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What is Real Love?

What is Real Love? Love is not a feeling though real love is basically a strong feeling, which does not equate to fly in sky or float on clouds. Like we used to see in television, movies, it’s not the love which portrays in person’s real life like singing songs and feeling gooey gooey. People in love do not always feel to be around each other, as everybody needs their own space. A relationship will never last on an intention to be in a relationship or on emotions; there should be knowledge to be in a healthy relationship.

Knowing a person is very important. Many times in life it happens that we fall in love with the person we haven’t seen or we hardly know, by a conversation or as such. It happens with people in real life as they fall in love with the movie star and sometimes with a guy we have seen at some shopping mall. Does thing sufficient the need of knowing the person? Starting such a relationship will never satisfy you and you will never know that where it will lead you!

It is very important to know the person’s personality and character and the qualities which attract us to that person. If we know a lot of thing about someone and like it, then it is that we are really attracted toward him and if we know very little about someone and are not attracted towards him, is that we don’t know him.

If a relationship is of long term then the goal should be common and both the person should lead their life in one direction. If both the person have different view point and have different ideas as one want to travel different international location while other want to spend time at one location. These type of change in ideas and compatibilities may lead to conflict which could be serious problem for a couple lives.

It is always shown by the media and other entertainment industry that whenever two people are in a relationship, it lead to have physical affection which is fun for others to see but love isn’t sex always.

Love is choice with a combination of commitment as feeling accompany love. For a long term issue, sex is just a part of marriage and any healthy relations never last on physical basis. The Bible says that God is love. God as our designer and creator, made us with needs for love. Its natural psychology that we get ample of love but we are never satisfied because God has made us of unconditional love and we, people are flawed.

It always happen in life that we get along with some of the people who will invariably let you down at some point but God has made us in such a way that we need to find our ways and the ultimate love and acceptance we get in him first. Any individual cannot always stand up to the extent of meeting all the needs of someone, no matter whether he is smart or handsome or she is beautiful or cute. God is the creator and he can only fulfill all that we need.

Tags: Love, God, Unconditional


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WHAT IS LOVE?

WHAT IS LOVE?It is a very common question, and all of you who are in love at any point of time in your life have asked this question to your self, “m I in love?”, but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. This can get confusing when you are a teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for you and you don’t know what to expect. You are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures. They are confusing. What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can’t be easily answered.

One of the most confusing quasi-love feelings is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction toward another person. Lust is mainly sexual in nature - the attraction is superficial based on instant chemistry rather than genuine caring. Usually we lust after people we do not know well, people we still feel comfortable fantasizing about. It is very common for people to confuse lust for love.

Lust is about physical attraction and acting ONLY on physical attraction. Love is about much more than that. Yet many people confuse an intense attraction for some sort if divine love. For teens, since feelings of attraction are still new and since pop-culture sells sex and love as one package, it is very easy to get the two mixed up.

Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one another’s happiness. Love is a positive feeling. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will.

Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the sloppiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person. If you agree with 7 of the following 8 statements you are probably in love.

1. The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.

2. If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you
or hurt your relationship.

3. Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.

4. When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).

5. Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision and your decision alone.

6. Neither you nor your partner feels the need to test the other’s loyalties or feelings.

7. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.

8. If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.

Tags: Love, happiness, lust, attraction, feelings


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THE SINGLE MANIA

So here you are again alone in your room while watching your favorite episode on TV. Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why? Would you consider yourself that someday this could be my fantasy, my happily ever after as what they say?

THE SINGLE MANIAAlmost every guy goes weak in the knees when it comes to asking a girl out. At times lots of planning goes into deciding the ideal place and situation where you can ask out your girl. However before taking any step make sure that you know each other well and are comfortable in the company of each other. How to ask out a girl is a thought which dominates every man’s mind at some stage of his life.

You can either ask her out in a very romantic manner or just pop the question casually. Do not fret if she hurls a NO towards you. Just make asking out a girl a memorable experience.

Every woman is judgmental. They start to judge the moment they see you. Hence, first impression is very important. Give the woman a little romance. Woman love men to adore. Surprise her with flowers, a little card or writing her a love poem can melt their heart easily. Even if both of you have been together for years, it does not mean you can dispense all these formalities. All these little actions can spice up relationships. Women love to hear nice words and they are never bored with it.

If you are a hunk or you don’t mind being judged about how you look, an alternative which is open to you is probably the singles bar. It might be convenient for you to find a girl depending on where you live. Dating is not difficult. Chatting with someone is not rocket science, although it is some sort of science. Dating tips and advice are all available online. You just need to dig deeper to find out what they are and how do you use them correctly to get the dream girl you desired.

