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Jealousy may be the root cause of a break up. All of us feel it at some point or the other of our relationship. Some amount of jealousy in a relationship is considered healthy. IT is important to know where to draw a line.
If you are in a relationship with someone who is very jealous, you will notice that along with the jealousy usually comes control and dominance. Sometimes too much of jealousy might lead to a break-up. The main cause of jealousy may be the fear of loosing your partner.
Tips to overcome jealousy in a relationship:
• Always have the courage to admit that you are jealous.
• The moment you feel you have started experiences bouts of jealous deal with it there and then.
• It is always good to know what is the cause of this jealousy and is bringing this bad and undesirable feeling that is making you feel unhappy.
• You should have the courage and willingness to discuss with your partner. Tell her that you have a problem and ask her to help you deal with it. Your partner is the best person who can help you out with the situation.
• Learn to control. Just when you begin to feel jealous divert this negative emotion to something else. Think of all the good things and qualities that you have that your partner has never got tired of telling you about.
• Never compare your relationship with that of others.
• Never assume things about your partner. Assuming and feeling bad about your partner talking to someone whom you don’t like will not do any good to your heart or your relationship.
• Focus on what is really happening, not what you perceive to be happening.
• Pursue other objectives of your life. This will help will from getting obsessed over your partner and will keep you in a much healthier emotional state, free of jealousy.
• Always try and have a relationship that is built on healthy communication.
• Try and boost your self esteem if you feel jealous about your girl talking to other men. Concentrate on your positive aspects.
Once you able to fight jealousy, you will enjoy your love life more than ever before. The feeling of insecurity will vanish and you will feel motivated to keep your relationship healthy in all aspects and shower your love to the fullest on your partner.
