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The art of dating women!

James Coolridge — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 06:41:09 +0000

Well it is an art to charm a beautiful and an intelligent woman into thinking that you are actually her man. This I must admit say is a feat very few men are able to achieve because as they not every one is as talented. Well, talent can be developed too and all you need to do for it is persistence and some amount of smart work.

Here are some great tips that’ll help you bring out the best in you and never miss an opportunity to impress the lady of your dreams.

The most tangible advice offered on this subject is you have to look good, smell good and feel good. The first two things can be taken care of easily but how do you really try and feel good about yourself? Here’s the answer! ‘Feeling good’ does not only mean being confident about what you really are at the moment. That, however is important but it is important to be able to transfer this emotion of making the lady ‘feel good; about you. Thus you’ll feel good when you know that you are not only dressed well for the occasion but also prepared to be your best in expression as well.

Let’s gather the practical aspect of it now!

Okay, the first thing is you need to rev up your knowledge levels. If your lady is a working professional, she is sure to be in sync with current affairs. So without giving a second thought, make sure you are updated with everything that’s new and running on the current shores. Smart women absolutely detest laziness and stupidity so try not taking a chance with that. Never take a woman for granted thinking that its okay not to answer a question she asks you about the industry you are working in. Women judge a lot about men on the basis of their knowledge about their field so make sure you know your part pretty well.

Where taking a lady for a drink is just fine but do not extol the virtues of drinking in the bar 5 nights a week. No woman, however open about issues will bear this and you’ll soon have her bidding good bye to you for life. If she asks you about it, you can always say that there are other things in life too to take care of. Or come up with anything smart and neat to save yourself from any sort of apparent harm.

So here we are! Always remember that dating a good, suave woman was never a child’s play and that you should never try to play lose out there. More in our forth coming articles; until then live up your smile and be good!

The War of Sexes

Steven Kelley — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 10:02:28 +0000

Sex is vital for the sheer survival of marital life. Most relationships become distant when sex becomes less. Many couples even walk out from their relationship due to lack of sex.
The process of getting into the mood for sex is different for men and women. For men, the process of lovemaking is simply the ways by which they can show their partner how much they love them. On the other hand, women are more emotional.

A woman needs emotionally attached to respond to a man sexually. Hence, it becomes important for men to create the right emotions as to increase the chances of have a satisfying and exciting sex life.

The best way is to engage with your woman to create an

ambience so that both of you feel good about. Since it is the right emotions that your woman is expecting from you to get her into mood, find out ways to hook her to you emotionally.

Communication is the key. So, communicate with your spouse and find out her likes and dislikes. At this point, it becomes important to remind you that a woman falls in love with a man when she feels great to have around him. This is because she tends to attach her great feelings to him. So, make your spouse feel great about you, about your relationship and about your love for her.

As a result, sex becomes even more important to both of you. When you do it at the right time and the right way (as she expects), the frequency of sex automatically increases. You both will then get closer which will give way to more great emotions and even more desire for sex.

When you are attached to each other both sexually and emotionally, the bond becomes even stronger. Your relationship becomes just the way you want it!

Taking the Vow

James Coolridge — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 10:34:34 +0000

Today, people are familiar with marriage as the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony. They see marriage as a union of two people who have agreed to live as one and start a family of their own. Marriage is another tenure to which people will be venturing out to a new phase of their lives and while many would find it challenging and exciting, it remains that marriage is more than these things.

For one thing, marriage is another stage of adjustment for both parties. It is entirely different to live in an age of independence where husband and wife have to make it on their own without the help of their parents. This is the ideal way towards married life but for some people, feeling that they cannot make it on their own without support from their families totally defeats the purpose.

We often hear of breakups and misunderstandings. These stem from the fact that they overlook the actual purpose of marriage and the real challenges that they bring. Even if people have known each other for most parts of their lives, all of these are due to change once married life is entered. You see each other everyday and notice the hidden habits which may or may not suit your liking. That is where the trouble starts.

Time management is another issue that normally behests marriages. With one or both working, the whole purpose of working is personal achievement and of course financial support for their daily needs. Many couples also want the attention and quality time from their partners. But given that their worlds will surely vary in the marital stage, these factors of time management are bound to be among the reasons why two people will have differences to settle.

