I have repeatedly said that women are emotionally much intelligent than we men are. Hence thinking of winning them with our logical reasoning is a wrong notion most of us have. The simple rule is if you want to attract a woman, understand her.
Women are emotionally not only intelligent but also smart. They have their own ways of testing whether a man is emotionally compatible or not. So if men who think  they are virtually good at everything, can get away with this as easily, think again. Only if understanding a woman’s emotional quotient was that easy.

In a relationship, you can’t sit at home and think for hours to find smooth solutions to situations that confront you right at that hour. What I mean to say is some men have a habit of thinking how to tackle a particular situation for hours together and then act upon it. Let, me tell you this is not how it goes in a relationship. There are moments when your presence of mind and wit have to play a role to be able to manage the situation well. It has to be spontaneous and unconstrained. The most important thing in this regard is to keep your cool and know how to interact with a girl at an emotional level. Trying to be loud, restless or panicky will only give wrong signals to your partner about your incompetence in dealing with such emotional hold-ups.

Moreover, you must know how and when women try to bind you in words only to see how glibly you make your way out of it. On their part, it seems an effortless chore but you have to keep your grey cells ticking all the time.  Don’t ever take her silence for her dumbness. She is only trying to test your social skills and your fundamentals about handling basic emotional ambushes.

So before you think of dating an attractive women, remember that she is smarter in the game than you are and even before you decide to take your next step, she’ll judge you whether you both can get along well or not. So keep your swords chiseled and wits sharpened!

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