Many relationships have proven to be a ticket to heartbreak and disappointment. In this article, we focus on the self-destructive relationships that are mushrooming among the couples in US.

Self-destructive relationship is one wherein you are with somebody who isn’t right for you. This may create many misunderstandings, disinterest, and conflicts for which you may find it difficult to get the solution. However, you still can’t seem to leave her for no reason. This is probably because you have a mysterious attraction towards girls who treat men like jerks. You may think that a girl in your life is the solution for your problems or she can give you the solution to your problems. You may also be afraid of being alone and find this relationship a better way to kill the loneliness. However, dude, this is in turn a killer relationship in all respect.  

Let’s face it- you are the source of the dilemma. No solution will come and knock your doors. First, you must have core values and beliefs intact. No matter whether you are true to the rest of the world or not, but you should be true to your consciousness. Don’t go against what your consciousness says. Listen to it. Ask yourself whether you really want such kinda relationship, which fetches you nothing other than misery and conflicts. Think it over and move on…

A relationship with a girl may start as wonderful and continue to be the best at least for the first few months. As the relationship moves on, this may regress into the inevitable problems like conflicts, misunderstandings, and the worst of all, lack of trust. When this happens, it may seem difficult to get through her as effortlessly as before. Being easy with her may seem to be difficult. These possibilities incline us to tell you two of the worst relationships to be strictly avoided so that you don’t screw up your life.

“Instant” relationship:
You just dated a girl for a few weeks and she is not returning your calls. As a result, you smack your head and go nutty every time she doesn’t keep in touch with you. Well dude, you have encountered an instant relationship. She may have wanted some “fun” and good times with you (that is why you were feeling on heaven during the first few weeks of the so-called “relationship”). You should be very careful during these kinda situations. Don’t act clingy and make fuss over petty things otherwise, she would conclude that you are one among the stereotype jerks desperately wanting to get into a relationship. Now that she was just passing the time, why should you spoil your own image? It is better to have a “happy ending” for such kinda relationships rather than smacking your own head.

“Resistor” relationship:
If you are the resistor in your relationship who persuades the partner to do certain things such as making the relationship more meaningful or improving objectionable behavior, then dude, you are ending up into an undesirable relationship. What if she says that your values, your behavior, and your mere lifestyle are incorrect? Well, you would plainly think she doesn’t understand you and if this is not just a thought but the reality, then dear reader, this is a two way street that you are walking along.