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Our self-respect can be hurt really badly if somebody turns us down or rejects us. No doubts every man must have been rejected by some woman he held dreams for at least once. The core point is, a woman reserves the right to turn down or reject any romantic advances, for whatever reasons she feels. Rejection can be termed as a reality which is unfortunate though unavoidable, but in a way you can say that it also works to your benefit. Rejection may be an experience called bad and saddening at first, but if you think positively it can also serve as constructive criticism to help you improve your way to reach up to the girl and your own personality and your level of confidence the next time. Here’s how you can handle rejections in a more positive way and use it as an opportunity for self-improvement.
1. She rejected you, but not everything about you. You can personalize a rejection and relate it to everything in your life. In fact, this woman just rejected your proposal to date. You’re the same what you were two minutes ago before you got to her. There could have been some other reason for her rejection, may be the interests did not match, etc but that doesn’t mean you are not good. Sometimes it could have been for the reasons you cant say upon. You could say it’s her loss of course without any doubt for she turned down you, such good boyfriend material, or you could head unto someone who tunes in with your interests.
2. She may tell, where you went wrong, so lend her your ears. If you think listening to her reason of rejection is waste, hold on and listen may be you are wrong…she may lend you some piece of advice worth listening. She could have had some one else in her life much before you or maybe some bad phase of life like a break-up, which means rejection was most likely to be there. She may think that your way to approach was too loud or just too meager. She may have some physical preference like tall and dark. She may think that probably you two didn’t look great together. There could be a thousand of reasons for rejection, and most of them have to do with the person who asks, and of course not the asker.
3. Why fuss about being in the dating game….stay away for some time. Of course if rejections taken too seriously it can lead to saddy and groggy feelings inside you about you. Please no need to get into the drugs game anyway….it would ruin you and not the girl. Instead you could put all your attention to some hobby you couldn’t take…or meet your long lost best buddy, join some club, etc.
Rejection can just hurt ego, so please don’t let it mount on to your head and worry yourself…take a chill pill and enjoy…..there is a lot more in life.
Tags: confidence, Hobbies
How to get a woman is a question everybody often encounters. Ta last an impression on a woman. And intrigue their interest, you should follow a set of rules…or follow the following scenario about approaching women.
