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Tue, June 10, 2008 12:01 pm By James Coolridge  Printer friendly version
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 Communication plays an essential role in long distance relationships. You feel insecure when your sweetheart is thousands of miles away from you. So, letting her know how much you miss her presence, how lonely you feel without her is even more essential. Good communication will make the relationship stronger. Know how to use your options of communication in a better way.
• Telephone. Arrange specific times. Call her up in occasions that will make the moments special.
• E-mail. Send love notes whenever you are free from work.
• Instant Messaging (”IM”). Ask your partner when she will be free to chat online and send romantic instant messages.
• Mail: Though outdated, this is the most romantic way of communica
Tags: long distance relationship, telephone, mail, e-mail, IM.
Tue, May 20, 2008 1:21 pm By James Coolridge
 It may be fairly easy to initiate a conversation with a woman but it may be intimidating to ask her phone number. A lot of guys have fear or anxiety or whatever you call it, to ask a girl’s number. But hey, it is actually not a hard nut to crack! All you need to do is just approach correctly and then see; you will increase chances of attracting her interest and easily get her digits. Here is how.
Develop interest:
Girls won’t give away their phone numbers to men who are not interesting. Try to develop her interest in you. Approach her involve her into a playful conversation, show some dogged confidence.
Eye contact:
When you are in conversation with the girl, maintain eye-contact with her. Try to develop some sexual chemistry by looking deep into her eyes. Look long and adoringly into her eyes. Never look down (a sign of submission, timidity, and weakness) and never look at a woman’s breasts when you’re talking to her (a common mistake many men make). Women will reject you and consider you disrespectful if you do. Maintaining eye contact also says to a woman that you are interested in her and that you want to get to know her. If your gazing is powerful and sexy, she may give you her phone number!
Smile:
A smile sends a positive and important message. A smile says, “I will not reject you. I like you.” A smile combined with prolonged eye contact says, “I like you a lot. I want to know you. Let’s talk.”
Ask her digit!
Now that you have projected yourself as a confident and interesting guy, it is the time to ask her number. Remember never be too shy about asking her for her phone number. Even if you have only spoken with her for as little as one minute! Be direct. You can say something like, “I have to be going now. But I’d love to see you again. Can I call you?”
Tags: Conversation, Eye Contact, smile, phone number
Fri, April 4, 2008 11:12 am By James Coolridge
 Distance often breeds a sense of insecurity in your relationship. When you are far away from your partner, it is obvious to worry about what she is, with whom she is and what she is doing. This lack of confidence can lead to misunderstandings unless you absolutely trust each other. Know how to maintain trust in long distance relationship. Read on.
Mutual decision:
When the relationship demands long distance, talk about your feelings on this situation and make a mutual decision to the level of commitment- whether you wanna go a long way or have a short term relationship.
Agreement for honesty:
Make an agreement to maintain honesty in your relationship. If one party looks for a “change”, talk about it and find a solution beneficial for both of you.
Tags: long distance, honesty, trust.
Sat, March 29, 2008 1:14 pm By James Coolridge
 Seducing your woman is all about getting her to think about having sex and that way, she’ll have thoughts about wanting to have sex with you. Here are some of the seduction techniques.
Ambience:
First of all, create an ambience for lovemaking. Lighting will surely affect your mood. Avoid too bright lighting or too dull. Soft and subtle music always works.
Grab attention:
Make her want more from you. Arouse interest in her, making her horny to have sex with you. Convince her to visualize it.
Eye contact
Look deep into her eyes, it will surely work! Learn to maintain steady gaze.
Your smile:
Don’t always show your teeth while smiling. Maintain a controlled smile while trying to seduce your girl.
Tags: Eye Contact, Seduction techniques, smile, ambience
Wed, March 26, 2008 12:27 pm By James Coolridge
 If words convey what is running in your mind, your body language can convey what your persona is. When you are dating a woman, your body language can send her a signal whether you are the “one” or ham-fisted who will spoil her mood. So guys, pay a lot of attention to your body language. Follow a few tips:
Don’t be taut:
Chill out. Relax your facial muscles and don’t tense your jaw.
