There is always a fear of word “Yes” or “No” when guys have to go out for dating. Today guys and gals have grown advance with the advancement in technology. There are many things that have evolved in the course of time rather than that of only meeting. Chatting, SMS’s, Video conferencing and many fast furious terminologies that now have been evolved to meet online rather than a personal meeting. However, one can never say that the date is complete till meet personally.

The first date can be a girl you have a crush on or meeting just casually. You are confused, palms are sweating and trying to come up with something exciting and funny, but are unable to say anything and the process goes in silence in conversation. And by the time you come in a position to speak… its time for the lady to say good bye!

Aaah… tried to have exciting day but all went wrong! We understand the above situation turned upside-down and was like a worst nightmare. But then, this is not the same with all men. Some guys do something boring on the first date. Plan to go to the movies together, sitting at a cafe, having an expensive dinner at a restaurant – the list is endless.

But then, are we impressing our lady and is the date planed the way it should be adventurous is it the same way! Think about it! What should be done to have the first date always memorable?

We try the following … they might be of use for you for your first date.
Stay calm and look fresh. The appointed day to meet - start your day with good music. Get dressed in a well and proper manner, may be in T-shirt and Jeans with Nike shoes and a good fragrance of perfume. Stay chill and happy and mood real refreshing.

Go to the market and purchase a nice good bouquet of flowers. Avoid gifts as you may not be aware whether whatever you take would be liked by her or not. So, no risk flowers still adorable gift for girls.

Reach to pick her from her home on time or if there is a place to meet reach there early. Take it a point never let your lady to reach before. If you know that possibility of Jam could be within the way leave your place early else it would be an insult for the lady.

Take her to a place where the crowd is not in heavy density. Walk and talk for things in your life and listen what she has to say from her side. And ya… point it the first date should be without any non-sense talk - Polite, humble and with respect. Listen to her and be a good listener. Then carry on this conversation to a good food in a good, hygienic restaurant. Share good words, good experiences, her taste of talk and share yours too.

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Summers are a perfect time of the year for the guys to take stock of the dating opportunities that this season brings them. Well, only if you do know what all you can get or miss during this time of the year. For those who have still not guessed, let me tell you that summers give you a wonderful opportunity to visit the beach – a perfect place for you to find babes and damsels without any hassles. But until you are want girls want to see in you, you are likely you miss all the fun and frolic this can get you.

I mean to say that you cannot afford to stay with your shirt on for long on a beach until you consciously intend to conceal something. So if you want attractive girls yearning to meet you on the sands, here are some things you need to do to style yourself to perfection to have the perfect beach date. Here we go!

Let me be very clear that you need to sort your body out before you hit the sands in summer. If you hit the gym in February, you will get into a confident packed May and from there on you’ll be ready to take on the world. Believe me you’ll feel a lot better but as they say such miracles do not happen overnight.

Let’s see what more do you need to do.
Pardon me for saying this but body hair do not fair very well when it comes to showing your bare skin on the beach. I have often seen some men flaunting huge bunches of hair around the shoulders and the back. As far as women are concerned, they do not find it attractive even by a fraction. Well, if you are wondering where do you lose all your flocks – at the salon my dear friends! And how? Waxing! Once in six weeks is anytime better than every week which girls do for their legs. Yes, it does hurt but this is just a little price you can pay if you really want damsels doting over you. Now a days even gyms have started having the facility of a special area that caters to waxing. And it will just take a few minutes so to say and will greatly add on to your desirability factor.

Alright once you are done with your body and the hair cover, consider going to a tanning salon for at least three sessions if you are pale. Going to the beach just to find your self as some alien from space may not seem to be a very cool sight. So once you are done with all this, you are all primed to get down to the beach and meet some babes. How do you have to conduct yourself once you get there is yet another skill set I will be discussing only in my next article. Until then, get your self started and be good!

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It’s been quiet some time since I have been talking about how men can find their dates on the beach. Since beach is a place where people usually come in a gay mood does not mean that one can take liberties in any which way thinking that all is well at a place like this. The fact of the matter is whether in office or on a beach, women need to be understood first and only then approached.

It is a matter of intelligent observation and striking a cord with a pinch of humor. So if you do find a damsel who seems as available and single as you are, instead of leering at her and seeing her reaction, go straight to her and start a light conversation if you are really serious. Most of the times beach babes are accompanied by their friends, Well, in this case you may also take your mate in tow but that can spell disaster is her friend does not like your pal. You’ll finally have your babe being dragged away from you. So the best way is to take it all alone.

Be as witty and charming as you can be while chatting with her. Even if her opening remarks may seem inviting, do not just lie on her sun lounger or offer her drink immediately. Do not invite her or her friends to your mates either. The fact is you may well impress her with your packs and abs but to leave her wanting for more, a dynamic conversation is what will actually break the ice. Your initial contact should be brief and you’ll have to spell magic within that time itself. Then retreat to play games with your mates in the surf whilst she looks on and discusses your potential with her friends. Later, it will be time for a longer visit for better conversation.

