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Fri, October 31, 2008 7:36 am By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 How to get a woman is a question everybody often encounters. Ta last an impression on a woman. And intrigue their interest, you should follow a set of rules…or follow the following scenario about approaching women.
1. Examine something.
Make a remark about something you note in the surroundings. This is particularly effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering cheese, ask her if it is good there.Make your comment instant to the point and it will seem perfectly normal. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to observe and comment on.
2. Smile.
This shows her that you are welcoming and self-assured. An authentic smile not only feels excellent to you, but will put her at relieve while creating openness in the interaction — a requirement for building amity.
3. Do not stay back.
If you hesitate in your advance, this tells her that you are not feeling sure, an instant turn-off. When you see her, stroll to her within a little span of time (the three-second rule). Give her an idea about you that you are a man who knows what he desires and goes to get it.
4. Positive body language.
If you approach bent over with your head down, you send negative vibes about yourself, which makes you dull in her eyes before you begin. Stand upright, with shoulders back and upper body out, and use a firm yet calm walk.
5. Not too speedy
If you walk over speedily, you could likely set off her inner anxiety. A calm, relaxed approach is the best way to make her feel comfortable with you.
6. Don’t miss eye contact.
Never be the former to loose eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the signal that you don’t feel good about your move. When you don’t miss eye contact, she will feel more attracted to you. With practice, you can master this.
7. Listen up.
Make sure you take full interest in what she says. Do not have your response pre-prepared. Women love a man who pays heed to the particulars of what she says. If you start throwing out casual words, she will lose interest quickly.
8. Do not fidget.
Fidgeting after you approach is off-putting and shows you are not at ease. If you let her know that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uneasy too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay interest to those actions, or lack of movements, that communicate ease and poise.
9. Lighten your tone of voice.
The tone of your voice can be a very powerful tool. Getting up to her in a light and good-humored nature is one of the best fashions to start. You could also start in a stern tone, accusing her of something like “I hope you didn’t eat the whole pizza,” followed by a sudden beam to let her know you are teasing. Practice playing with your verbal tone with your pals–and notice the unusual reactions you get when you say the ditto same thing using varied tones and fluctuations.
10. Lean away from her.
A man who leans in too away when he speaks often makes a woman feel swarming. A better way to approach is to lean away from her a little. This lets her know that you respect her liberty, limits, and are relaxed with yourself.
The key to making these tips work for you is putting them into practice! Practice these tips and see the reaction you get. When you put them all together, you will be surprised at the power.
Tags: confidence, smile, observe
Thu, July 17, 2008 5:08 am By Jeff Dwelle
 By using innovative date ideas to plan your dates, you will be able to make every date you go on memorable and unique. A constantly changing ambiance will help keep your dates exciting and unexpected. If you focus on making every date unique, they will never get monotonous! Here are few innovative date ideas for exciting dating experiences.
• Play a board game: Look for romantic games which will help you get to know each other better.
• Feel around your outdoorsy self: Its creative and it can be an intimate way to be alone together. A park or a hilltop with an incredible view will be the best way to add some extra romance. You can bring all kinds of goodies too, like wine or hot chocolate, mini sandwiches, fruits and desserts.
• Go to an unusual restaurant together: Think different. Go to a restaurant which is not the usual place to dine.
• Visit local landmarks: Are there any local landmarks you have always wanted to see, but have not been able to? Maybe you partner has always wanted to visit those landmarks too. Explore them for your date.
No matter what imaginative date ideas you choose for you next special night together, be sure to keep it fun, and you can’t go wrong!
Tags: Paintball, go-karting, picnic, outdoorsy, skating, sport, board game, bowling, restaurant
Sun, June 22, 2008 10:39 am By James Coolridge
 An outing with the guys is a real fun to be off from the daily grind. The setting of your friend’s bachelor’s party is really relaxing, where burping and swearing are not censored.
But when you plan to accompany your girl to this ‘natural environment’, she may find the behaviour of your buddies sickening. She may even think of lessening the frequency of such jaunts. So to moderate the situation, build harmony between your girl and your pals. Follow a few tips to reverse her negative thoughts about your friends.
Clarify:
Ask your girl why she dislikes your friends. Ask questions such as “Does she think they cuss too much? Are they constantly checking out women? Does she believe they’re a bad influence on you?
Schedules:
It will be a turn-off if you cancel a movie night with your girl for a buddy’s birthday party. This may create ill-feelings for your buddy in the mind of your girl. Avoid clashes in the schedules so that you please both the parties.
Pay attention to everyone:
When you are hanging out with your buddies and your girl at the same time, make sure you are attentive to all of them.
Tags: girl, Buddies, pay attention, buddy’s birthday party
Thu, June 5, 2008 2:06 pm By James Coolridge
 So it is your date with your girl and you really don’t want to goof-up, isn’t it? Here are a few dating tips to help you.
• Switch-off your mobile: The regular “tring-tring” of your phone on a date will break the mood which you are trying to establish. If not switch off, silent mode can be excused. Express regret every time you pick the calls.
• Table manners: Eating wild with your hands and dripping at the table are turn-offs. Brush-up your skills in using a knife and fork.
