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Thu, July 31, 2008 10:15 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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How often do you feel that your relationship is going in a flux, just because it’s been a bit too long that you’ve been in it? Cliché no longer helps you! There is something you really need to spice it up, something that helps you gain your lost passion and those moments of madness. Well, a streak of madness is certainly essential to keep the wick of passion burning in a relationship. Be it adventure, sex or romance, the idea is to explore new horizons and enjoy the beauty that only a relationship can bring into our lives.
Here’s a little game that may help you:
Get 20 pieces of paper and make 20 different cards. You are supposed to write an idea on each card like the things she would want you to do and things that you would want her to do for you. We always have our hidden fantasies, don’t we? So the topics could revolve around sex, romance, adventure or anything that’s been on your mind lately. Each card will be double sided with the name of the category on the outside and what you would want the other person to do towards the inside. For example: Outside – Sex ; Inside – In the elevator!
The fun part begins now:
• Put all the cards in a hat.
• Split them according to the category, designating a place for cards on each topic.
• Each week, one of you chooses from the cards of the other person.
• After drawing, you don’t look inside yet.
• You see what kind of card it is (Sex, Romance, Adventure) and decide whether to keep it or not.
• If you choose to keep it, you have to fulfill whatever it is on the card
• If you drop it, choose another card till you draw a different kind. After a card is drawn, it’s out of the game. The one week period between draws can be shortened or extended.
Here are some examples of the things you people can do together:
Romance:
• A candlelight dinner with your lover in a restaurant which she chooses (you pay)
• A romantic evening at the Opera
• Visiting the theatre
• Having a picnic at the nearby forest
Adventure:
• Go-kart racing
• Bungee jumping
• Jet-skiing on the local lake
• Parachuting
For the other category, you can be the best person to think what suits best to you and our partner. Physical intimacy plays its role only if the relationship you are has seen many years of togetherness and the trust factor is high enough. If you do share this, all you have to do is give wings to your imagination!
Tags: Sex, romance, Adventure
Mon, July 21, 2008 7:37 am By Michael Rosso
 Great sexual compatibility comes with time and mutual tuning. Though sparks may fly on the first night but with each passing night your partner opens upto you and your sexuality. Here’s how you can reverse the table and get her all lusting for you.
Have More Fun
Your chic lady might just be a naughty super freak on the inside — it’s up to you to wheedle that out of her. The key: Tell her its okay. “Women are conditioned to fulfill the role of ‘good girl,’ ” says Judith Scherven, Ph.D., coauthor of Be Loved for Who You Really Are.”They need a green signal from you to break the ice, to change from being their parents’ good girl to being your hot girlfriend.”
Give Her the Power
Imagine her doing something feral, and then describe it to her. “You have to see her that way before she’ll be able to act that way,” says Scherven. “She has to feel confident that you think she’s capable of it.”
Show Her Off
“In public, speak softly how much she turns you on and combine that with some neck kissing,” says Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First. Get her used to feeling sexy in public and she’ll reciprocate in private.
Tease Her All Day
Plant a long kiss on her and tell her you can’t wait to get back to her later. Follow up with phone calls and you’ll both be counting the hours.
Tags: Love, Seduce, Sex, all day, tease
Sat, July 12, 2008 1:23 pm By James Coolridge
 Wanna make your girl think and want to kiss you all the time? Well, nothing can hook her up than locking your lips with hers in the French style! Here are some simple tips that can make you the ultimate Casanova!
1) Suck on her tongue:
Suck on her tongue the same way you would suck on her clitoris. Do it gently.
2) Lick her lips with your tongue:
Lick on her upper and lower lips delicately. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your mouths.
3) Suck on her lips:
If licking her lips quickly makes her wanting more, then begin sucking on her lips. Do it one at a time coz no one wants to feel as though they’ve stuck their mouth inside a vacuum. Be careful when you suck on her lips; don’t get too rough or she will get turn off and push you off.
4) Move beyond her mouth:
Don’t be hesitant. You would not want to confine yourself to kissing just her lips. There’s a whole face and body to explore. Go ahead and French kiss her chin, her neck. Move on to her breasts! Kiss her eyes, behind her ears or her wrists. Be bold and try something new. You’d be surprised at the results that a little creativity can produce.
Tags: kiss, French, Suck, Mouth, Tongue
Sun, July 6, 2008 4:39 am By James Coolridge
 Sensual massage is one of the most frequent techniques used by couples to revitalize their relationship. Sensual massage has the power to breath in fresh air into a relationship. So before you go for a sensual massage, keep in mind a few things. Here are they.
• Don’t rush: Keep the sensual massage slow and calm. It should completely relax the body. If you are the giver of the massage, spend a lot of time for the gradual exploration of your partner’s body.
• Keep the oil warm: The oil for sensual massage should be warm. You can use a microwave to slightly warm the massage oil. Take liberal quantity of oil, but make sure that it is not too liberal. The massage oil should not drip away from your palm. At the same time, should cover the whole palm.