There are plenty of things to consider before tying the knot. Most of them are ideal and easy to listen to. But the reality is that everything becomes entirely different when you are already there and on the verge of implementation. This is where that famous phrase becomes really useful; “Actions Speak Louder than Word”.

How to give space between each other

James Coolridge — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 12:25:17 +0000

It is important to spend quality time with your loved one but at the same it is also very important to give space to each other. Each of us like to do certain things that our partners may not like and for this we need to give space to each other. It’s not true that if you are together all the time then only your relationship will last longer. The key to a successful relationship is being together and yet giving space to each other. Always encourage each other to do things that each one of you like. Never loose your own identity when you are in a relationship. Too often in a relationship we forget ourselves

and try and imbibe the other person’s likes and dislikes which leads to a compromise and eventually you don’t tend to enjoy your relationship any more. Never deprive yourself of the things you like as you will never be happy with yourself and your relationship. Try and develop interests outside each other.

It is equally important to spent time with your other loved ones. Just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean that you can’t have friends or spent time with them. If you really want to work on improving your relationship it is it is crucial to remember that you are each individuals and you need your own individual space. You should be able to strike a balance that will work for each individual as well as the relation. Don’t make your relationship monotonous and boring throw in surprises from time to time. It will help you keep your relationship lively and interesting.

You need to discuss with your partner about any ongoing problems in the relationship instead of keeping them within you. Misunderstandings can be avoided through proper communication. It is important to be comfortable with each other in expressing your feelings and views on a particular thing freely. Both of you need to work together to improve your relationship. Both need to be understanding. Always trust your partner. To have a long lasting relationship there has to be trust between the partners. Never assume things about your partner. Always find out the actual thing before reacting.

Giving space to each other doesn’t mean you are getting bored of staying with each other rather it shows your love and respect for each other’s feelings. If you are far from your loved one only then you can miss them and know where actually your relationship stands.

DEFINING SUPER SEX

James Coolridge — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 07:39:11 +0000

“Super sex” the new generation word. Is this new entry in your routine list too or is just a word you aware of it? The dictionary defines it as “sex, but better”. Is just getting more creative and which gives you a feeling of ecstasy moreover with perfect postures keeping you fit and fresh.

Well to tell you in this kind of era where super sex takes the front seat in your relationship you need to really be into it to know much better about your partner in love. So its clear people are putting a lot of thought into the act .when it

comes to thinking, it was about letting your brain take a backseat and allowing your body to do in the backseat! But no, brain is all new accessories. Infect there are people who are differentiating between ‘whole brain sex’ and all too common regular sex. To take it on the brainy side of it when a person self stimulates her anterior amygdale through simple exercises during intercourse, him or her automatically and spontaneously experience extended and intensified orgasms. So, super sex is about being able to bring in the part of brain that lies dormant during the sexual act play. , so that you get intense pleasure. This is not the only theory behind it, there are several methods that people adopt to super size their sexual endeavors.

There is an obsession among people to become ‘sex achievers’. There are books, television, magazine articles which are increasingly featuring about getting it all right. These things are buying into the hype that turns a natural act of love making in to a three ring circus. Apparently sexexcercise has been replaced by Supersexercise where it’s not enough to be acrobatic and aim for the big O, but to try and substitute food cravings with sexual excitement and indulge in oral satisfaction of a different sort all the time, any time.

And there are sexual sex sling, a complicated contraption with cuffs, straps and even a headrest which claims to help with penetration and G-spot stimulation, ensuring you achieve-yes, what else Super Sex!

It is great that humans are looking to better the quality of their experience and regarding sex as something that can be enhanced. As long as couples work from genuine info rather than sleaze, trying to achieve super sex is a healthy tend!

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Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?

James Coolridge — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 05:36:57 +0000

Love at first sight is the psychological state when it happen to them and you feel that He/She is the one for my life. It takes around 30 seconds to fall in love and it happen sometimes that we don’t even realize but it makes a long lasting impression on you. It is always said that men fall in love easily and it happen to men that they fall in love at first sight.

It is said that when you fall in love it is because you want to and you are willing to fall in love and it is very rare that you don’t because it has some reasons ,Some

tiredness, some stress or may be some problem going around your mind. Sometimes you fall in love with that person who is very beautiful because the thing which is important is appearance, voice, gesture and smell but it’s wrong to fall in love with those who are very beautiful and usually attract other people as because those try to attract other people also the same way. It is very difficult to get the perfect match or may be you can say that the perfect women of your life like with beautiful face, sweet smile, nice hair style, nice manners, brown- eyed. This is when you feel like “aha, I got the perfect match”!!! But it is quiet impossible to know that person who will have all that mother-nature which will suit you genetically a lot.

