I have repeatedly said that women are emotionally much intelligent than we men are. Hence thinking of winning them with our logical reasoning is a wrong notion most of us have. The simple rule is if you want to attract a woman, understand her.
Women are emotionally not only intelligent but also smart. They have their own ways of testing whether a man is emotionally compatible or not. So if men who think  they are virtually good at everything, can get away with this as easily, think again. Only if understanding a woman’s emotional quotient was that easy.

In a relationship, you can’t sit at home and think for hours to find smooth solutions to situations that confront you right at that hour. What I mean to say is some men have a habit of thinking how to tackle a particular situation for hours together and then act upon it. Let, me tell you this is not how it goes in a relationship. There are moments when your presence of mind and wit have to play a role to be able to manage the situation well. It has to be spontaneous and unconstrained. The most important thing in this regard is to keep your cool and know how to interact with a girl at an emotional level. Trying to be loud, restless or panicky will only give wrong signals to your partner about your incompetence in dealing with such emotional hold-ups.

Moreover, you must know how and when women try to bind you in words only to see how glibly you make your way out of it. On their part, it seems an effortless chore but you have to keep your grey cells ticking all the time.  Don’t ever take her silence for her dumbness. She is only trying to test your social skills and your fundamentals about handling basic emotional ambushes.

So before you think of dating an attractive women, remember that she is smarter in the game than you are and even before you decide to take your next step, she’ll judge you whether you both can get along well or not. So keep your swords chiseled and wits sharpened!

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Well, I don’t mean to intimidate you by saying this but this is true to the core. How many times have you really wanted to ask her out, kiss her, hold her hand but only found yourself staring at her, dumbstruck, not knowing what to do? I’m sure many a times. We want to do it but we get nervous. Moreover, she doesn’t seem to help either. Alright let me tell you that she won’t. Even if she wants to. Let’s know why.
You must be thinking as to why am I saying that women are 10 times smarter than we are. Well, that’s because they know what we are thinking. Women are very sharp when it comes to reading body language knowing hat exactly what you intend to do and how. Yes, if you are out on a date with your lady and want to kiss her, she probably knows it. Don’t be surprised as she will not show it to you. Women, whether outgoing or docile always prefer their men to take the lead. Moreover, they admire men who know how to handle her. So my point is, sitting there and getting nervous won’t really help.

This is a very important aspect of dating women and is applicable to everything, right from getting her number to asking her out and even getting physical. You ought to know what to do in each situation and how or else you may soon find yourself empty handed. It is all about being confident and going step by step to get her closer to you. Asking her to get physical with you in the very first date is the worst thing you can do to annoy her. Well yes, this can be most petrifying for the girl. Never and I mean never do that.

The more you communicate with her, the more you’ll know what kind of person she is. If she shares the same sense of humor as yours, you won’t have to put in much effort asking her out for a date or even holding her hand when together. Be as gentle as you can be. Touch speaks a lot. A woman can easily know your intension of touching her so do so only when your heart tells you to. Look into her eyes and smile. The point is to make her feel comfortable in your presence. To let her know that you like her for what she is. And that you care for her. Being subtle is the best way to woo a girl. Never be too gross with her. Not until both of you have spent a considerable amount of time together and are sure that she knows you well enough.

So before you start off, be confident of what you are stepping in, know your girl well and be just hit the dart without any inhibitions.

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You need not look like a Hollywood star or be a millionaire to get a woman. If you know how to behave and know what to say, you can go a long way with most women. But when it comes to attract women like a magnet, follow some tips, you will accomplish it!

Be confident: Confidence is one of the most important traits in a man. Women are attracted to confident, comfortable men, those who are at ease with themselves.

Work with your charm: This doesn’t mean that you have to be a chocolate boy! Be relaxed, funny (not a clown), a bit flirtatious (not simpering mouth)!

Look clean, smell nice: Women won’t like you if you are shabby. Avoid bathing in cheap aftershave or finish half a bottle of deodorant. This is really putting off!

Pay attention to her: Crave it in your mind, women love attention. Give her a compliment every now and then. When women talk, they share a part of themselves. Let it be a story, a poor joke or anything else, listen to whatever they say.

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