This is one thing I have always wondered since many years now when the winter snow takes over for half a year and you are left hunting for some pretty faces but you never get to see one. I am sure some of you would also agree with me on this because in winters I have often seem men so very hard pressed to spot even a single damsel down the cafeteria or the theatre. The only things you get to see all around are humans clad in coats, hats and scarves and you wonder where in the world all the girls have gone!

The moment summer begins and sunshine falls on your panes, you know that spring/summer is welcoming you with open arms. The sky turns orange and the local public area suddenly becomes a temple of female beauty. What I am left wondering is, where do they come from? For good 6 months, these goddesses are not to be seen any where; perhaps hibernating in Ibiza or Alaska I suppose. They are not to be spotted either in mine or even my friends’ offices.

The only option you are left with is coming to the conclusion that these girls are certainly shipped in for the summer to your city to drive you crazy. To me this has always been a perennial mystery. Sometimes I also end up thinking that it must be a figment of my imagination.

Whatever it is, it is a great time of the year because where you yourself are getting ready to shift from being over clad in winters to lazy shift to shorts and t-shirts, women turn into sun-worshipping supermodels at the drop of the hat.

So my advice to all of those who are expecting some spice in a foreign country and are planning a vacation, please make your trips in summers as women here, gentlemen as my observation are solar powered!

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I have often heard men talking about various attributes they intend to see in their women. She should be smart, intelligent, loving, romantic, hot and beautiful. This ‘all in one’ package is dreamt by most men around the globe but in return of expecting this from our ladies, we miss what our ladies would want to see in us. Or to be more precise, do we ourselves have the right qualities to attract such women towards us? Well, the solution to all of this is but one. Let’s have a look!
Have you ever noticed that when you are not in a good mood, every one around you also looks irritable? This happens because your mood is capable of influencing not only your own behavior but also of those around you.

If you intend to attract smart attractive women towards you, then you need to exude the similar kind of energy from yourself as well. In simple words, you need to be happy. Because when you are happy from your heart, you spread the similar of vibes around you and people sharing the same emotion will get attracted towards you. There are times when we often demean yourselves and our circumstances, isn’t it? What do you think we are doing by that? We are developing a foul emotion within us and if we don’t like ourselves for some reason, we’ll grow grumpy and this is certainly not going to attract intelligent women towards us.

In fact all aspects in your life are inter-related. Consider you are at a club with some mates enjoying your brew. It’s Friday night and you achieved a ton during the past week at your job. You took out another CD this week for 20k because financially you’re very responsible, and tomorrow your new surfboard will be done at the shapers! All this makes you extremely happy and you are simply pleased with the way life is going. The happiness you feel within your heart will radiate out like a positive energy for others to see. This in turn will make your aura more positive and you’ll attract people with similar mindsets near you as well. If they are women, then they will pick up on your love life and will be more than happy to be in your company.

Another positive aftermath of being happy at heart is you’ll not have to put in any effort to genuinely smile at a beautiful woman you’ve just been introduced to. You will come across as an enthusiastic person and it will be hard for women to NOT get attracted to you under these circumstances.

So my dear friend, just have faith in yourself, try to simply your life so that you can take charge of it and the world will be at your feet within no time! So long and god bless!

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How often have you heard about women leaving men either because of their looks, age or lack of decent financial standing? All the time, isn’t it? But tell me one thing clearly, have you have had the girl coming to you and telling that she left you because of any of these. Well, I am not talking about the lesser mortals who woo men because of materialistic reasons. I am talking about genuine women, who understand what bonding with a man means and want to have a serious relationship with them.

I don’t think such a woman ever leaves a man saying that you are not good looking and hence I can’t continue with you. Well, if she was so bothered about it so much, she wouldn’t have agreed to date with you in the first place. But what if smart, intelligent women don’t date with you just because you are way too older to them? What if they don’t notice you in the first place only?

You know what?
You now don’t need to worry about women not noticing you over any of these reasons now. This is because you can now make young, intelligent women get attracted to you at your own will, irrespective of your bank balance, your age or your looks. You can now seduce them at your own leisure and make them fall in love with you with intensity that’ll have shivers running down your spine.