• Change the role frequently: You should switch over from the role of giver to the taker after every 30 minutes of sensual massage. This helps in charging both of you.
• Use Aromatherapy products: Using aromatherapy products is the best way to get great boost in your bedroom. Aromatherapy products such as oils, candles, lotions, will give you the desired effect.
• Let the music play! Music connects every soul in the world. Play soft and soothing music to accentuate the effect of your sensual massage.
• Choose the location: If you don’t have a massage table at your home, make use of couches, beds or floor to enjoy the experience of sensual massage.
• Wear appropriate clothes: The less the clothes, the more is the effect of sensual massage. Choose the clothes that can be removed easily.
Tags: lovemaking, Aromatherapy, massage, sensual, relax
Sat, July 5, 2008 1:12 pm By James Coolridge
 Are you thinking about buying an adult gift for your partner? If yes, then read on to get a few tips to get you off the ground.
Remember, everyone is not quiet comfortable with sex toys. So, think twice before choosing an adult gift for your partner. Fluffy hand cuffs, cat mask or a leather whip or spanker can reflect novelty and can be of great fun.
Now that your partner accepts the light hearted sex toys, go for the bolder adult gifts. Choose a vibrator or a rabbit vibrator. These sex toys can be used both as a massager and an adult toy.
It is great to that your partner has now opened up and likes the idea of using bold sex toys. What’s next? Introduce some sexier things, such as sexy lingerie or ask her to dress up in sexy stockings and high heels and then use the sex toys.
You can also dress in leather and spank with a paddle. Get yourself tied up to her in a sensual night in a nice warm bath. Set the sizzling mood with candles and massage oil. Get a Rubber Ducky, a waterproof vibrating duck to tickle her intimate spots. Take out the rabbit vibrator with which you can have lots of fun.
So, try out the above sex toys and do it nice and slowly so that you don’t embarrass or offend your partner.
Tags: toys, adult, Vibrator, ducky
Sat, June 28, 2008 10:03 am By Ted Wilson
 What makes a woman feel captivating? Her looks? Her sex appeal? Both the aspects are, of course, alluring. Apart from these, there is something else that can make a woman feel and look sexy. It is none other than lingerie! Yes, lingerie has the ability to highlight best attributes of the person who wears it. No wonder why most of the American women fall in love with the sexy underwear!
Sexy lingerie that shows enough of the female’s body entices men and gets their imaginations flowing! However, the lingerie should not show too much ‘coz it will then leave nothing to the imagination of men.
However, there is no golden rule about the perfect lingerie outfit ‘coz different women have different feeling about how their lingerie can make them feel sexy and confident. The sexy air of confidence won’t be felt in a woman if her lingerie makes her feel uncomfortable.
The different styles of lingerie preferred by women include baby dolls, thongs, corsets, halter-tops, teddies and thongs. Lingerie is made of different materials such as vinyl, leather, polyester, nylon, silk and cotton.
Tags: Love, lingerie, entice, Sexuality
Thu, June 26, 2008 10:02 am By Judy Sly
 If you are like most men, you would spend many hours letting your imagination run riot about sex. You would imagine all sorts of positions, love making techniques and imagine a situation where your woman gives you intense response which makes you feel like heaven. At the end of the day, your main goal will be complete satisfaction. However, the picture will be somehow incomplete if your partner is not satisfied. So what will satisfy her completely and make her storming for more? Read on and get the answer.
It is the foreplay which unlocks all her treasuries of passion and intimacy. Without foreplay, your sexual intercourse is dull and boring. Foreplay is a spark that ignites unquenchable fire in her which makes her want for more.
You may attain orgasm within the first 5-7 minutes of penetrative sex. However, the passion for sex doesn’t just come in a single blow for women. The attainment of orgasm is a gradual process for women. They need at least 15 minutes of penetrative sex to attain their first orgasm. At this point, most men loose their steam rapidly. As a result, women won’t be able to attain orgasm. Hence, it takes time, skill and concentration to build up pleasure in women. You should be skilful enough to preserve your sexual strength till your woman culminates in orgasm, which gives her immense pleasure, excitement and satisfaction. All these process are attained through good foreplay.
Sexual touch gravitates to the sensitive erogenous zones and a good foreplay stimulates these zones. Gentle caressing and erotic gestures all are parts of a good foreplay which is highly needed for the pleasure build up in your woman.
However, you should not rush through foreplay, as is done by most men. Most women prefer prolonged foreplay and slow seductive approach. Physical faculties are used by most men during sex but, women use both physical and psycho-emotional faculties during sex. Pushing or forcing them for sex won’t generate any pleasure in your woman. You should remember that women want to feel cherished.
Foreplay is very important for the build up intimacy between you and your partner. A good foreplay is passionate and adventurous exploration of all the sensitive, intimate and erogenous zones. Hence, foreplay should be done with skill, affection and attention.
