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Fri, October 17, 2008 7:24 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Hey ladies… going for a first time date? Are you excited? Are you confused? Don’t know what to do, how to do and where to start from?
Well.. Follow these steps… these might help you to overcome your part of doubts!
Don’t take things too serious. Be calm and relax and be the way you are. Don’t try to over highlight yourself or even under highlight yourself. At times Dating is been misunderstood in wrong way, however, the right version of dating is simply meeting. When you go out to date men for the first time, you are not aware of how the second person is like. You are not aware of his attitude, his behavior, his taste and his thoughts. So, it becomes but obvious to meet him and be casual and open the way as an individual you are and you are normally with your friends.
Dating is a long test of compatibility. One cannot say that the first meet will always last for ever. There may be points and conditions of yours as a woman which may not match to the man you are meeting. In today’s generation every one has the authority to choose her own match but then grapes are not sweet in every bunch, so, many arranged marriages work interestingly too.
In every society there are a predefined set of social rules we follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way we behave in public. The issue here is that when women date there are things that can help them be more successful. If we accept that dating is a game then there are rules to that game and winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance it gives you a head start. If men know the rules by which you are playing you may change the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge so feel free to adapt rule and add them as you feel inclined.
So, here are some tips for your first date:
1) Always look great. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick.
2) Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.
3) Never pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking.
4) Never ever come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile.
5) If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him
Tags: Dating, Date, Dating Tips, quick tips,
Sun, August 17, 2008 10:50 am By James Coolridge
 Dating is not just taking any girl out for a spree. If you really want to have the girl stay with you for life, make sure you don’t miss upon some essentials because even if you slip a bit, you can end up in a flux which you certainly wouldn’t want to fall into, I’m sure!
When asking a girl out for a date, you may face different situations most unexpectedly. Before you lose you temper or get muddled up in thinking what to say and what not, be prepared to anticipate the unknown. How? Well, by read what we have for you written below. These are some common scenarios that one may confront on regular days while talking to their dates. It could be while asking them out for dinner, a moment when she has unexpectedly become annoyed or said something to you that might never have expected.
Let’s consider a situation first!
Suppose you are in a nightclub. Asking your girl to dance with you when she has just met with her group of old friends, will receive a negative response even if she likes the look of you. Learn to read the signals of the situation in a positive way. So asking a girl to dance at midnight when the DJ is about to play the last song will usually get you nowhere unless both she and you are desperate and really want to have some fun.
Therefore while being flexible and semi available, know your subject in advance and work out when she is most likely to be available if possible. If your timing is right, you could easily get lots of positive responses that will lead on to something more special.
• Always try to understand when a woman has good reason to say no
• Try to be a bit flexible and offer an alternative
• Don’t argue with her if she says no -move on
• You should always sound busy
• Life’s strange. You should learn to accept that some people you will meet at the wrong time
• Choose a weeknight for the first date if you can manage
• Never be scared of asking. It will only make you confident.
• Just don’t get annoyed if she says no. Smile!
• Always try and know as much about your date’s circumstances in advance only if she is known to you already
• Try not asking her out when she is clearly busy or stressed or unhappy or not well
These tips have already helped many to smoothen their dates and play their parts to the best of their abilities. Hope it does for you!
Tags: Date, dance, woman
Wed, July 23, 2008 11:58 am By James Coolridge
 Do you feel uncomfortable in meeting new girls? Are you a shy guy? Are you the type who feels really odd in social situations? If you are, then no doubt, you may find dating threatening. Cool! Throw down your worries. Enchant yourself among good company of girls. Yes I know what’s now moving around in your mind. Does it sound like something the same as impossible?
No worries. With the right dating advice, shy guys can also strike a conversation with an attractive lady. She will stop turning away from you. And to make things more charming she will find you attractive. All you need is the right approach. Awesome?
The most valuable advice for shy guys is to know where to meet the women. Choose it wisely. The time of meeting do matter. Feels like having it heard somewhere earlier? Although most men find bars a great place to pick up girls, it is not a good choice for shy guys. Never try in a bar. It is filled with many single men who can talk very well. Thus, you will face a lot of competition, and you may deprive of results that you expect. Choose a less crowded place. It could be a library or a grocery store. You will be able to find the environment more suitable for communication.
Listening is also very important, especially for shy guys. Listen to what the lady is talking about. Put more questions about what she speaks, for instance, at work or her hobbies. You will find that you will be able to strike a good communication with her. Really a nice way to impress her.
You can also bring a friend also when you are out to look for women. To be frank, when you are with someone else, the girl will see you as less threatening. Try this way to make her feel relaxed. Also, you will be able to strike out a good conversation, if you feel cool.
If you are honest to confess that you are a bit shy, the girl will be able to know how you feel. Often she may find you more interesting.
Everyone definitely has the right to look for a dating partner. Shy guys are also no different. All you need is the right approach, and you can have amazing pretty women for you. Isn’t it going out to make you a hot guy?