How?
By tapping their heart, their emotions! Women are emotional beings. They think from their hearts, not their brains. Logic plays a minimal role in their decision making when it comes to choosing their partner. If you try logical things by being a nice guy and thinking that good girls are bound to get attracted to a good guy, you are absolutely wrong. Good girls (and this may hurt you) get attracted to bad guys who don’t have even an iota of intelligence like yours.

So my dear friend, its time to get that streak of wildness out now. If you tell women what they are willing to listen rather than what you think is right, I bet you’ll never miss a hit at the super beautiful damsel, you have always been wanting to talk!

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Well, in my last article, I spoke about how you should let the woman do the talking for the first one month of your dating her. I also told you that women love talking and so the best way to impress her is to let her open her Pandora’s Box and talk to you, to her heart’s content. You must be wondering that when will you do the talking if you invest all the gracious time in listening to her?
Here’s your answer!
The biggest advantage you are getting out of letting the girl talking initially is you’ll get to know most about her in the first few weeks of dating her itself. By letting her talk you’re discovering which category she belongs to. Whether she is one-night stand types, just dating material or possibly someone more serious. Also as a person who doesn’t want to create any unnecessary mess in his life, you should not before hand whether that girl is worth you or not.

Sooner or later, you will have to certainly open up but in this first month, you can focus on discovering whether she is worth of your attention or not. All you need to do is be confident and playful on your dates and try giving as much little information as you can about yourself as possible. Be smart and witty in answering questions she pops out for you every now and then and switch the conversation back to her within no time. Women often tend to miss this stuff so you can be assured in here.

There lies one more reason in talking less in the beginning. Women love mysterious men. If you have an air of curiosity surrounding you all the time, women will feel intrigued to know more and more about you and this will keep her at her toes all the time. Creating a balance is important. Don’t ruin it for her by letting her know every single detail about your proudest achievements within the first 10 minutes of your meeting her. Even if you don’t have anything to be proud of she doesn’t know that! She’ll daydream and fantasize about how mysterious you are.

Ideally even a long term girlfriend or wife should be discovering new things about you for years to come!

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Oh.. Planning for the first date ever… Confused and Worried? Not too confident as what will happen?
Don’t you worry, just follow some simple rules and enjoy the time with your date.
1. Look your best: Don’t try to be professional or ethnic when have to go for a meet. Be calm, chill and dress in clothes which suit you the best. Be contemporary in your wear-up. What ever you wear do remember to check your shoes as women always look at your shoes even if the last time your shoes were out on your anniversary!
2. Look and be hygienic and styling sorted out: Visit a barber before you plan for a meet and set out your hair, get a decent style. If you don’t have much hair still get down to the salon and either get your head shaved or something you are comfortable with. Put good quality cologne. We understand! It means expenditure… but it’s a date which you need to impress! Remember… Women will appreciate it!

3. Are you on Job? Women mainly look for a guy who earn well. At least good enough to fulfill her ambition! So, any job is better than none. It might be possible that in her first meet itself, she may ask present and future plans!!!! Ooops.. now what to say! So, better be prepared.

4. How about your General Knowledge: Women do not appreciate stupidity and laziness is no excuse either. Current affairs are important to be aware of and have the understanding of like sitting in a entrance examination. So, make sure you are updated with the current affairs and the quality of news you watch and read. It does bring an impact.

5. How about Sports…: Aaahh! Another shot… Like sports… good, but if sport is a religion for you then you are bringing trouble in your life. We know that millions of girls love sport too and that is fine but don’t make your passion into a one-sided one.

6. Do you drink or smoke? Smoke – Give up right away. Girls hate men who smoke and yes do take care of this too that you can never win a princess heart if she gets to know that you are drinking in bar 5 nights a week and that you live in there only.

7. Start Listening and stop talking: The most important point in all seven. Don’t turn into one man entertainer. Do listen to her as she is there with you to share her view and thoughts. Women love to chat and listening her will give a good impact of yours. Don’t believe! Try it!

hmmm… now even if you are world’s worst dancer you have to do two left flat feet. So join some Salsa Classes today and Get started!