It’s wrong to name every slight sympathy and interest to a person the love at first sight because you may dream sometime that still that person is not capable and does not suit your wave length and think that some stranger is still there who waits for you. It my happen that you are tired of everything that is going around you and you wanted to fill the emptiness inside you and when you think that somebody is nice to you, “is it really that somebody really nice” It takes time to know your exact feeling of yourself and you wont come to know that whether it has happened to you. Sometime it happens that you are flying in the air and you start feeling that you have wings behind your back and you are trying to keep your feet on the ground because if you are really feeling that it is love at first sight nothing will happen to it but if you are taking it as an illusion for reality falling back on the ground, it can be really hurtful.

It is some theory and saying that people fall in love with the first smell rather than the first sight and scientist even claim that we never recognize that the smell plays an important part and has a great expression because it is our conscious level that we think that we believe and feel what our eyes and ears tell us.

Every body has their own perception and it is their mind that they should believe on all these scientifical researches or should believe on their heart because love is something on which no body has control.

Playing hard to get the love

James Coolridge — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 13:17:01 +0000

It’s true that men and women are naturally attracted towards each other; they want to feel like they found a hidden treasure. But mysterious that doesn’t mean to become inaccessible that you will not answer the phone, pretend you are busy etc. If you pretend from chasing you and disappear he or she has no body to chase.

Most of the people who do such type of things end up in sitting by the phone listening to the ring, ring, ring, ring… all the while wondering whether I should pick up the phone or not.

It’s nothing else than immaturity and emotional unhealthiness to mess with your own emotions.

Should allow the other person to access your busy life and let him or her be able to contact you, but go on with your own life as you normally would. Don’t change your whole lifestyle for someone else, and please don’t pretend to have a life just to get him or her to chase you. Nobody is hurted in all this except one person that is you because you are the only one who knows what you are doing. The other person might actually think you are too busy that’s why you don’t pick up the phone.

Get a real life, a booming career or do something for someone else, make plans for guys’ or girls’ night out just make sure it doesn’t involve anyone’s dates. If he or she doesn’t call, your day or time was not wasted because you were not sitting waiting.

When your life is not programmed according to their schedule you can afford not to sound too eager or desperate when he or she says. “I’ll call you”. Instead of saying, “OK, I’ll wait for your call”; you can comfortably say “I’ll speak to you soon.”

And when he or she calls, whenever you’ll have real plans. You can then invite him or her into your interesting life by suggesting things to do that you both enjoy.
The fact is, if you have a lot of exciting things going on in your life people will want to become part of it. And when you’re actually enjoying your life, it’s not game playing because you’re not pretending to be busy to try to mess with his or her mind.

A little bit of mystery, challenge and out of reach every now and then can inspire him or her not to become complacement or take you for granted.

For example, he or she may suggest that you get together the same evening you have hockey/dance class on Tuesday, do you want to come to the game/class?” If he or she says, “No, Thursday is not good for me”, and doesn’t suggest another day or time, you can leave the ball in his or her court by saying “If you change your mind about Thursday evening, you know where to find me”.

If he or she suggests another day or time and you have nothing lined up, the two of you can go ahead and have a great time.

Sends the message that your life is full and exciting and he or she is welcome to share it with you, if he or she wants to. If not, life goes on.

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Tips for a lasting relationship!

James Coolridge — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 06:03:39 +0000

The first thing in this regard to make sure whether the girl you are dating is worthy of being your long-term partner or not. I am not asking you to be judgmental but knowing the person before hand is imperative for you before you think of investing your energies in her.

So when you first start dating, let your lady do the talking. As it is women love to talk and if you willingly allow them to do so, you are only telling them that you want to pay attention to them. This will help you know here better and release you of the effort of making a decision about what kind of person she is. So the rule of the thumb in this regard is don’t talk about yourself when you first meet someone. Have fun with her, crack jokes but clam up when the conversation turns to specific areas about your life. Turn yourself into a mystery and women won’t be able to get enough of you.

