If you pay attention to a group of beautiful, single women talking alone over ceremonial dinner or drinks, the subject will always turn to MEN.
And in nearly all cases, it will eventually turn into a rage session about how tough it is to find good men to date…
Which will direct to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about men in common…
…And wind up with a full list of all the traits guys have that are irritating AS HELL.
The reality is that single women have a whole laundry list of traits, behavior, and characteristics that they revulsion in single guys.

Did you know this earlier?

I didn’t feel so.

Well, the truth is that up waiting a few years ago, I didn’t make out this either.

So take heart in the plan that you’re about to study something that most men on this earth will DIE not knowing.

My wish is that what I’m about to share with you will modify how you interact with women FOREVER… and assist you meet and date more of the kinds of women you’re attracted to.

FRIENDSHIPS v/s. ROMANCE

For women, friendships and romantic relations are two separate things. They are NOT the equal.

One can show the way to another, but it’s unusual when it happens.

Keep in mind that.

One CAN show the way to another, but it’s RARE.

“Romantic” associations are very diverse from “friend” relationships.

The thing that tells a woman whether the guy she’s with is “friend” stuff or “lover” stuff is how she FEELS.

It’s a mixture of EMOTIONAL feelings and PHYSICAL feelings.

It is NOT reason.

She might make use of reason to “rationalize” her decision… or she might utilize logic to SOUND like she has a superior reason for either “being with” or “not being with” a particular man.

But don’t let that sidetrack you.

Logic isn’t significant AT ALL in this context.

So let me say this way.

A woman FEELS something expressively and/or physically, and then she uses that mind-set as the basis for her “decisions” and events with a particular guy.

If she thinks that “It’s Getting ‘Hot in Here” feeling, then her “logical” finale will probably be that this guy is attractive and striking, and a good “option” to date. At this peak she’ll take ACTION on her approach and thoughts…

It works like this:
Sense->Consider->Proceed

First the sensation, then the deliberation… and THEN the battle.

Now, with this in mind, let me ask you an imperative question:

How do most guys act around women that they’re “romantically” involved in?

And:

What do they do to get the woman that’s the purpose of their desires to be with them?

Take not many minutes to sense about this. Make a record if you have paper and pen handy.

I’m actually serious. I’ll definitely wait.

Come back when you’re completed.

Now take a gaze at your list.

I’ll bet that approximately every single thing on your list was something “exterior”.

In other words, your list perhaps contains things like “Take her to dinner” and “provide her compliments” and “get her flowers” and “Call her frequently”.

These are all things that show that he’s INTERESTED.

They are NOT things that activate those emotional and physical feelings within of a woman that tell her that THIS IS THE GUY.

In other words, men attempt to use “props” to LET A WOMAN KNOW HE’S concerned…

…HOPING that when the woman sees these displays she’ll be fascinated to him.

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