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Love is not a feeling though real love is basically a strong feeling, which does not equate to fly in sky or float on clouds. Like we used to see in television, movies, it’s not the love which portrays in person’s real life like singing songs and feeling gooey gooey. People in love do not always feel to be around each other, as everybody needs their own space. A relationship will never last on an intention to be in a relationship or on emotions; there should be knowledge to be in a healthy relationship.
Knowing a person is very important. Many times in life it happens that we fall in love with the person we haven’t seen or we hardly know, by a conversation or as such. It happens with people in real life as they fall in love with the movie star and sometimes with a guy we have seen at some shopping mall. Does thing sufficient the need of knowing the person? Starting such a relationship will never satisfy you and you will never know that where it will lead you!
It is very important to know the person’s personality and character and the qualities which attract us to that person. If we know a lot of thing about someone and like it, then it is that we are really attracted toward him and if we know very little about someone and are not attracted towards him, is that we don’t know him.
If a relationship is of long term then the goal should be common and both the person should lead their life in one direction. If both the person have different view point and have different ideas as one want to travel different international location while other want to spend time at one location. These type of change in ideas and compatibilities may lead to conflict which could be serious problem for a couple lives.
It is always shown by the media and other entertainment industry that whenever two people are in a relationship, it lead to have physical affection which is fun for others to see but love isn’t sex always.
Love is choice with a combination of commitment as feeling accompany love. For a long term issue, sex is just a part of marriage and any healthy relations never last on physical basis. The Bible says that God is love. God as our designer and creator, made us with needs for love. Its natural psychology that we get ample of love but we are never satisfied because God has made us of unconditional love and we, people are flawed.
It always happen in life that we get along with some of the people who will invariably let you down at some point but God has made us in such a way that we need to find our ways and the ultimate love and acceptance we get in him first. Any individual cannot always stand up to the extent of meeting all the needs of someone, no matter whether he is smart or handsome or she is beautiful or cute. God is the creator and he can only fulfill all that we need.
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