In fact the same lies even after you commit yourself in a relationship. Never give yourself completely to your woman too soon. Not even she has long been your girl friend or your wife for that matter. Let her discover something new about you at different stages of your life and you’ll see that the fun and excitement in your life will never hit the dumps.

Another key piece of information that I must tell you is that, the moment a lady gets bored with a relationship, consider its end has come. You may not like to hear this but this is a proven fact. In married relationships, I have seen women going in for extra-marital affair for this one sole reason. It is sad, but true. So always be someone who’s fun to be with, someone with whom people love to spend time with. Humor plays a great role in this regard. You can also invest in some hobbies or areas of interest like traveling etc. I am not asking you to do all this against your happiness so that you can impress your lady. This is one way of enriching your love life you must exercise and you’ll see that your woman will become addicted to your energy.

On attracting smart women!

James Coolridge — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 06:22:14 +0000

I have often heard men talking about various attributes they intend to see in their women. She should be smart, intelligent, loving, romantic, hot and beautiful. This ‘all in one’ package is dreamt by most men around the globe but in return of expecting this from our ladies, we miss what our ladies would want to see in us. Or to be more precise, do we ourselves have the right qualities to attract such women towards us? Well, the solution to all of this is but one. Let’s have a look!
Have you ever noticed that when you are not in a good mood, every one around you also looks irritable? This happens because your mood is capable of influencing not only your own behavior but also of those around you.

If you intend to attract smart attractive women towards you, then you need to exude the similar kind of energy from yourself as well. In simple words, you need to be happy. Because when you are happy from your heart, you spread the similar of vibes around you and people sharing the same emotion will get attracted towards you. There are times when we often demean yourselves and our circumstances, isn’t it? What do you think we are doing by that? We are developing a foul emotion within us and if we don’t like ourselves for some reason, we’ll grow grumpy and this is certainly not going to attract intelligent women towards us.

In fact all aspects in your life are inter-related. Consider you are at a club with some mates enjoying your brew. It’s Friday night and you achieved a ton during the past week at your job. You took out another CD this week for 20k because financially you’re very responsible, and tomorrow your new surfboard will be done at the shapers! All this makes you extremely happy and you are simply pleased with the way life is going. The happiness you feel within your heart will radiate out like a positive energy for others to see. This in turn will make your aura more positive and you’ll attract people with similar mindsets near you as well. If they are women, then they will pick up on your love life and will be more than happy to be in your company.

Another positive aftermath of being happy at heart is you’ll not have to put in any effort to genuinely smile at a beautiful woman you’ve just been introduced to. You will come across as an enthusiastic person and it will be hard for women to NOT get attracted to you under these circumstances.

So my dear friend, just have faith in yourself, try to simply your life so that you can take charge of it and the world will be at your feet within no time! So long and god bless!

Dating tips for shy guys

James Coolridge — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 13:08:32 +0000

Shy men often find it difficult to flirt or date women. The thought of a date may make then feel uncomfortable. If you are shy excessively it may be difficult for you to find a partner for yourself. It is important for such guys to boost up their confidence. Its a face that women look up to men who are confident and who know exactly what they are doing in life.

Here are a few dating tips for shy guys:

• Shy people lack self confidence. They should dress up in bold prints for daytime dating and black tops for a dinner date. The clothes will reflect your level of confidence.

• Try and be yourself. Don’t imitate someone else. Women hate men who pretend.

• Relax and don’t be in tension. Talk about the things you’re interested in, ask her questions about herself, find something you both have in common and discuss it.

• If you are nervous on meeting women, take a deep breath, relax and then begin a conversation with her.

• Look in the eye while speaking to your date if you want to attract her towards yourself.

• Talking in front of the mirror can be an effective way of boosting your self confidence.

• Think high and positive about yourself. Women love men who are confident and if you think good about yourself only then she will be forced to do so.

• When you approach a woman, talk to her like she’s already your friend so that you feel at ease with her.

• If you have been rejected by any girl in the past, don’t let this hamper your future.

• Walk upright this will boost your self confidence and help you get rid of shyness. Never walk with drooping shoulders.

• If you have a hard time talking to women, you can keep yourself informed on the latest current events. This is a great way to strike up a conversation. Make sure that the conversation is going both ways.

• When we meet a woman we feel that we need to impress her and end up being someone else. But what you are forgetting is that she needs to impress you too. Instead focus on making her feel good

If you overcome your shyness and built up the required confidence you will be able to approach any woman that you like.

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