Tags: Date, Conversation, relax, boys, shy boys, bay, girls, library
Thu, June 26, 2008 10:02 am By Judy Sly
 It is a fact that the present day women are in better paying jobs whereas it was women hardly worked in earlier days. Most of them either worked on a cash register or a typewriter. So, from the social point of view, women have changed. The society has changed its outlook about the ability of women. Let it be military or the teaching profession, women are flourishing everywhere.
But when it comes to dating and sexuality, women have not changed. After a lot of observations, I may say that the personality and lifestyle of women are still unchanged. They are in fact, liberalist. Nothing has changed. Men pick up the dinner bills just as they did fifty years ago. Sex is easily obtainable as it was during those days. When it comes to dating, women in the present date are replica of the women of the fifties. The only change in women is that they are no more in fear of becoming pregnant. The credit goes to better birth control methods today.
Tags: Date, woman, old, thinking, rude
Mon, June 23, 2008 1:22 pm By James Coolridge
 I never had been on a blind date. My friends told me that luck plays a crucial role on a blind date. According to them, if it is your day, the blind date will be the finest date of your life and if luck doesn’t shine on you, your blind date will be a disaster. Well, I don’t fully believe in the luck factor on a blind date. After all, it is a date! Now many of you may be in the dark about blind date. Read on and know what exactly blind date is.
Blind dates are generally set up by close friends. Your close friends will be sure that two of you are ideal for each other though they may not be 100% sure. So I suggest you to decide how much sensible your friends are, about your blind date.
I have seen a lot of blind dates having a bitter end because the friends are mistaken. Two persons who work well on paper can be a huge mismatch in person. So, when you agree to date someone you are going to meet for the first time, be sure that you have already felt some sort of chemistry.
Close friends often try to read your mind. And when they figure out that you are single (but like to mingle), they will try their best find a match for you on blind dates. If you have given them a chance to set up a blind date for you, don’t forget to provide them a few rules to go by, an outline about what you wish a blind date to be. If you give them the outline, they may set you up with someone you will have interest in.
We laugh out loudly when we watch blind dates going wrong in the movies. But, in real life, we won’t like to screw up even the last date. So why to take a chance on the very first date, that too a blind date?
Tags: Date, Blind, coffee, shop, meeting
Mon, June 9, 2008 9:31 am By James Coolridge
“Distraction”- This segment highlights the importance of staying focused on what’s in front of you, particularly if what’s in front of you is your DATE!
Tags: Date, Talk, distraction, attention
Sat, June 7, 2008 10:41 am By James Coolridge
Part 1 of 2 video segments that feature a look at two different end-of-the-date scenarios. Each of the segments points out the importance of sending appropriate signals and being able to interpret those of your date.
Tags: Date, kiss, first
Fri, June 6, 2008 8:16 am By James Coolridge
So you met this hot chick at you gym. She probably is a new joiner. She’s already in good shape, you wonder! Hey stop day dreaming and get some idea about how to hitch her at your meeting place… the gym. Watch the video.
Tags: Date, GYM, meet, yoga, Women
Thu, June 5, 2008 2:03 pm By James Coolridge
 Anniversaries are undeniable the most memorable occasions in a relationship. Be it celebrating your “first date” or your wedding, they are the milestones in every relationship. Couples look forward for making it special. But in the effort they lose out on some very key points. Here’s a guide to get you going to make your anniversary, truly special for your better half!
Think Different: This is the time you should think out of the box and forget all clichés. Anniversary isn’t just another “date”, so forget the movie-followed-by-dinner combo. The idea is to make the evening (or day) special. If you dine out together all the time, perhaps a candlelit dinner at home is more appropriate.
Think Meaningful: It’s the time to revive old reminiscence, walking down the memory lane, lots of mush and romance. So bars, clubs and restaurants aren’t great options for celebrating an anniversary. Probably you could take her to some place exotic, secluded, set up a table and then…
Plan Proper: Don’t let the occasion culminate into a sour experience because of some mismanagement from you side. Start planning a week ahead and if you plan to go out on a vacation, it needs more time from you.
Tags: Date, anniversary, plan, think, gift
Mon, April 7, 2008 3:57 pm By James Coolridge
Anniversaries are undeniable the most memorable occasions in a relationship. Be it celebrating your “first date” or your wedding, they are the milestones in every relationship. Couples look forward for making it special. But in the effort they lose out on some very key points. Here’s a guide to get you going to make your anniversary, truly special for your better half!
Think Different: This is the time you should think out of the box and forget all clichés. Anniversary isn’t just another “date”, so forget the movie-followed-by-dinner combo. The idea is to make the evening (or day) special. If you dine out together all the time, perhaps a candlelit dinner at home is more appropriate.
Think Meaningful: It’s the time to revive old reminiscence, walking down the memory lane, lots of mush and romance. So bars, clubs and restaurants aren’t great options for celebrating an anniversary. Probably you could take her to some place exotic, secluded, set up a table and then…
Plan Proper: Don’t let the occasion culminate into a sour experience because of some mismanagement from you side. Start planning a week ahead and if you plan to go out on a vacation, it needs more time from you.
Tags: Date, anniversary, plan, think, gift
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