It is true love (or attraction) make no distinction when it comes to age. There are many instances thought history where younger men have fallen for the older woman. Maybe the relationships have not succeeded but that was not because of the age gap, but due to the pressures and prejudices of society, family and friends. 
Even in today’s modern society where anything goes same sex marriages, swing parties, multiple partners, bi-sexuality, the older women younger man scenario still draws disapproval. (Why only the lord knows)

To a young man an older woman holds a great attraction; they are not only attracted to them physically but appeal to them emotionally as well. Maybe it’s because she knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it or maybe because she it’s the confident no nonsense attitude she has about the world and you.

While dating an older woman can give you a lot of satisfaction, adjusting to the relationship in fact can take some getting used to.

 An older woman will have her own life, friends, and maybe children. So don’t try to hang on to her, have your own life and give her space. Give her time for her friends and spend sometime with your friends. And for gods sakes don’t expect her to look after you (she is not mommy dearest).

Just be yourself, she is dating you because she likes you as you are. Don’t make a fool of your self by acting extra mature, or at times totally immature. Relax be yourself.

Enjoy your differences and introduce each other to your different interests. But don’t force her to do things she is not interested in, she has seen a lot in life and by now knows what she wants and doesn’t want. Also try to find things to do that interest both of you.

Don’t let her success get in the way of your relationship i.e. don’t compete with her in the job arena or money making. If you let your ego rule you will loose her faster than a speeding bullet.

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Age is not a barrier for many things to do in life, even to make love. Nobody will question if you are dating woman elder than you since love is ageless!! Bridge the bloody age gap and get closer to your date! Here are some tips to attract your lady:

Be what you are: She is dating you because she likes you. Offer her naturalness and fun. Don’t pose anything other than your own persona. Remember, she is more experienced than you.

Talk which interests her: She would not tolerate anything which is not sensible or immature. Change the topic. Ask about her job, hobbies and so on. Don’t question her about her age or tease her because she is older.

Never compare her with your ex: She will immediately knock you down if you start comparing her with your ex girl friend. Make her feel important and show that you are interested in nobody else.

Do not move fast: She is not looking to make fast a family because she already had one. Always be ready to accept the complications while dating an older woman.

The trend of men dating older women is there since long. This happens because older women are mature, have enough experience of life, financially independent and good lovers too. It was a big shame in the past but now, the age barrier is just a number!

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