One of the most common goof-ups made by men, when it comes to complimenting their women is losing their impression or say their power by doing so. No, I am not saying that complimenting women is wrong. In fact it is one of the most important aspects that help you lure your woman but knowing the right way to do it is a skill all men ought to know.
In fact the approach most men follow to impress their ladies is flattery. If your intent is to flatter a woman by complimenting her for anything and everything, in a ‘sucking up tone’, you will surely see yourself fall in a pit. The ideal way should be to compliment her in an ‘approving tone’, which will help you put your point across without you losing any respect. By respect here, I mean romantic respect for if you start complimenting at the wink of an eye, she’ll start taking you for granted.

Let’s see some examples that reflect flattery in the way they are spoken:

“You look so very sexy in that dress” where this cannot be quoted as ‘bad’, telling this all too often may spoil the broth. On the other hand, if you convey it by saying, ‘I’m sure you know you look sexy in that dress” or “Not bad at all”, it adds on to the gravity you hold in you as a person. Saying something in a flirty manner works best at times as there should be some element of curiously still left despite your complimenting your lady.

There are so many other occasions where compliments are needed and you need to fair well in all of them. One such occasion would be when she invites you over for dinner. One of the best ways to put forth your mind would be “If you keep cooking so well, we could stop eating outside.” The smile on her face will tell you the respect with which she has acknowledged your compliment. I have often seen women giving just giving a dry smile when complimented in straight words and a bit too fast. When you are complimenting her, she should feel that it is coming from a credible source and it only and only depends on you.

So now that you know what to do and how, make sure you don’t lose the show the next time you put it.

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