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A common saying… “One can never understand Women”! Is it actually soo tough? Do you want to understand her or her moods? Well I think women can be understood only if you share good time with her while a date or on phone. Dating is rather considered to be a better aspect to understand someone special for your life. Dating is hard enough, but to date someone that you don’t understand, is even harder.
Well to have pleasant date with your partner or spouse or your lover –
1. Arrive on time: Whether you are picking your date from her home or meeting at some place the first thing that you are meeting her. So, reach early or be on time, else she will take the other way round of yours coming late that either a) you are not willing to come or b) there is no excitement in you for the meet.

2. Bring flowers or some gift: Saying flowers may seem that it’s an outdated tradition now… but the thing is that Women still love flowers. If you are not aware of her choice then Roses are always there to cover all flowers in queue. Whether the date is a first date or you have been dating for years, women will always appreciate the romantic gesture of receiving flowers.

3. Treat her like a lady: Giving an equal level respect to her, care and love which she is liable of to keep the lit of love and togetherness always existing within you and her. Show her your care by opening the doors for her whenever you have to enter. This applies to cars and buildings. When entering a building, open the door and allow her to enter first. Never walk in before the woman, this is considered rude and inconsiderate by some. Pull out her chair for her and wait for her to be seated before sitting down.

4. Don’t Talk work: Take it a rule of thumb, never ever talk about your work, unless your date asks about it. Answer her question, but keep it brief.

5. Have sense of humor: Women want to spare good time with their dates. Try to add humor and avoid dirty jokes as they can create a nasty environment which may lead to not good result! So, try to make your date laugh or at least make her smile with your wit and charm.

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Is it going to be your first date or a frequency of dates? If frequency, why haven’t you been able to sustain your date till time? What all consequences would have been for the failure for your past dates or if how do you want that your first ever date of your life remain memorable and always there for you.
It’s said and is a fact too, that it is not easy to understand women. But there lies one more point that she is natures ever created beauty that is a root for a family, a blossom for father, a flower for a husband and softness and fragrance for her kids. So, a man should understand that this care and love can only be beholded by a lady and that he should ever take care, give respect and love to the lady of his life.

As per the first time dating or even if you are dating frequently, remember that it should be a remarkable date for you both. The lost smile should be there, heart full of care and love and warmth of togetherness should always be visible from you.

The dating should refresh the evergreen memories of your past else if it’s the first then it should create the memories for ever. Freshness on your face, fresh flowers for your beloved one, a bit of flirting, a cheerful environment, a candle light dinner, slight movement in body for dance should be fantastic way to show your love on date.

On your date be active and not nasty because ladies prefer enjoying the date with togetherness and not with dirty happenings. Arrival on time is always essential for men for his lady and yes! Be a gentleman for her and dress up gently. Compliment her when you meet. Listen to her and ask questions.

Do remember your impression as it matters a lot and it even says that first impression is a last impression. So, if you are dating do consider about your dressing and looks.

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Being in shape and wearing clothes that greatly compliment your attitude are ideally more than enough to boost your confidence and have girls turning to you at a beach. However, there are a few other things that can help you in your beach babe quest. I have termed them ‘conversation starters’ as they play key role in breaking the ice when it comes to approaching a female on a beach.

Sun Cream – Let me tell you that you will rarely get refused if you choose carefully. Women will lie if they say they won’t get attracted to a tanned, hairless back and would love to apply it for you if you ask anyone to do so politely.

Drinks Cooler – This is one thing everyone looks upto on a beach. A perfect place for your beers and offering one such chilled one to a girl will rarely be denied. This can get you talking to her and making some space for yourself in her mind.

Ball - Yes, it is a toy indeed but one that can get an entire bunch on the beach playing around it. Whether it be volley ball or foot ball, the idea is to splash some fun and no woman who is sporty enough will deny it.

Radio/CD Player - For those who think otherwise, let me tell you that music can attract. What goes foul is when you start playing the beat box so loud that it starts ramming the notes down everyone’s throat present within half a musical mile. Do not keep basking in your musical tastes without being aware of the surroundings as you may end up being single and ‘deaf’ forever.

