All relations go through a period where one has to say sorry to other. And if you want your relationship to sustain then you need to know how to apologize. At times it is not enough that you say sorry and your relation becomes the way it was. Many men refuse to say sorry because their ego gets in the way. But if you value your partner and want your relation to continue, then keep your ego aside and say SORRY.

Here are some tips to make apology:

1. While discussing your problem, accept whatever the partner has to say openly. Let her speak. If you feel you are at mistake say SORRY.

2. Do not make excuses and play the blame-game. It makes the problem worse and you might land up in ending your relationship. Make softer the apology with food, flowers or even a meaningful card which says you are SORRY.

3. Do not be in hurry. Let her take her own time. Do not decide anything at spur of the moment. Just stay at your decision to say SORRY.

4. Give her the time. With time she might understand that your apology is true and sincere. If she is refusing to accept your apology, try again after few days. Just do not insist her much at the same time.

5. Do not be defensive all the time about the mistakes you have made. Accept your mistakes truly and honestly. She will respect you more once you do it.

6. If you are living together, then give your partner some space. She will be more willing to hear you once she has calmed down. And will accept your apology.

7. Do not make an effort to be intimate or hug and kiss her unless she says so. Doing so does not make up for your mistakes.

Simple and yet some significant actions of yours can lessen the wound and pain in a relationship. Just remember you do not make the same mistake again. It might be difficult for you to get back gain then. So be cautious of your mistakes. The warmth and tenderness of your relation will develop with time, so keep the trust. She will get back to you in the same manner. And you both will be happy together.

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