How often does money and fame take over a relationship? We see this issue creating hassles in life of couples quite often. So then it makes you wonder- Is money and fame more important than love and romance?

Love can make you do crazy things and so can money. Money can buy you all the material comforts which love can’t. Love can fulfill your emotional insecurities and brings solace. Nurturing can be comforting but it cannot pay for the food bills or for your other comforts.

The desire to earn more money takes a toll on the relationship many a times. These days both partners are working and come home, tired and at times irritated with

lot of work at office. If children are involved then one has to be home on time, have a sitter and things tend to become unmanageable. This happens when there is lack of sufficient money.

When people are rich, they spend it lavishly. The need is to have the best of everything. The best of things are never enough. Desires are non- ending. In This need to own the extravagant lifestyle, love is never deep. It’s superficial and sacrificial.

One needs to understand the value of one’s life. There is no right or wrong way in doing this. How to love someone and nurture them cannot be taught. It has to come about naturally. A balance is needed in everything-whether it is earning money or being passionate about someone.

Money and fame has a tremendous effect on a person’s ego and that blinds him or her. People who are the earners refuse to become humble and have the innate desire to take control of another because that makes them feel powerful over others. But one day when this power comes crashing down, then it is the love and support of the beloved spouse that can help to recover in life again.

Sadly, this always doesn’t happen and not in every case. Partners do tend to walk away once disrespected.

So make an effort and realize what your priorities in life are. Evaluate your relationship whether you prefer money and fame over love and passion in your life. and then move on in life…..

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Romance is the glue that keeps a couple together and in love. And contrary to popular belief, it’s the small, day-to-day gestures that are the most meaningful, and have the greatest impact on enduring love.
We offer here a variety of thoughts and ideas that will help you to keep romance a priority. And don’t forget that fun is one of the most romantic things you can enjoy together.

1. Watch the sunset together
2. Back rubs/messages
3. Hold them with hands inside the back of their shirt
4. Cook for each other
5. French kiss in the rain
6. Dress each other
7. Undress each other
8. Kiss every part of their body
9. Hold hands often
10. Sleep together (actually sleep together, not Love)
11. Sit and talk in just underwear
12. Buy surprise gifts for each other
13. Roses, daisies, or wild flowers
14. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars
15. Kiss them every chance you get
16. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out
17. Lightly kiss their collarbone and jawbone just below their ear, then whisper “I love
You.”
18. Write poetry for each other
19. Kiss/smell their hair
20. Hugs are the universal medicine
21. Say “I love you” only when you mean it, and make sure they know you mean it
22. Spend every second possible together
23. Look into each other’s eyes often
24. Very lightly push up their chin, look into their eyes, tell them you love them, and kiss them
23. When in public, only flirt with each other
24. Walk behind them and put your hands in their front pockets
25. Put love notes in their pockets when they don’t know it
26. Sing to each other
27. Read to each other
28. PDA’s
29. Take advantage of any time alone together to cuddle
30. Draw a picture together
31. Let them sit on your lap
32. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, cheeks, collarbones, hands, and ears.
33. Hold them around their hips/sides
34. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand, and place it over your heart
35. Unless you can hear their heart beating, then you aren’t close enough
36. Dance together
37. Cherish the picture you see when she falls asleep in your arms
38. Even if you are extremely busy doing something and they are away and know you are busy, go out of your way to call and say “I love you” or something else to show them you do
39. Call them from your vacation spot and tell them you miss them and were thinking about them, and be sure to mean it
40. Remember your dreams, and share them with each other
41. Ride your bike a healthy distance to see them if even just for a few hours, even if you have a car
42. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears
43. Go to church/worship/pray together, even if you aren’t religious
44. Learn from each other and never make the same mistakes twice
45. Everyone deserves a second chance
46. Describe the joy that you genuinely feel just to be with him/her
47. Make obvious sacrifices for each other
48. Love each other together, don’t just be together
49. Write a story about how you met and fell in love with them, and give it to them
50. Pray about them every night before going to bed
51. Love yourself before you love anyone else
52. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages
53. Dedicate songs on the radio to them if you can.
54. Fall asleep on the phone with each other (intentionally)
55. Always try to tell them everything you love about them, and mean it.
56. Never do anything with other members of the opposite person that you wouldn’t do with them there with you
57. Find a particular tree in the part to call your own, and go there often to talk about your day
58. Make sure to put their wishes before your own
59. Board games on rainy days
60. Open your heart to them as much as or more than they do to you
61. Always say good, truthful things to them to cheer them up when they need it
62. Never talk about problems with ex’s
63. Be true to yourself- be true to each other, and always be true
64. Spend time thinking of creative dates
65. Go on one of those creative dates
66. To settle an argument, think of what is right, not who is right
67. Never say anything you know will make them jealous
68. Find a particular star in the night sky to call your own. When you know you can’t be together, set a time for both of you to look at the same star and think of each other.
69. Fill your heart with love, and fill theirs with yours
70. Never wait for them to say “I love you” first and always say it in return with meaning.