It is said that most of the human communication is done in quietness; the quirk of an eyebrow, a twitch of the lips, a finger on the cheek, and a raised eyebrow -all convey messages that would require several spoken sentences. Therefore, no matter how smooth a talker you may be, no matter how many love tales you have in your repertoire, and no matter how skilled you may be at listening, it’s all for zilch if you ignore body language. You must always keep in mind to note her body language to get the right signal.
1. “Read” her palms
A woman will expose her wrists and palms only to people she is attracted to. This is a subconscious display of being docile to you, in which her body is saying “If you want me, you can have me”.

2. Locked on target
Her shoulder direction is one of the most obvious signs of attraction, so her upper body will most likely be facing you if she is interested. In spirit, she points her shoulders at what she wants.

3. The lean
Leaning forward is also an effortless sign to take. If the girls shoulders point at you and she is leaning towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, it’s yours for the winning.

4. You coming in or what?
When her legs or feet are wide it means she is very relaxed with her surroundings and with you. Be careful when observing this, if there are other men in the area then it may not be you that makes her easy!

5. Eyes are not just for decoration
Her pupils will get bigger while looking at a person that she likes, and in turn will get smaller while looking at a person she does not. Keep in mind that lights can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and vice versa. The best method to use for testing this is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at somebody else.

6. Say “cheese”
This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her without thinking twice about it.

7. When did I become funny?
One of the best signs you can hope for is when she will chuckle at just about every slick thing you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny… but you are wrong, she just likes you a lot and that’s better!

8. As good as gold
If she touches you multiple times while she is chatting, like just brushing her arm to yours when trying to make a point, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook the next morning.

9. You must do your duty
She will build an eye contact with a man and hold it for a longer than usual period of time, almost uneasily long. But guys must before they look away, keep in mind to smile at the lady. This will let her know that the guy is interested and is actually a nice guy. Subsequent to this, you may also notice her look at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to speak to her, so it is your duty as a player to give her what she wants

10. The flip
If a man notices a woman flip and be playful with her hair and after that glace your way, she shows her interest towards you and is trying to get your concentration focused on her by catching your eye.

Reading body language is an art and learning this art is necessary if you want to get along well with your girl…hopefully these instances would be helpful enough for you to take-on your girl.

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