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Wed, July 2, 2008 12:46 pm By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Ok guys you have been married for an X number of years, but that absolutely does not mean that you should get into a rut. Move it man shake up your marriage and add a bit of spice into it.
Happy and healthy relationships take a lot of effort, but if you are truly committed to make your marriage/relationship work, a bit of creativity and effort on your part, romance can become a delicious element of your relationship.
Dress up for your wife/partner
Believe me tattered sweats, mid paunch and the unkempt look does not appeal to women, even your wife of X years finds it a turn of. Taking care of your clothes and your body, losing those extra pounds around your mid-section, will not only improve your health but will also increase your energy and sexual appeal (you will be startled at how willing your wife has suddenly become).
Touching
Physical touching (of the non-sexual type) is very important in creating a romantic mood. So be sure to add a few hugs, caresses and gentle kisses through the day. Hot sizzling sex does not happen if there is virtually no physical touch throughout the day and evening, it has to be cultivated. Offer to massage your partner with scented oils to add extra zing to your love life.
Communication
Yes this I know you have heard it many times, but it is true, communication is the ultimate way to romance. Make time during the day to call or text message your partner to let them know you are thinking about them. (and for heaven’s sake don’t use that time to complain about bills piling up or work problems) A naughty text message or note goes a long way in adding sizzle to a relationship.
Plan something unusual
Plan an activity that is unusual for both of you, it doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive. Give her a spa treat or get a couples massage or take her for a walk at the beach at night, or simply buy her a gift for no reason. Doing something that she least expects will definitely up your romance quotient.
Spicy Sex
Sex is one of the most important factors of marriage but can become boring after a couple of years, keeping it exciting is crucial for a happy marriage. Try different things like role playing or sexy games like strip poker or strip scrabble. Also try sending the kids to grandma once a week so you can get a wild and loud.
Tags: Sex, Marriage, romance, relationships, spicy sex, touching, sexual appeal, massages
Wed, June 18, 2008 12:03 pm By James Coolridge
 Although marriages are made in heaven, the planning is done by professional wedding planners on Earth! Budget wedding seems to be easier with wedding planners de-stressing the bridegroom and helping them work through wedding dilemmas. If you can’t find a professional wedding planner, you need not worry! You can plan it yourself! All you need to do is just follow this guidance. Read on.
The underlying concept of a budget wedding is planning a stress free wedding, since budget is very essential to a successful marriage. There are few other things to keep in mind when planning a wedding within your budget. Here are they.
• Grooming expenses: You should not forget the pre-wedding pampering sessions such as the manicures, pedicures, and haircuts. These grooming expenses are unavoidable for a wedding.
• Guest list: Well, this is the real daunting task as when you sit back to figure out the number of guests expected for your wedding, you may end up in an endless list! A budget wedding demands a short guest list. Try to cut short the guest list, this will in turn help you cut your budget in almost every area- from food and beverage to rental items and flowers.
• Utilize your credit card: Pay off the wedding expenses using your credit card. Make sure that you don’t delay the payment.
Planning can save you a lot of money. It is better to plan the wedding as early as possible. Make sure that you have enough time to shop around. Early planning helps cut down the costs of a wedding, which may otherwise turn out to be a costly affair.
Tags: wedding, planning, budget
Wed, June 18, 2008 12:01 pm By James Coolridge
 Wedding invitation card, venue, gown, wedding favours, photography are various items, which are taken into consideration while planning a wedding. However, the main element of a wedding is the theme. You should select a suitable theme for your wedding to make the big day of your life the most memorable one. Here are some more things to be kept in mind when you are planning your wedding.
The theme: Your wedding theme will depend on the date you choose. You should make sure that the wedding theme doesn’t contradict the season. It will be rare, rather awkward to plan a beach wedding during peak winter season. It also applies to a winter theme for your wedding during summer. Hence, choose a theme that gels with the season.
You can also create your wedding theme based on your cultural preferences. For instance, if you and your soul mate have a liking for the Asian culture, go for an Asian theme. Make sure that other wedding items also match the Asian idea.
The style: Your style statement also reflects on the ceremony. Your attitude on wedding will certainly affect your decision. It will be reflected in the tone of your wedding invitation. Formal or semi-formal- the choice is yours. If you want the big day of your life to be a strictly formal affair, it is better to wed in a Church. If it is the other way around, a semi-formal occasion, you may book a banquet or go for a beach wedding to set the casual mood.
The wedding style is different for different individuals. We have seen many couples who like to have a unique wedding plan for a special experience. So if you want to host a special event, put in some hard work to make your event even more special.
Tags: Marriage, wedding, nuptial, ties
Tue, June 17, 2008 10:34 am By James Coolridge
 Today, people are familiar with marriage as the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony. They see marriage as a union of two people who have agreed to live as one and start a family of their own. Marriage is another tenure to which people will be venturing out to a new phase of their lives and while many would find it challenging and exciting, it remains that marriage is more than these things.