Also needless to say that women notice everything from top to bottom – all that you wear and all that you don’t. Hence take care about the kind of shades you ear to the briefs you flaunt. The best way out is to go to surf shop and know the essentials of all that is needed to be worn at a beach.

So here we are, you are in good shape, dressed well, carry subtle humor and most importantly are confident about making an open conversation. So just be yourself and have absolute fun!

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Hey ladies… going for a first time date? Are you excited? Are you confused? Don’t know what to do, how to do and where to start from?
Well.. Follow these steps… these might help you to overcome your part of doubts!
Don’t take things too serious. Be calm and relax and be the way you are. Don’t try to over highlight yourself or even under highlight yourself. At times Dating is been misunderstood in wrong way, however, the right version of dating is simply meeting. When you go out to date men for the first time, you are not aware of how the second person is like. You are not aware of his attitude, his behavior, his taste and his thoughts. So, it becomes but obvious to meet him and be casual and open the way as an individual you are and you are normally with your friends.

Dating is a long test of compatibility. One cannot say that the first meet will always last for ever. There may be points and conditions of yours as a woman which may not match to the man you are meeting. In today’s generation every one has the authority to choose her own match but then grapes are not sweet in every bunch, so, many arranged marriages work interestingly too.

In every society there are a predefined set of social rules we follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way we behave in public. The issue here is that when women date there are things that can help them be more successful. If we accept that dating is a game then there are rules to that game and winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance it gives you a head start. If men know the rules by which you are playing you may change the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge so feel free to adapt rule and add them as you feel inclined.

So, here are some tips for your first date:

1) Always look great. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick.

2) Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.

3) Never pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking.

4) Never ever come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile.

5) If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him

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Are you really looking for some sensual and romantic ways to propose? A great marriage proposal doesn’t have to be expensive or extravagant. Many women are more likely to cherish the memories of a proposal that was inexpensive but truly creative. The creativity is what makes the proposal so memorable and what makes it a great story to tell their friends. Many women dream about the day that the man of their dreams proposes to them and hope that the day will be absolutely perfect in every way imaginable. In a recent study the majority of married women reported that they believe that their spouse spent a significant amount of money on their wedding proposal but that the lack of originality in the proposal had left the women feeling disappointed. Here are some creative ways to propose your sweetie:

Do it in personal setting: U wants it personal (just you and her). Both can be intimate. Make the proposal about something you both share. Make sure what ever you say or how ever you do it its not embarrassing. Gets down on your knees and ask “Will You marry me?”

On a helicopter: Sign on the back of a helicopter saying “will you marry me?” it is so romantic. Decorate it with hearts and stuff it will look really nice. Surprise her, make it private. Profess your love for her; tell her it’s her special day.

Candlelit dinner: If your girl is really the one to go in for all the romantic stuff, then a candlelit dinner is the simplest and most romantic ways to propose. You can add a personal touch to it by getting the music group hired by the hotel, to play a list of her favorite tracks as well. The dim lights and the romantic tunes may just prove to be the right setting to pop the question. And hopefully it can definitely get you an affirmative reply!  Then you can propose towards the end of the lavish meal.

Bubbled bath: Proposing on water always wins the heart. Whether it is on a boat or simply by the water, the setting is always romantic, tranquil and composed. This one is bound to floor her. What you will need are some roses and a bubble bath. You will need to prepare a scented and hot bubble bath for your special someone. Do turn off the lights and use some candles. Scatter rose petals around and over the floor. Have some of these on her bed as well. Blindfold your partner and get her into the bedroom and ask her out.

Message in a Bottle: If your woman is romantic, she will love this one! Write the sweetest love letter you can think of. Write it by hand, and Say all the sweet things you can think of. Soak the paper in coffee, let it dry, and carefully burn the edges. This will give it that old and rustic but romantic look. Select a bottle that represents something special .Carefully roll up the letter into the bottle and seal it tight .Choose a location with water. Now take your sweetie there after a nice romantic activity .Walk to where the bottle is. Let her find it. Don’t even give any hints. She will find it. Ask her to read it out loud. When she’s done, tell her all the reasons you love her and why you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Break out the ring and ask her.

Buying a book: Another creative marriage proposal idea is to purchase a book of poems and leave the first few pages intact and carve a heart into the remaining pages and stitch the engagement ring to the back of the book. plan to have your girlfriend turn the final complete page to reveal the heart and ring that were hidden inside. This proposal idea is not only creative but also incredibly romantic.