At the end of the day, single men simply spend most of their time thinking about what they can do to win the affections of the opposite sex.

Tags: Dating, Partners, couple, relationships, single status


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Romantic songs that haunt you!!

Romantic songs that haunt you!!Many songs in our lives which reflect deep emotional thoughts are always preserved in the heart. And when you are dating, music may take a whole new meaning to you. Talking about romantic numbers, well, I am much inclined to “My heart will go on..” by Celine Dion. This is surely the romantic masterpiece. There are many other songs in the hit list which are cherished by most of the singles (including me!!!) Here are some of the treasured romantic numbers.
 
My Heart Will Go On - Celine Dion
This is undoubtedly a masterpiece of romantic melodies with the rousing crescendo towards the end. Who wouldn’t want to stand at the front of a ship with arms outstretched? Well, I definitely will give a fair try to do so!!! The song still brings a lump to our throat. Ask yourself would you die for your girl? (think it over…)

Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton
The song sung with heartfelt honesty by Mr. Clapton really touched by heart and brought droplets in my eyes… I was really moved by this song. The beauty of this song is in its romantic simplicity. A song about being proud to be with someone, a song of compliments and a song of love, you can’t do better than this for classic romantic sentiment.

Don’t Want to Miss a Thing - Aerosmith
Another romantic masterpiece. In fact, a gladiator of romantic modern classics for sure! Steven Tyler in full throttle, rousing lyrics and chorus and superb video to boot. The sentiment is there, the voice the attitude and even the opening few words are class “I could stay awake just to hear you breathing…”. Get playing it now.

Wicked Game - Chris Isaac
It took me a while to actually grasp the sense of the song. When I got the nuances of the song, it entered the top ten list of my all time favorites. Essentially a song constructed from different tenses about the affect a woman has on the male singer from was to is now. What a wicked thing this woman does to Chris who sings like a bird. It helped enormously that Helena Christensen was Mr. Isaacs partner in both life and video at the time of release and only helps heighten its meaning. Simply awestruck by the song!
 
No Ordinary Love - Sade
the seductive voice of Sade was perhaps the sound vibrated in the entire wine bar sophistication of the mid 1980’s. The song should be better remembered not for the Robert Redford & Demi Moore film it accompanied, or the dreadful Sade video of a lonely mermaid, but for the soft undertones of the melody, the lilting tones of the song, the sadness, and the sheer romance of its lyrics. A beautiful song superbly scripted and one to make your heart melt, yearn and stretch. Speechless!!

We’ve Only Just Begun - The Carpenters
Cheesy and corny? Absolutely not, a romantic masterpiece without equal. If you haven’t played this in some time just listen to Karen’s voice. It is like listening to perfection, like chocolate, like silk, with inflection and emotion. My silly words here cannot do this song justice; it just needs to be placed. A romantic all time classic, even more so when related to Karen’s own tragic demise one month short of her 33rd birthday.

Tags: romance, romantic melodies, emotions


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How To Beat The Blues in a Relationship

AgonyBreak ups are always painful. You will go crazy if you loose the most important person in your life. Result? Heartache and days filled with intense sorrow. Recover yourself from this miserable condition. Don’t get cheesed off, we all have break ups. Just beat the agony. Break ups is handled differently by different people. These steps may not be perfect for everyone, but will surely help!

Why did the relationship break-off? Examine what happened and why did the relationship break off? This may help to avoid missteps in future.

Accept, don’t deny; If you are at fault, accept it. Accepting responsibility for your shortcomings is healthy. However, don’t be pessimistic. You are also a good person and it was not one-sided.

Take out all the frustration: This is the phase when you feel like screaming, crying. Go ahead, take out your frustration. This will reduce your pain. You may also feel like hating yourself but let go off that feeling fast. It is a sheer waste of time in hating or punishing you over a relationship which exists no more.

Friends- your shoulder to cry on: Talk to your friends, seek their advice. This will reduce the burden. Devote your time with your loving friends, family and acquaintances. They will give you sigh of relief and deviation from whatever happened in the past. Remember, there are lots more to do in life than being in a relationship.

See that there is no sense in being heart broken, regretful or creating hatred for your ex. Vanish all your thoughts about your past relationship and go ahead in life because, life is short!

Tags: Ex Girlfriend, Girlfriend, Relationship
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