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Wed, June 25, 2008 10:03 am By Dennis Hays
 It is a well established fact that sex is a powerful, pleasurable and a unifying activity. It unites the body and souls of two individuals. When it comes to the magnitude of intimacy and satisfaction in a relationship, nothing can be compared to sex.
We all know that women desire more from sex than men. Sex is viewed by men and women from different perspectives. For men, sex is for attaining physical pleasure whereas; sex takes both physical and psycho-emotional dimensions when it is viewed from women’s perspective.
So here pops up a question- what do women exactly want from sex? What, according to women, is a completely satisfying sexual intercourse? What all would make women want for more?
There is a one-word answer for all these questions- Orgasm. It sounds a simple word, but it is difficult to attain. It is the attainment of orgasm that culminates the whole game of sex. Orgasm is the stage which unleashes the reserves of pleasure, intimacy and affection. Though there are many faces of attaining the ultimate enjoyment of orgasm, a few deserve special mention.
You should know that most women want to reach orgasm, but very few of them actually attain it. Most women don’t reach orgasm because it takes much longer for women to experience orgasm. Men can attain complete sexual satisfaction by 15-20 minutes of penetrative sex, but women require much more time to reach the ultimate satisfaction. Most women need clitoral stimulation, excessive foreplay while others consider oral sex as a necessary prerequisite to reach orgasm.
Another facet or orgasm is the intensity. There are weak as well as very intense orgasms. Weak orgasm is a problem for many couples. Many factors contribute to weak orgasm. Small sized manhood, low libido, insufficient foreplay, low staying power are the major factors that contribute to weak orgasm. On the other hand, an intense orgasm means that you have won her over. And if you are skillful enough to reproduce intense orgasm each time you have sex, she will be much more delighted and will be storming for more.
If you are able to give your partner the sex life of her dreams, she will unleash all the reserves of intimacy, passion and pleasure lying dormant in her. The only thing to know is what to do and do it with all your heart.
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Wed, June 25, 2008 10:02 am By Steven Kelley
 Sex is vital for the sheer survival of marital life. Most relationships become distant when sex becomes less. Many couples even walk out from their relationship due to lack of sex.
The process of getting into the mood for sex is different for men and women. For men, the process of lovemaking is simply the ways by which they can show their partner how much they love them. On the other hand, women are more emotional. A woman needs emotionally attached to respond to a man sexually. Hence, it becomes important for men to create the right emotions as to increase the chances of have a satisfying and exciting sex life.
The best way is to engage with your woman to create an ambience so that both of you feel good about. Since it is the right emotions that your woman is expecting from you to get her into mood, find out ways to hook her to you emotionally.
Communication is the key. So, communicate with your spouse and find out her likes and dislikes. At this point, it becomes important to remind you that a woman falls in love with a man when she feels great to have around him. This is because she tends to attach her great feelings to him. So, make your spouse feel great about you, about your relationship and about your love for her.
As a result, sex becomes even more important to both of you. When you do it at the right time and the right way (as she expects), the frequency of sex automatically increases. You both will then get closer which will give way to more great emotions and even more desire for sex.
When you are attached to each other both sexually and emotionally, the bond becomes even stronger. Your relationship becomes just the way you want it!
Tags: Love, Foreplay, Sex, Intimacy, touch, tips, Sexuality, lovemaking, orgasm, climax, dreams, vibe
Tue, June 24, 2008 1:14 pm By James Coolridge
 The number of cases of people’s addiction to pornography is on a rise. A person becomes highly obsessive about viewing, reading and thinking about pornography, when the person gets addicted to pornography. People should get rid of this addiction as early as possible, because this may cost them their relationships. In many cases, this addiction has adversely affected people’s marital lives and even jobs.
Pornography is common among youth and married men, though many women also suffer from this problem. Failed marriages are the common outcome of pornography addiction.
Viewing pornography causes our body to produce and release various chemical drugs such as epinephrine, adrenaline, noradrenaline, norepinephrine and testosterone, which add to the addiction. The person once addicted to pornography may even forget his circumstances and may end up in destruction of his family and relationships.
So how do you know that you are addicted to pornography?
When you are addicted to pornography, you become habitual about watching porn movies daily and reading sex stories. One day, you will realize that you can’t do without it. You will then keep this habit of viewing and reading about pornography secret from others.
How to overcome addiction to pornography?
Like any other addiction, pornography addiction can also be treated and cured. The first step will be the realization that the person has a problem and really wants to change. It takes a lot of time to detect such kind of problem. Once it is detected, people often feel ashamed to seek doctor’s help to cure this problem. They like to keep it a secret. However, people addicted to pornography should immediately get it treated otherwise it will have serious psychological aftereffects, which may destruct all their relationships.
Tags: problem, Porn, addiction, suffer, youth
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