• Do pay: Since you have invited her, make the payments. Even if she earns more than you, show your self-sufficiency.
• Tips: Though it is a small amount of money, women do notice it.
Tags: switch off mobile, tips, table manners.
Sat, April 5, 2008 10:24 am By James Coolridge
 Well, weddings are not just about free food and open bar, especially when a close friend is getting hitched. Consider this; amidst all the responsibilities of being the “best man” can you handle your date? Be your own judge:
1. The wedding card should have your name, together with “and guest”. You don’t want people to call you name, or worst, not invite you, do ya?
2. Some people plan small weddings because they don’t want a big one. Not everyone adheres to “the more the merrier” mentality. Cost can be the issue, too. If it is, don’t weigh your friend down with additional expenditures.
3. Be mindful of the people and the families of the wedding you are going to attend. They might have a problem taking the vow in front of strangers.
So the next time, when you decide to take you chick to some wedding, bear in mind the above and then you could sure flaunt your hottie!
Tags: Date, girl, wedding, guest
Fri, April 4, 2008 11:10 am By James Coolridge
 So it’s your best friend’s wedding and you wanna enjoy the occasion along with your date. Well, some circumstances often tell whether it is wise to bring a date or not. Some situations, probably your friend’s marriage, will just not be fit for your date. Make sure that you don’t mess up the whole thing by keeping in mind the following things.
Guests- strictly invited: Look at your invitation. If it addresses your name only, it is better not to bring her to avoid unnecessary scrambles.
Small weddings: Some people like to have small weddings. If your buddy doesn’t wanna have more people interfering in the private ceremony or if they are budgeting conscious, don’t weigh down your friend with additional expenditure by bringing your date to the marriage.
Occasions at your friend’s home: Mind your buddy’s comfort level. If he and his family is not comfortable in interacting with unfamiliar people, don’t bring your date with you, ‘coz it will end up in exchanging merely ‘artificial smiles’ and emotions.
Tags: friend’s wedding, your date, small wedding, occasions
Thu, April 3, 2008 12:38 pm By James Coolridge
 How can you say that you are too nice to a woman? Here are some of the indications:
• You are still hanging out with women as their “friends”.
• You are devoting all the time for her, sacrificing your personal life, your hobbies and your friends.
• You are too sincere and hones to her than she does.
• You compromise everything and give up avoiding conflicts.
• You idolize her.
The consequences?
Let us face it- being too nice is making your girl loose all the interest in you. She treats you nothing more than a doormat. Your image is projected as an insecure guy who is willing to give anything for a relationship. The ultimate result will be a destructive relationship. So, don’t act “too nice” to women.
Tags: girl, too nice, idolize
Wed, March 19, 2008 6:47 am By James Coolridge
 Intimacy is very important between couples of a lasting relationship. But, when she feels that you are not romantic enough, she may loose confidence in the relationship. Make sure that you go on and on. Follow a few ways to maintain romantic gestures and let her know that you can’t let her go off.
Go hand in hand:
Hold her hand while walking. When you greet her, hug her; give her a kiss to show how much you care about her. Put your arms around her while sitting on a couch.
Compliment her:
Appreciate and admire the things she does for you. And yeah, make sure the compliment is genuine!
Discuss things:
Communication lays the foundation of a strong relationship. If both of you can talk your heart out to each other, chances are, your relationship will stand a lifetime.
Tags: Intimacy, Hugs, Kisses
Wed, March 19, 2008 6:31 am By James Coolridge
 The obvious question that may run in your mind while dating is, “Should I pay on a date?” Don’t keep searching for your answer. Read on to get a fair idea.
When you are out on a date, the expenses may be for dinners, buying her gifts, flowers etc. Most guys feel highly obliged to make the payment. If you wanna woo her, I am damn sure that you won’t miss a chance to buy her gifts as well! I strongly believe the reason behind emptying your pockets is you guys want something in return. For instance, you will want to leave a good impression in the eyes of your date.
However, the reality is if you pay for things for women that you have just met or don’t know much will indicate that you are trying too hard to get them. Women who are attractive are very observant. They can make out guys in fraction of seconds. While dealing with guys, girls will easily distinguish if they are trying to “buy their attention”. So, be very careful while making such payments. Don’t let her feel that you are doing things to lure her.
It will be much better to allow her to feel attracted to you, without the distraction and expense. You will not need to be handling all her expenses if you wanna be successful in relationships.
Tags: Dating, Expenses on a date
Tue, March 18, 2008 6:12 am By James Coolridge
 Women love men who have their chivalric act right. And a dash of humor is just the icing on the cake. So all those ruthless lovers, here’s a thing to follow!
How funny are you?
There are basically two types of funny guys. You can be the first type where you make women laugh at you by cracking funny jokes. Or you can choose to be the other one, where you can reveal your sense of humor in a confident way. Women will surely laugh at you with a sense of attraction.
Release her tension:
Make your girl laugh with you. This will actually make her relaxed and comfortable when she is out on a date with you. This is the perfect chance of building up the relationship with your woman.
Charm her with your humor:
Make her think that it is really fun to be with you. Make sure that you don’t do some stupid stuff that makes her perceive you as a clown which will make her laugh at you and not laugh with you.
Tags: Laughter, Funny Chap
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