At beach: Why not go about planning a surprise picnic in a spot that you both like and which again brings back happy memories of when you first started going out together. To further add to the romance of the occasion why not spell out “Marry Me” using some stones or seashells at the beach. A walk on the beach , stop on a pretty spot and ask her Or while your taking that walk have a friend set up a picnic on the beach and have them draw a heart in the sand walk up to the blanket then ask her “will you marry me”?

Gifting a bouquet: Another way of proposing marriage romantically to the woman of your dreams is by buying a dozen red roses and tie the ring onto the bouquet. Then when she sees it she will be very happy. Then ask her silently “will you marry me?”

A surprise visit: One creative way to propose for a couple involved in a long distance relationship is to plan a surprise visit .You could have a friend pick you up from the airport so that your girlfriend doesn’t know that you are coming to visit. You could hide a number of small surprises such as candy, flowers and a CD with the help of your friend. And then hide at the final location be prepared to propose when your girlfriend completes the game.

A memorable video: This is a very romantic, thoughtful, and impressive way to propose. Plan it out well. Start with the place you first met, your first date, and any other significant locations and places. At each place, put yourself in front of the camera and reminisce about your memories with your loved one. Once you’ve finished filming, add some music to it if you’d like or any other special touches. When it starts showing, she’s going to love it. When it’s over, arrange for the medium lights to go on, get on bended knee and do your thing. This will be a memorable event for a lifetime; you will both have and remember forever.

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Why is it that it is so tough for us to seek help when we are unable to lure the woman we are attracted to? I understand men don’t like to show themselves weak or helpless but  basking in your own failures doesn’t really help. If the success of having the kind of women you want has always eluded you, do not stay put. Wake up and get going!

Let me tell you the most common mistake men make!

For men who are smart, who regard themselves to be higher than the ‘lesser’ mortals and think that they have an answer to everything (and can never fail in anything) so they’ll find a way out for this too, here’s what they do and what makes it all go wrong.

Most smart men think that seeking more information will help them figure out a solution to this problem like all others. Just like they hop on the net when they want to find out about a new virus on the computer or find the meaning of a new word, they seek more information thinking it’ll help them get rid of the issue like all other technical things.

I am not saying that reading or learning about successful relationships doesn’t help. It does but if the nature of your problem is emotional, reading even a hundred theories around it won’t help. What I am trying to say is you need to get into the psyche of the women if you really want to know what they want.

Women are not machines. There are no algorithms they function upon. They are subtle, soft creatures lured by seeing how well their man understands them. Most women fall for guys who can arouse emotion in them rather than those who simply blabber, talking only about themselves all the time.

So don’t look for technical answers when it comes to impressing women. Instead learn how they function, what matters to them and what not, what makes them smile and what annoys them, what makes them approachable and what forbidding. I’m sure you have friends and they have their ladies too. So just keep your eyes and ears open and grey cell running. Talk to your friends, see how they manage their issues and make yourself a bit less rigid. Women can’t really get along with men who are made up of too many rules.

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I have repeatedly said that women are emotionally much intelligent than we men are. Hence thinking of winning them with our logical reasoning is a wrong notion most of us have. The simple rule is if you want to attract a woman, understand her.
Women are emotionally not only intelligent but also smart. They have their own ways of testing whether a man is emotionally compatible or not. So if men who think  they are virtually good at everything, can get away with this as easily, think again. Only if understanding a woman’s emotional quotient was that easy.

In a relationship, you can’t sit at home and think for hours to find smooth solutions to situations that confront you right at that hour. What I mean to say is some men have a habit of thinking how to tackle a particular situation for hours together and then act upon it. Let, me tell you this is not how it goes in a relationship. There are moments when your presence of mind and wit have to play a role to be able to manage the situation well. It has to be spontaneous and unconstrained. The most important thing in this regard is to keep your cool and know how to interact with a girl at an emotional level. Trying to be loud, restless or panicky will only give wrong signals to your partner about your incompetence in dealing with such emotional hold-ups.

Moreover, you must know how and when women try to bind you in words only to see how glibly you make your way out of it. On their part, it seems an effortless chore but you have to keep your grey cells ticking all the time.  Don’t ever take her silence for her dumbness. She is only trying to test your social skills and your fundamentals about handling basic emotional ambushes.

So before you think of dating an attractive women, remember that she is smarter in the game than you are and even before you decide to take your next step, she’ll judge you whether you both can get along well or not. So keep your swords chiseled and wits sharpened!

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Okay let me be precise. What do smart men do when they meet a woman who’s really attractive? Right, they start a logical conversation. They do so because they feel most comfortable while talking about things that suit them the most. What they don’t know is they are shooting themselves right in the foot by doing so. Let’s see how.
Most of us have a specific few tactics laid down before us which we keep repeating all the time, only to see that we have landed empty handed at the end of it all. When you start a logical conversation with a woman you’ve just met, you are basically taking out a neon sign that says “I don’t get it when it comes to women” and putting it on your head.

