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Posts Tagged ‘Conversation’
Wed, July 23, 2008 11:58 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Do you feel uncomfortable in meeting new girls? Are you a shy guy? Are you the type who feels really odd in social situations? If you are, then no doubt, you may find dating threatening. Cool! Throw down your worries. Enchant yourself among good company of girls. Yes I know what’s now moving around in your mind. Does it sound like something the same as impossible?
No worries. With the right dating advice, shy guys can also strike a conversation with an attractive lady. She will stop turning away from you. And to make things more charming she will find you attractive. All you need is the right approach. Awesome?
The most valuable advice for shy guys is to know where to meet the women. Choose it wisely. The time of meeting do matter. Feels like having it heard somewhere earlier? Although most men find bars a great place to pick up girls, it is not a good choice for shy guys. Never try in a bar. It is filled with many single men who can talk very well. Thus, you will face a lot of competition, and you may deprive of results that you expect. Choose a less crowded place. It could be a library or a grocery store. You will be able to find the environment more suitable for communication.
Listening is also very important, especially for shy guys. Listen to what the lady is talking about. Put more questions about what she speaks, for instance, at work or her hobbies. You will find that you will be able to strike a good communication with her. Really a nice way to impress her.
You can also bring a friend also when you are out to look for women. To be frank, when you are with someone else, the girl will see you as less threatening. Try this way to make her feel relaxed. Also, you will be able to strike out a good conversation, if you feel cool.
If you are honest to confess that you are a bit shy, the girl will be able to know how you feel. Often she may find you more interesting.
Everyone definitely has the right to look for a dating partner. Shy guys are also no different. All you need is the right approach, and you can have amazing pretty women for you. Isn’t it going out to make you a hot guy?
Tags: Date, Conversation, relax, boys, shy boys, bay, girls, library
Tue, May 20, 2008 1:21 pm By James Coolridge
 It may be fairly easy to initiate a conversation with a woman but it may be intimidating to ask her phone number. A lot of guys have fear or anxiety or whatever you call it, to ask a girl’s number. But hey, it is actually not a hard nut to crack! All you need to do is just approach correctly and then see; you will increase chances of attracting her interest and easily get her digits. Here is how.
Develop interest:
Girls won’t give away their phone numbers to men who are not interesting. Try to develop her interest in you. Approach her involve her into a playful conversation, show some dogged confidence.
Eye contact:
When you are in conversation with the girl, maintain eye-contact with her. Try to develop some sexual chemistry by looking deep into her eyes. Look long and adoringly into her eyes. Never look down (a sign of submission, timidity, and weakness) and never look at a woman’s breasts when you’re talking to her (a common mistake many men make). Women will reject you and consider you disrespectful if you do. Maintaining eye contact also says to a woman that you are interested in her and that you want to get to know her. If your gazing is powerful and sexy, she may give you her phone number!
Smile:
A smile sends a positive and important message. A smile says, “I will not reject you. I like you.” A smile combined with prolonged eye contact says, “I like you a lot. I want to know you. Let’s talk.”
Ask her digit!
Now that you have projected yourself as a confident and interesting guy, it is the time to ask her number. Remember never be too shy about asking her for her phone number. Even if you have only spoken with her for as little as one minute! Be direct. You can say something like, “I have to be going now. But I’d love to see you again. Can I call you?”
Tags: Conversation, Eye Contact, smile, phone number
Thu, March 27, 2008 9:41 am By James Coolridge
 When it comes to dating, your first impression often becomes your last one. Slip in a good impression about you in her mind so that she thinks to have a second date as well.
Dressing and your etiquettes:
Create an impact wearing a graceful outfit. Don’t under or over dress for the occasion. If you are dining, take care of your table manners.
Be punctual:
Set the time and venue. Don’t test her patience on the very first date.
Bad mouth, worst date:
Make sure that you don’t smell as if you have just eaten loads of onion! She will flee if you have a bad breath.
Be funny:
This is not a serious business meeting. Be a total fun, but don’t end up like a clown!
By acting the right way when you first meet a woman, you will definitely bring across to her that you are special. You will show that you are just now those normal, wussy guys out there who stand no chance at all.
Tags: Conversation, dress, manners
Mon, March 24, 2008 3:25 pm By James Coolridge
 To start conversation with a girl easily is not the toughest nut to crack. You just need to know what attracts her. Read on to get more:
What are her areas of interests?
Get an idea of the topics which interests her. This way, she won’t feel that you aren’t boring.
Ask her opinions:
Don’t go on talking non-stop. Let something slip from her mouth as well. Ask her opinions so that she doesn’t think you are more talkative.
Comments and feedbacks:
Follow her with your comments and feedback. This will open up new topics. You can either share your experience or just ask few more queries about the topic.
No close ended questions: Always use open-ended questions so that she will speak more rather than answering you in “Yes” or “No”
This way you won’t end up in just staring at each other! Go ahead and start your conversation!
Tags: Dating, Conversation, girl
Tue, March 18, 2008 6:16 am By James Coolridge
 Are you in conversation with a woman whom you wanna impress? Don’t screw up the whole thing by your hum and haw. Boost up your confidence and follow a few tips to keep the conversation in a smooth flow.
This is not an interview!
Don’t treat your date like a job interviewee. Although should you want to know about her, make the conversation light-hearted and friendly.
Talk less, listen more:
Women like those men who lend an ear to them. Listen to them who are sharing their emotions and feelings.
Make eye contact:
Hold your eye contact just a little longer. This will show that you are a confident man.
Take the lead:
If you feel the conversation has reached a sagging point, don’t hesitate to take the lead. Switch over to some other interesting topics.
Give your feedback:
Respond cleverly if she asks for your opinion. Use words such as “Yes”, or “I understand”. This will show that you are actually listening to her and not just hearing.
Talking to women is not as hard as you think. Just keep the tips in mind and astound her with your expressions!
Tags: Conversation, Way Of Talking
Sat, March 15, 2008 7:11 am By James Coolridge
 Edgy about calling her for the first time? Remember the ground rules and you will seal the deal!
Ring her in the evening
Strategically that’s the best time; she’ll be outa office, relaxed and the best time to fix up for a lunch date for the next day.
Call her from a place where you are comfortable
Make sure you don’t have any company, otherwise you wont be yourself when you make the call.
Sound good
Women like their men to sound cool and confident. Talk slowly and take your time with your words, make sure you don’t stammer or fumble, she’ll know in a jiffy that you’re nervous .
Engage in good small talk
Shun questions that border on the yawn-kingdom like the weather and politics. The best way to deal with this- talk about her!
Make her laugh
Humour is a quality that has always worked beautifully with girls. Try to drop a few jokes during the conversation to let her know that you have a sense of humour.
Tags: Phone, Talk, Conversation, First time call
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