Jealousy may be the root cause of a break up. All of us feel it at some point or the other of our relationship. Some amount of jealousy in a relationship is considered healthy. IT is important to know where to draw a line.

If you are in a relationship with someone who is very jealous, you will notice that along with the jealousy usually comes control and dominance. Sometimes too much of jealousy might lead to a break-up. The main cause of jealousy may be the fear of loosing your partner.

Tips to overcome jealousy in a relationship:

• Always have the courage to admit that you are jealous.

• The moment you feel you have started experiences bouts of jealous deal with it there and then.

• It is always good to know what is the cause of this jealousy and is bringing this bad and undesirable feeling that is making you feel unhappy.

• You should have the courage and willingness to discuss with your partner. Tell her that you have a problem and ask her to help you deal with it. Your partner is the best person who can help you out with the situation.

• Learn to control. Just when you begin to feel jealous divert this negative emotion to something else. Think of all the good things and qualities that you have that your partner has never got tired of telling you about.

• Never compare your relationship with that of others.

• Never assume things about your partner. Assuming and feeling bad about your partner talking to someone whom you don’t like will not do any good to your heart or your relationship.

• Focus on what is really happening, not what you perceive to be happening.

• Pursue other objectives of your life. This will help will from getting obsessed over your partner and will keep you in a much healthier emotional state, free of jealousy.

• Always try and have a relationship that is built on healthy communication.

• Try and boost your self esteem if you feel jealous about your girl talking to other men. Concentrate on your positive aspects.

Once you able to fight jealousy, you will enjoy your love life more than ever before. The feeling of insecurity will vanish and you will feel motivated to keep your relationship healthy in all aspects and shower your love to the fullest on your partner.

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Do you also want to know the golden rule to break up? Breaking-up or finishing a relation is not an easy task. There is no golden rule on how to break-up with your partner. But it can be done in a calm and considerate manner so that the situation is less hurtful and amicable. And you both part in a dignified way. Here are some tips which you might find useful:

Tip 1: If you finally want to break up your relation then avoid being unclear and vague vocally. Make sure you know what you want to say and talk directly face to face and to the point. Don’t play the game and make it worse for you and your partner.

Tip 2: Don’t break-up in stages. It won’t help you rather it will trouble you. In one go express it to her and get over with it. Don’t extend the pain and suffering into days, weeks and months.

Tip 3: Never give fake hopes to either yourself or to her. It makes the hurt even more insufferable in the long run. The sooner you finish it the better it is.

Tip 4: Avoid knitting stories to make excuses for the break up. Tell her the reason truly why you breaking up with her. She should also know what went wrong and where.

Tip 5: Stay away from the blame game. If you think blaming someone or something is the best way to handle this situation then you are mistaken. Or if she actually believes you, she will try to help you out to find a solution so that you don’t break-up. This will only make the situation worse and painful.

Tip 6: Don’t postponement your break up. If you have decided to end it, then do it. It would be better for both of you altogether.

Be understanding and patient with the partner with whom you are breaking up. But be firm in your decision. And remember its THE END.