

From then on, whenever she wanted to meet her, she has to literally push through his excuses. Only then would they meet. There certainly was a streak of reluctance in him which did come into her eye but since he was right there with him, she dropped the thinking that perhaps he was either tired, stress out or pre-occupied due to something. The end of the date would seem normal and so no clues could be dug from their meeting as well.

What’s disturbing is after a night of drinking he would call her for a late night booty call. As I always say that women are very sharp when it comes to gauging the integrity of a man, by now she had started questioning the merits of being in the relationship but then women are emotional creatures. Since he did make love to her still, she thought that he still loves her after all.

What women fail to understand is that men can easily have physical relationship with many women without having any true feelings for any of them.

So this is the flux that most men put women into without thinking about the extent to which anxieties can swell up in a woman’s mind. If you relate with what I’ve said in this article, then keep a track of my next article which will line ways about how can you call off your relationship with utmost kindness and genuineness. Until then, keep reading and be good!

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It’s been quiet some time since I have been talking about how men can find their dates on the beach. Since beach is a place where people usually come in a gay mood does not mean that one can take liberties in any which way thinking that all is well at a place like this. The fact of the matter is whether in office or on a beach, women need to be understood first and only then approached.

It is a matter of intelligent observation and striking a cord with a pinch of humor. So if you do find a damsel who seems as available and single as you are, instead of leering at her and seeing her reaction, go straight to her and start a light conversation if you are really serious. Most of the times beach babes are accompanied by their friends, Well, in this case you may also take your mate in tow but that can spell disaster is her friend does not like your pal. You’ll finally have your babe being dragged away from you. So the best way is to take it all alone.

Be as witty and charming as you can be while chatting with her. Even if her opening remarks may seem inviting, do not just lie on her sun lounger or offer her drink immediately. Do not invite her or her friends to your mates either. The fact is you may well impress her with your packs and abs but to leave her wanting for more, a dynamic conversation is what will actually break the ice. Your initial contact should be brief and you’ll have to spell magic within that time itself. Then retreat to play games with your mates in the surf whilst she looks on and discusses your potential with her friends. Later, it will be time for a longer visit for better conversation.

Also needless to say that women notice everything from top to bottom – all that you wear and all that you don’t. Hence take care about the kind of shades you ear to the briefs you flaunt. The best way out is to go to surf shop and know the essentials of all that is needed to be worn at a beach.

So here we are, you are in good shape, dressed well, carry subtle humor and most importantly are confident about making an open conversation. So just be yourself and have absolute fun!

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Hey ladies… going for a first time date? Are you excited? Are you confused? Don’t know what to do, how to do and where to start from?
Well.. Follow these steps… these might help you to overcome your part of doubts!
Don’t take things too serious. Be calm and relax and be the way you are. Don’t try to over highlight yourself or even under highlight yourself. At times Dating is been misunderstood in wrong way, however, the right version of dating is simply meeting. When you go out to date men for the first time, you are not aware of how the second person is like. You are not aware of his attitude, his behavior, his taste and his thoughts. So, it becomes but obvious to meet him and be casual and open the way as an individual you are and you are normally with your friends.

Dating is a long test of compatibility. One cannot say that the first meet will always last for ever. There may be points and conditions of yours as a woman which may not match to the man you are meeting. In today’s generation every one has the authority to choose her own match but then grapes are not sweet in every bunch, so, many arranged marriages work interestingly too.

In every society there are a predefined set of social rules we follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way we behave in public. The issue here is that when women date there are things that can help them be more successful. If we accept that dating is a game then there are rules to that game and winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance it gives you a head start. If men know the rules by which you are playing you may change the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge so feel free to adapt rule and add them as you feel inclined.

So, here are some tips for your first date:

1) Always look great. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick.

2) Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.

3) Never pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking.

4) Never ever come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile.

5) If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him

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I know how much some of us really look forward to flirting with women but this again is an art which men ought to know. So read on to know some tricks of the trade that’ll help you sail smoothly.
The first step towards flirting is having a flirty tone. Prolonging your vowels and slowing down on certain words is the key to it. When we say ‘flirting’, we mean we are not serious and that’s what is important to convey while you are in the act. Make it very clear that you are not being serious and the best way to do that is by doing it with your tone.
Using sexual innuendos here and there in a tasteful manner is another way you can establish a fine rapport with your partner. But always remember that try doing this only after you already have a certain amount of rapport with the lady. Some women do not easily approve of this even if they have developed a fine rapport with men, so the moment she gives you a weird look, stop it right that moment.

Now this may call for being a bit physical. Don’t forget to hug her if a moment arises. Women love to be hugged and such moments help you bind closely with your lady – in an informal sort of way I mean.

Prolonging your eye contact is yet another trick towards extending the fun of flirting. Look in her eyes a bit too long. Let the tension build and don’t look away until she does. This is one of the most exciting aspects of flirting. A little bit of physical rapport in a naughty way adds greatly to the intensity building up inside both individuals.

