Ok guys you have been married for an X number of years, but that absolutely does not mean that you should get into a rut. Move it man shake up your marriage and add a bit of spice into it.
Happy and healthy relationships take a lot of effort, but if you are truly committed to make your marriage or relationship work, a bit of creativity and effort on your part, romance can become a delicious element of your relationship.

Dress up for your wife/partner
Believe me tattered sweats, mid paunch and the unkempt look does not appeal to women, even your wife of X years finds it a turn of. Taking care of your clothes and your body, losing those extra pounds around your mid-section, will not only improve your health but will also increase your energy and sexual appeal (you will be startled at how willing your wife has suddenly become).

Touching
Physical touching (of the non-sexual type) is very important in creating a romantic mood. So be sure to add a few hugs, caresses and gentle kisses through the day. Hot sizzling sex does not happen if there is virtually no physical touch throughout the day and evening, it has to be cultivated. Offer to massage your partner with scented oils to add extra zing to your love life.

Communication
Yes this I know you have heard it many times, but it is true, communication is the ultimate way to romance. Make time during the day to call or text message your partner to let them know you are thinking about them. (and for heaven’s sake don’t use that time to complain about bills piling up or work problems) A naughty text message or note goes a long way in adding sizzle to a relationship.

Plan something unusual
Plan an activity that is unusual for both of you, it doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive. Give her a spa treat or get a couples massage or take her for a walk at the beach at night, or simply buy her a gift for no reason. Doing something that she least expects will definitely up your romance quotient.

Spicy Sex
Sex is one of the most important factors of marriage but can become boring after a couple of years, keeping it exciting is crucial for a happy marriage. Try different things like role playing or sexy games like strip poker or strip scrabble. Also try sending the kids to grandma once a week so you can get a wild and loud.

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