So what does these things include?  Well, most often talks about work and family take place. Discussions on politics, religion, weather and anything that has to do with math, science, or intelligence are the choicest things that are picked. No, it’s not bad to talk about these if only a conversation is what you want to focus on. But if your cynosure is the woman in front of you, then you need to get into a different skin.

Have you ever noticed that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys? The answer to this is;

Women don’t get attracted to men who make them think.

Women get attracted to men who make them FEEL

So even if you one of the most intelligent men on earth, it won’t really help until you know the language of the heart. Women are emotional beings. They need to be touched with words that stirs emotion in them, that makes them believe that you like them beyond their bodies. That you are in love with the beauty of their heart. If you think that talking about how the world works can alone help you win her heart, you need to get your facts right.

Its all about making her feel loved and logical conversations have no role to play in it.

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Click dating is said to be the blossom of online love.The search for a companion, friend, partner, or a ‘date’ to spice up one’s life is not a new phenomenon; yet, it seems to have undergone a revolution. Not too long ago, relationships began in restaurants, in church gatherings, or during social get-togethers, where the chemistry between two people formed the beginning of an equation. Locked gazes turned into loving exchanges, leading to clandestine meetings to discover the potential of the relationship.

Today, the networking generation gazes into the resplendent computer screen to connect to the happening world of the World Wide Web, waiting for that precious life-altering Click.

The best part about cyber dating is that you can get right to the point. You’re both there looking for some fun or a date or a life partner. You can check someone’s profile and see what they’re into. If you want to avoid smokers, or vegans you can do so.

And, one of the great things is, you don’t have to be perfect. If you aren’t the kind of person who can sail into a bar or party and turn heads you can play Cyrano and win people over with your words. Also, you never know what is going on brain wise with one of those head turners. At least on the internet you know someone is literate and can use a computer!

Busy schedules and lack of meeting opportunities make dating very difficult; the Internet has evolved into a mainstream part of life and Internet dating is now regarded as a logical choice, not a desperate and dangerous method. And of course, there are the success stories. While there are certainly some dangers to avoid, there are a lot of successful relationships that began with Internet dating. Almost everyone knows someone who met that way - and they’re not ashamed to say so! Internet dating has morphed from the unknown to a viable and efficient way to meet people who share your interests and are looking for the same level of commitment.

So what’s the trick behind the click? Pressures on time and huge career demands leave people with little time for special rendezvous. Further, work place romance is considered risky, with the looming threat of sexual harassment complaints. This means the numbers of single people is growing by the day, leaving a large pool of people wanting to date without hassles.

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Alright, here I am again starting from where I left earlier. This article will be a good read for people who are anticipating going on a date once again after a long lapse. It will also be highly helpful for youngsters who are budding lovers, newbies who are learning the art of dating. And for those who want to ask that attractive lady that passes by your street every day, these tips will have do good to you too. So what are we waiting for?

So after you’ve worked on your clothes, the shoes and sorted your job, here are some more serious things that you need to focus upon.

Being well-read helps!
You need to get your knowledge levels up if you intend to date a girl who is as intelligent as much as she is beautiful. Never think that you will impress her only by praising her physical beauty. If she is independent, she might be well read, with a sound knowledge of what’s going around. So make sure you are up to date with current affairs, watch the news and read quality papers. Smart women do not appreciate stupidity and laziness is no excuse. Conversation about current affairs will show you in good light, that you keep yourself informed about the outer world. If you travel a lot then this will help tremendously.

Never say that you drink too much!
If you think that your drinking 5 days a week in the bar will win your princess’s heart, you need to think again. Women whether outgoing or reserved are always the same. If they learn that the man they are dating is a die-hard drunkard, you find yourself sitting alone and dining in the restaurant where you thought you take her. If you love your booze sort yourself out as if there are other things in life too; you needn’t show her how crazy you are after it. Taking your lady for a drink is fine, but give them the impression that you live in there will get you absolutely nowhere - fast.

Talking sports!
Now pay attention to this. I know you love your sport. If your sport is not less than a religion for, you may have a problem but everything by degrees guys, in quantified measures to be precise. If you are serious about dating then ramming the subject of soccer, ball games or football down your date’s throat will put them off in record time. So always keep in mind that sport to the uninitiated is completely boring. It gives an impression that you are only flaunting a sheep mentality with lack of thought, creativity or inspiration. Yes, girls love sport too but it should not be grilled into the heads of those who prefer to stay away from it. This’ll show that you care for her.

So we see that these are simple but essential nitty gritty’s of dating that can make or break your day if not handled properly. All you need is to out in little effort and you’ll be ready to take on the world. The confidence is the key!

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