Boogie boards – This one can help you catch the eye almost instantly. If you have a collection already invite your lovely damsel to join in the surf. I’ll tell you why later. If you don’t have one then, go to a stall and buy a minimum of two of these. I am saying this because girls are rarely given this kind of opportunity so you can make the best of it.

Alright a few ‘don’ts’ now. Don’t ever carry a deck chair or lounger with you on a beach because you are supposed to be a man. You should be found swimming, playing sports or chatting to girls on a beach. Wearing mirror shades may be fun for girl spotting but to women you will be classified no less than a pervert so you better lose them.

The bottom line is whatever you do, don’t forget to include the girls you are interested in. If she is not interested, she may smile and say a no which is absolutely okay. You needn’t get too serious on that. So my dear friends, I wish you all the fun and frolic. Go hit the sands and fair well at your game!

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Dating more than one woman at a time is not new to some among us. When men do that, it gives them confidence and boosts their ego by thinking that they own the skill that very few possess. Some men can’t do away with just a single female in their life and here you are – dating various personality types at your own ease. But where does all this lead you? Well, let’s find out!

Most men think that dating several women keeps them away from acting clingy and desperate. But a sad thing here that men exercise is that they think that dating means they can also sleep with all their women. Let me tell you guys, you are going into a deep pothole if you keep going about sleeping with women like that. Having many physical relationships with several women is not fair to them and is extremely risky for you too. It’s not unheard of for women to go off birth control without telling their boyfriends.

If you think that possessing the skill to lure a new woman in bed every night makes you a real man, you need to throttle your grey cells a bit. You are absolutely wrong if you think so. In fact you are simply whiling away your precious energies by sharing yourself with so many females at a time. This is you will be engaged in impressing every girl by doing what she prefers the most and lose your own originality or let me say sanctity as a person.

For those you are unknown to al of this, let me tell you that nothing beats having a single partner that can challenge you, match your mental wavelength and impress you with her integrity, confidence, grace and solidarity. When you truly develop a bond based on mutual respect with the woman you are extremely attracted to, the feeling s much more gratifying than indulging with 5 other women at the same time and losing your real self.

So the lesson to be learnt is dump your ego and look for relationships with women that are your equals. This will make you happier in the long run and you’ll live a life free of guilt and self-reproach.

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For all those who think that wooing girls only requires buying them a drink or two, need to think once again as people who’ve had it, know that it is no less than an art and requires a fine knowledge about how different girls function, lest you’ll be caught unawares about what follows your move. A girl is dressed in a bikini does not mean that she is open to leering any other tact that men often employ to informally approach women. Until you are aware about what does she means by the signs she is indirectly directing at you, do not take any action. Read on to know how you can go about it!

One thing that you need to remember is that the beach is of full of people who are as bored as you are. Even if you pretend that it is a fascinating place to be, laying in the sands for a stretch of 8 to 9 hours takes away all the glory and interest that one may fancy at a place like this. Well, it is certainly a place to relax where most people you see are either half-dazed, blinded and asleep, not to mention the hangovers they are in. And if you think that babes out there are only in a mood to sleep, you are mistaken. Yes, they are right there, waiting for you to walk past, hit on them tastefully and if I am allowed to say, entertain them in the best way possible.

Now the first thing that you need to keep in mind is that please do not ogle at their busts right on their faces. This is one thing for sure which is isn’t going to get you anywhere. But yes, in order to break the ice, you certainly will have to do something that will make things happen. Alright the most obvious thing that catches your eye is the bikini clad girl who is indeed displaying her body. If she is attractive, she may know it quite well but her reason of displaying her body may not to be to just have you fancy her, but having a tan, you could say. So just hitting her straight by leering at her isn’t going to get you anywhere. She is smart and attractive and so the most important thing that you need to do is strike a direct conversation with her. Don’t just stroll past her, saying ‘hi there’. If you’ve spotted an attractive girl which seems single, go straight to her and strike a direct genuine conversation with her and listen carefully to what she says. If you are breathing shallow and holding your stomach, she’s sure going to catch you so avoid that. Also if you are more worried about your over all tan than she is, forget it.

Well, there is much more to add to it, the space but less. Look out for my next edition of write-ups in which I’ll be continuing talking about how to strike a conversation with her.
Until then, so long!

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