For one thing, marriage is another stage of adjustment for both parties. It is entirely different to live in an age of independence where husband and wife have to make it on their own without the help of their parents. This is the ideal way towards married life but for some people, feeling that they cannot make it on their own without support from their families totally defeats the purpose.
We often hear of breakups and misunderstandings. These stem from the fact that they overlook the actual purpose of marriage and the real challenges that they bring. Even if people have known each other for most parts of their lives, all of these are due to change once married life is entered. You see each other everyday and notice the hidden habits which may or may not suit your liking. That is where the trouble starts.
Time management is another issue that normally behests marriages. With one or both working, the whole purpose of working is personal achievement and of course financial support for their daily needs. Many couples also want the attention and quality time from their partners. But given that their worlds will surely vary in the marital stage, these factors of time management are bound to be among the reasons why two people will have differences to settle.
There are plenty of things to consider before tying the knot. Most of them are ideal and easy to listen to. But the reality is that everything becomes entirely different when you are already there and on the verge of implementation. This is where that famous phrase becomes really useful; “Actions Speak Louder than Word”.
Tags: Love, Relationship, Marriage, trust., work, happiness, dedication
Fri, May 16, 2008 1:17 pm By James Coolridge
 Photographs keep millions of people buying digital cameras these days. There is something about a still shot taken that captures 1000 words. That one moment in time captured forever. That is the reason the wedding photography is so important. It is that moment in time that you will want to remember for the rest of your life. It is that one moment in time that you will want your future children and grand children and even great grand children to remember. It is important that it is the right shot that is remembered forever and that is why a wedding photographer is so important.
Photographs depict a mood or emotion. Even though it is captured in a millisecond, it represents the entire days events or some aspect of it. A wedding day is full of emotion. There will be parts of the day that are exciting, or parts of the day that will be full of serenity and solemnity. There will parts of the day that you will be smiling ear to ear and another part of the day that you will be full of tears. It is a heart filled day of love and celebration. It is a day of beginning, a day of new hope. Unity, oneness, a day of joining. Two families merge into one. A photographer must be able to capture all this in a millisecond snap shot. It is a skill and it takes somebody that understands the emotions of such a significant day.
There are a couple of ways a photographer will take snapshots. He may arrange poses or he may try to just capture the moment in a natural way. You can help. Be natural. Enjoy your partner and have fun with it. The best pictures is when you are showing true emotion. Poses can be fun. But during the ceremony it is all candid. You won’t be thinking about the photos during that time anyways.
Whatever the photographer’s style is he or she will adapt to you and your spouse’s personality. There isn’t one shot that works for everybody. It is your special day and it is unique in your own way. The pictures will be the same. This day is special because of the commitment you are making. It is the step into a new era. It is your own era, it is your own dynasty to be made. Nobody else is in control of it, but you and your spouse. The pictures will reflect what you make the day to be. So enjoy it!
Tags: Marriage, Photographs, cherish, preserve
Sat, May 10, 2008 1:11 pm By James Coolridge
 Many relationships end up in a divorce just because one reason- the partners are not suitable for each other. The reason is not silly it is rather a big one which is one of the main reasons for the alarming rate of divorce. So it is a wise to make a good choice of partner to share your life. And after locating the person for you, you should make sure that you are a better spouse for her so that you both don’t face a divorce which is really the bitter end of a relationship. Here are some tips to become a better spouse.
Listen:
Always lend an ear to your partner. She should not feel that you are not attentive to what she says. Pay undivided attention to her. Every time if she speaks to you and sees that you are always doing something else and not paying the due attention to her, she may think that you are being rude.
The way you speak:
You should keep a check on how you speak to your spouse. Your tone of voice is very important. Whenever you are stressed out do share your problem with her, talk to her, but keep your voice moderate. Always don’t shoot up to a sharp tone which sounds like a sharp weapon. Remember, you are talking to another human.
Apologize when you are wrong:
This is perhaps the toughest one in a relationship. When you are wrong, it is best to take the initiative and apologize. A simple sorry can help you avoid many major arguments and fights.
Show your love:
Show your wife that you love her and care for her. It usually happens that after marriage, we forget to say ‘I Love You’. Don’t take things for granted. Express your love and you will see her reciprocating in double amounts.
Everyone wants a relationship with someone. No one wants to grow old alone. So, follow these tips and prove yourself that you are her wise choice!
Tags: Love, Listen, apologize, speak
Sat, March 15, 2008 7:38 am By James Coolridge
 It’s a fact that most guys are obsessed with their freedom and while they like all the good things about relationships, namely sex, the thought of committing ones life with just one woman is a claustrophobic thought.
So here are the main reasons that explain a man’s fear of commitment:
Freedom no more
Men by their very nature want to live independent lives. Living by their own rules and making their own decisions - that’s what being a man is all about, no questions asked!
One sex partner, forever
Men are programmed by nature to spread our seeds in as many fields as possible. So it’s obvious that we naturally crave for sexual variety, which is shunned when married.
No free time
Get into a relationship and it starts eating into your time, make a commitment and you are no longer left with any time for us.
Just not ready for it
A classic quote for the man in a denial towards getting committed.
Tags: Commitment, Marriage, Denial
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