We often talk about how changing times have given vent to changing perceptions, paving way for societies being more open and individuals turning modernistic in their views. But there are still a few left who not only condemn these variations that have taken place in social arena but have also come up with their own set of defenses against attraction between a man and a woman.
With civilizations becoming open and more assimilative to modernistic ideologies, new lifestyles have cropped up which have drastically changed the way with which people not only exchange their verbal expressions but also represent their physical attires. To be able to wear one’s attitude up one’s sleeve is the greatest boon these times have given us but there are few among us who think otherwise and feel that these attributes have concocted our values and reverence we carried towards relationships. Let’s see what they are!

• Because people are allowed to choose their own partners, their divorce rates have increased.

• Couples have started cheating each other.

• Women have turned more materialistic.

• The concept of dating is an absolute failure. Only pre-arranged marriages work well because they have been doing so since years now.

• If people start listening to their hearts, they will become no less than animals.

• Flirting is not the right thing to do because it creates uncertainty. Only logical things fair well when it comes to knowing a person.

• Women who wear bold clothes only create problems.

Where some of the above mentioned myths may hold true in some contexts, most are mere hollow beliefs people carry because of their own unlike experiences. Attraction has had no rules, be it old times or new. It is a chemistry that may spark in the most unusual circumstances and may not spell it at all in the most obvious situations. Hence the fact of the matter is every era has its own pros and cons but stigmatizing a particular lifestyle or ideology doesn’t sound logical nor does it have any role to play in upgrading or demeaning the science of attraction!

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