I get a number of guys who write in to ask me for dating opinion on how to behave around women. Many of those questions center on the first meeting or the first date. I thought I’d give over one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is imperative to understand if you’re wondering how to conduct yourself around a woman you’ve just met.
A fault ALMOST EVERY GUY MAKES
-I’ve noticed a KEY variation between the way men and women act when they meet a “probable mate”. Women regularly act in a way that can be characterized like this:
“You’re appealing to me. I’d like to get to know you well again, and we can see where this goes.”
 
 

Men usually act in a manner that can be characterized like this:
“I am so engrossedin you that I’m nervous. In fact, I already view of you as a potential girlfriend or wife… or at slightest a one-night stand.”

In other words, women are usually unfussy and laid-back when they’re first meeting a guy…But GUYS tend to act like each girl is a POTENTIAL WIFE. As you can envisage, this creates a lot of tension and pressure. And I’m not talking about the fine kind, either. If you start performing all freakish and edgy when you’re talking to a woman, you’re probably going to turn things up before they’ve even had a chance to get started.

Treating a woman that you’ve just met as if she very fine could be the love of your life is something you should not at all do. As a replacement for, take a very different approach.

The fact is that a large number of women are NOT similar in temperament “long term” with most men. In other words, there if you do get into a long-standing relationship with a particular woman, the chances are that she’s going to have things about her that you don’t akin to. The simple dating opinion here is…

DO Not DO IT. The foremost reason that I do this…revelation…

IS THAT IT’S correct! Duhh…One of my favorite Cocky & Funny themes to follow is “You’re screwing up your probability with me”.

Let’s say I’m walking down the street by way of a girl to have a cup of tea. Let’s assume that she and I just met the night earlier than, I got her number, and now we’re walking from my position to tea. On the mode in the door to the coffee shop, she trips above the doorway. I might look at her, shake my head in an “overly theatrical fake annoyed” way, and say “This affiliation just isn’t going to work”.

Then, let’s say fifteen minutes later on she spills her tea on the table and herself.
I’ll shake my head once more and say “What did I tell you about this kind of actions?” In other words, I’m communicating the very reverse of “You’re a potential wife”. I’m saying “I’m so contented around you that I can even make fun of you without caring what you think of me”. Does this resonance a little crazy?

First-class. It should. But believe me. If you throw away a couple of hours having regular, normal conversation… being Cocky & amusing, enjoying yourself, NOT trying to make an impact on her, and generally representing that you could care less how stuff turn out, you’ll be FAR more liable to take things further than if you act as if she might be the worship of your life and you wind up acting so anxious, stilted, and DUMB that she runs away from you.

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