Voice quality:
Don’t rush. Speak calmly, slowly and confidently. The tonal quality of your voice can be very obsessive!
Don’t droop:
Don’t slouch and raise your shoulders every now and then. She will think that you are nervous. Keep them relax at all times.
Your overall body movement:
Do not make it seem that you are rushing for time.
If you body language perfectly matches what you say, you will succeed with women. So guys mind your non-verbal communication with her and take the lead in the dating game!!
Tags: Body Language, voice quality
Mon, March 24, 2008 3:25 pm By James Coolridge
 To start conversation with a girl easily is not the toughest nut to crack. You just need to know what attracts her. Read on to get more:
What are her areas of interests?
Get an idea of the topics which interests her. This way, she won’t feel that you aren’t boring.
Ask her opinions:
Don’t go on talking non-stop. Let something slip from her mouth as well. Ask her opinions so that she doesn’t think you are more talkative.
Comments and feedbacks:
Follow her with your comments and feedback. This will open up new topics. You can either share your experience or just ask few more queries about the topic.
No close ended questions: Always use open-ended questions so that she will speak more rather than answering you in “Yes” or “No”
This way you won’t end up in just staring at each other! Go ahead and start your conversation!
Tags: Dating, Conversation, girl
Thu, March 20, 2008 8:58 am By James Coolridge
 Women like real men, who don’t behave like mamma’s little boy. To become an all- women- desire kinda man, you need to be flaunting your masculine stance. Read on to get more:
Display leadership:
Women will fall for you if you know how to lead the people.
Have own beliefs and directions:
If you are goal oriented and don’t give a damn to the judgments of other people, women will be attracted towards you.
Self-confidence:
Women will buzz around you if you have a lot of self-confidence.
Stay calm:
Try to stay calm in circumstances which can shoot up your temper.
Passionate:
Women will feel awestruck if you are passionate about your own life and just don’t revolve around a woman.
Decisive:
If you are able to make your own decisions without bothering about the rest of the world, then you are in the hit list.
Tags: Attractive, Decisive, Self-Confidence
Wed, March 19, 2008 6:38 am By James Coolridge
 Wanna know what women want from men? Here’s the list of traits of men which attract women:
Charisma:
If you are calm and reserved, you will be enticing to women. Don’t be jittery while talking to her. If you are nervous, it’ll be quite obvious to her.
Confidence:
Women are attracted to confident men. A woman will want her man to believe in himself and be at ease with his disposal
Body language:
Body language is a great turn on. Your confidence reflects in your body language. Even if your smile is powerful, your girl will buzz around you like a bee! This way, you can easily take hold of her.
Tone of the voice:
The power and confident exuded in your voice can be very obsessive! Tonal quality of your voice can set the pulse of your woman racing!
Tags: Seduce, Body Language, Tone Of Your Voice
Tue, March 18, 2008 6:16 am By James Coolridge
 Are you in conversation with a woman whom you wanna impress? Don’t screw up the whole thing by your hum and haw. Boost up your confidence and follow a few tips to keep the conversation in a smooth flow.
This is not an interview!
Don’t treat your date like a job interviewee. Although should you want to know about her, make the conversation light-hearted and friendly.
Talk less, listen more:
Women like those men who lend an ear to them. Listen to them who are sharing their emotions and feelings.
Make eye contact:
Hold your eye contact just a little longer. This will show that you are a confident man.
Take the lead:
If you feel the conversation has reached a sagging point, don’t hesitate to take the lead. Switch over to some other interesting topics.
Give your feedback:
Respond cleverly if she asks for your opinion. Use words such as “Yes”, or “I understand”. This will show that you are actually listening to her and not just hearing.
Talking to women is not as hard as you think. Just keep the tips in mind and astound her with your expressions!
Tags: Conversation, Way Of Talking
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