When two people are in a serious relationship, apart from being the emotional and financial support of each other, physical intimacy is also a key factor that shapes up on its own with time. If two people are deeply in love with each other, then it is very difficult for them to avoid physical intimacy. Never believe if any couple say that they never got physically intimate, yet emotionally they are close. Emotional aspect is very important for love to flourish, but don’t lay the entire stress on that individually. Physical interaction is important, but the extent of intimacy depends on the couple, as to how much close they would like to get, comfortably.

Here, what becomes important is that, the physical interaction should be pleasurable for both, as it is not a one sided affair. It can’t be that, one person likes it while the other person is feels disgusted. Then that becomes really ugly can lead to the end of the relationship. To be more precise, one should focus on the quality of intimacy and not the quality. It’s not how many times you get close that counts, it is the feeling you get every time you get close. Intimacy is considered important as; this way you make your partner understand how much you love him/her.

It is a way of expressing the intensity of love you feel for your soul mate. So, the interaction should be a result of the feelings that come straight from your heart that makes you filled with peace and spirituality. To ensure a healthy intimate relation, communication is a key factor. You should speak out to your partner as to what kind of touch you like and what you dislike. If you know and follow the soft points that make your lover feel elated, then this will make every moment beautiful. But like stated before, you will have to maintain the limits up to which your closeness will reach.

The feeling that will be able to satisfy your desires is to feel love while making love with your partner. It’s like even if you look into the person’s eyes, cuddle up next to each other and holding on to each other with that loving smile on your lips, you should experience a heavenly feeling deep inside. If you get such a feeling, you will attain true fulfillment and will experience the beauty of a true love relationship.

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We often talk about how changing times have given vent to changing perceptions, paving way for societies being more open and individuals turning modernistic in their views. But there are still a few left who not only condemn these variations that have taken place in social arena but have also come up with their own set of defenses against attraction between a man and a woman.
With civilizations becoming open and more assimilative to modernistic ideologies, new lifestyles have cropped up which have drastically changed the way with which people not only exchange their verbal expressions but also represent their physical attires. To be able to wear one’s attitude up one’s sleeve is the greatest boon these times have given us but there are few among us who think otherwise and feel that these attributes have concocted our values and reverence we carried towards relationships. Let’s see what they are!

• Because people are allowed to choose their own partners, their divorce rates have increased.

• Couples have started cheating each other.

• Women have turned more materialistic.

• The concept of dating is an absolute failure. Only pre-arranged marriages work well because they have been doing so since years now.

• If people start listening to their hearts, they will become no less than animals.

• Flirting is not the right thing to do because it creates uncertainty. Only logical things fair well when it comes to knowing a person.

• Women who wear bold clothes only create problems.

Where some of the above mentioned myths may hold true in some contexts, most are mere hollow beliefs people carry because of their own unlike experiences. Attraction has had no rules, be it old times or new. It is a chemistry that may spark in the most unusual circumstances and may not spell it at all in the most obvious situations. Hence the fact of the matter is every era has its own pros and cons but stigmatizing a particular lifestyle or ideology doesn’t sound logical nor does it have any role to play in upgrading or demeaning the science of attraction!