So next time you find a lady gelling well with you and flirting seems the best way to go, keep these things in mind and you’ll never have to look back for any lacunae. Be confident in everything you do. That’s the key to impressing the girl more than anything else!

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You like the pretty, smart damsel in your office. She’s cheerful, bright and vivacious. She’s been around for quiet some time now and your likeness for her has only increased. You see her talking to everyone with a smile that’s as intoxicating and that’s what confuses you. She talks to you the same way and so you just can’t whether she really likes you or not. Until you don’t really know how to read a woman, you are likely to be caught unawares about what exactly does a woman hold in her heart for you. So here we have some common but important signs that’ll tell you if a lady is really looking forward to knowing you more.

If you see this woman never leaving you alone even for a second, there’s certainly something on her mind. This is so because if she likes you and finds you impressive enough, she will want to be more and more around you and spend as much time with you as possible. This may make you feel a bit irksome sometimes but as we all know the heart knows no logic and so every things fair in love and war.

A person who seems interested in you may ask many questions about you. Well, if you are accessible to her and you often share greetings wither over coffee break, you’ll often find her asking many questions about yourself. No one will be curious in knowing about you until he/she is interested in you. In case you are not known to her, she may find her way by asking about you from a friend of yours or someone known. Women have a very glib way taking things out from someone. Well, no wonder they are called skillful players.

Furthermore, if you learn about her talking about you in front of other people, you shouldn’t spend a second thinking what’s going on. No woman talks about any man in front of others until she is sure about her mind and let me not miss, ‘her heart’.
Well well well, this is something which speaks for itself. If you find the lady out rightly flirting with you whenever you exchange dialogues, you should know that this lady is nothing but interested in you.

So you see that these are simple but important facts that may make you hit or miss the opportunity of coming close to the lady you’ve always wanted. So if you see the same happening with you, you know the way to go lad!

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In my last article, I already spoke about certain hints that tell you about how to read a woman. Well, the ones I’ll be talking about today may sound a bit irksome to you but women and yes women do indulge in them. It can best be explained by the quote, ‘Distance makes the heart grow fonder’. If you are not accessible to her or just an acquaintance, then she may try her best to get her way out in the best possible way she can. Let’s check out all about it.

When you see a woman doing little favors for you, either at office or a place where you meet for a little while over some errand, have no doubts about her interest in you. This does not come into picture as easy as it sounds. Women have their own way of tastefully doing little tasks for the man they are interested in. It could be handing over a glass of water to you or a piece of paper without your intimating to do so. What’s more? She may find reasons to be alone with you. Maybe when you are taking a silent break after a couple of strenuous hours at office. If a woman is interested in you, I mean to the extent of being a little possessive for you, she may keep into mind your every move and may silently guard you against odds.

One of the most apparent things that tell you about a woman’s interest in you is her being jealous of other women you talk to in office. I mean even if you are exchanging a smile with one, it may pinch her. A woman is an emotional being. Once she finds her likeness for some guy, she starts delving in a world of her own, thinking of that guy as an inseparable part of her real as well as imaginary life. Her intension of coming into your eye may not always be true. All these things come to them naturally and may only be a reflection of what she thinks about you in her mind. So if you’ve also had a silent liking for her, then I think you couldn’t have asked for more.

You may find these things a bit surprising but life’s all about little adventures and moments which you might have never expected and that’s what makes it beautiful. So if you are game to be in a relationship and have the woman you like giving you all the hints that she’s interested too, what are you waiting for? Ask her out!

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One of the most common goof-ups made by men, when it comes to complimenting their women is losing their impression or say their power by doing so. No, I am not saying that complimenting women is wrong. In fact it is one of the most important aspects that help you lure your woman but knowing the right way to do it is a skill all men ought to know.
In fact the approach most men follow to impress their ladies is flattery. If your intent is to flatter a woman by complimenting her for anything and everything, in a ‘sucking up tone’, you will surely see yourself fall in a pit. The ideal way should be to compliment her in an ‘approving tone’, which will help you put your point across without you losing any respect. By respect here, I mean romantic respect for if you start complimenting at the wink of an eye, she’ll start taking you for granted.

Let’s see some examples that reflect flattery in the way they are spoken:

“You look so very sexy in that dress” where this cannot be quoted as ‘bad’, telling this all too often may spoil the broth. On the other hand, if you convey it by saying, ‘I’m sure you know you look sexy in that dress” or “Not bad at all”, it adds on to the gravity you hold in you as a person. Saying something in a flirty manner works best at times as there should be some element of curiously still left despite your complimenting your lady.

There are so many other occasions where compliments are needed and you need to fair well in all of them. One such occasion would be when she invites you over for dinner. One of the best ways to put forth your mind would be “If you keep cooking so well, we could stop eating outside.” The smile on her face will tell you the respect with which she has acknowledged your compliment. I have often seen women giving just giving a dry smile when complimented in straight words and a bit too fast. When you are complimenting her, she should feel that it is coming from a credible source and it only and only depends on you.

So now that you know what to do and how, make sure you don’t lose the show the next time you put it.

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